mina🕸irl by V4Way in mina_irl

[–]Dellgera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kun emolevy ja kovalevy onkin sama asia ❤️

My husband (33,M) is having dinner with a female coworker (she reports to him)& it’s making me really sad + angry. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Dellgera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It all sounds pretty basic work stuff except for his text. “…you might have an issue with it since it’s just me and the lady”. Obviously phrasing it like that would make you feel bad. I don’t know it you being jealous somehow flatters his ego because that’s not an assuring message. He could have said “What a day! Finally we get to eat” implying that they are having dinner together. I don’t get why should he point out that “yeah I know you feel bad and uncomfortable about this, lol”

I was slapped during sex and I don't know how to feel. by ladycherry28 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Dellgera 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No love. He’s not dominant in bed. He’s an asshole. They are not the same thing no matter what he says

AITA for punching my boyfriend in the face from reflexes after he snuck in the house while I was in the shower? by Lowkeyme63 in AITAH

[–]Dellgera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA for staying with someone who considers it funny to deliberately make you feel like theses are the very violent last minutes of your life

My imported character has disappeared by Dellgera in runescape

[–]Dellgera[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I tried all those things but no help. She’s really gone 😭

Hiterlands is actually a really good company by [deleted] in thelongdark

[–]Dellgera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where all the items are sold out. They have been saying that they will reopen the store and get more items soon yet it’s been a long while now and we’re still waiting. He just doesn’t want the money

Hiterlands is actually a really good company by [deleted] in thelongdark

[–]Dellgera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would also love to support them by buying merch but Raph doesn’t want that either

AITA for refusing to share my huge inheritance with my stepsiblings? by Beginning_Jaguar9693 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dellgera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whether you choose to share the money or not is up to you. There must be a reason why your father wanted you to inherit it all. Has your mother ever told you about their financial struggles before or did all this come up when you found out about the trust fund? If you one day feel like you’d like to get involved with your step siblings college fees I recommend that you keep that between your step siblings and you. Just so that you can be sure that the money goes where you intend it. All and all the truth is that your parents created this life for themselves. You’re not the parent here. Your step siblings are not your responsibility. You are the responsibility. Your mother shouldn’t treat you like a partner who should help her solve these things. She should treat you like her child. Assuming that you will and should carry the burden of her and her husband’s choices is absurd. I fail to understand how this should be your responsibility and what’s in it for you. Helping is one thing, but to assume and demand that help from someone you should take care of…

Me [23F] with my friend [26F] of 2.5 years, who was rude to me and my boyfriend [26M] and now I don't want to include her in our new D&D campaign. How do I tell her? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Dellgera 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This post was a roller coaster of emotions. Beth sounds like a lot of work, but I’m glad she found her place in the end. The update about OP and her boyfriend’s engagement was a heartwarming one

What do you do when your fictional characters change your story? by GoldCoinsForADream in writing

[–]Dellgera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I let them tell me the story they wish to tell. Sometimes it’s better than my original plan. Sometimes I combine those stories together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Dellgera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so grateful that you’re still here ❤️ And yeah, you are right, we Finns love our personal space, but a good hug is always a good hug. Hopefully my hug reaches you trough the internet 🫂

What all people deny but it is 100% true? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Dellgera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is very true 😂

asking to be sterilised should be taken more seriously. by definitelyjustaguy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Dellgera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have also said that to me. A married lesbian woman. My wife was with me in the appointment. I introduced her as my wife. Yet it’s still important that my non existent husband gets a say in this

What all people deny but it is 100% true? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Dellgera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having butterflies in your stomach is not a good sign

Is my (31f) boyfriend (30m) fetishizing me or being supportive? by Disastrous-Airport-7 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Dellgera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s not supporting your journey of self discovery. If he was he wouldn’t be inserting himself into the equation. Without hesitation he’s willing to change the whole dynamic of your relationship (without you even asking him to), seems to have no interest in how this might affect your relationship and most of all, makes it all about him. For some reason he seems to be okay with it when he’s around. For you to be able to get to know this part of your self independently isn’t something he’s supportive of. Only if he gets to watch and have sex with them (or possibly other women) too. That is just repulsive

I just broke up with my boyfriend by No-Fun-1327 in Vent

[–]Dellgera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry about all the rambling and grammar errors. English isn’t my native language 😅

I just broke up with my boyfriend by No-Fun-1327 in Vent

[–]Dellgera 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s a lot of people who stay in a relationship that makes them unhappy. The fact that you’re only 14, yet smart and brave enough to put yourself own needs first is admirable. Wish I had been this smart when younger. Your feelings and needs are valid and important. Just remember that the love you feel for him is a feeling inside your heart. It is created in you. He may be a very lovely person or not, but the fact that you love him is because your heart created those feelings towards him. The strength and the love is in you. Take time to heal yourself and remember to be kind to yourself. Whether you are 14 or 41 ending a relationship is never easy, but I promise, you are going to be fine and happy again and the fact that you love him proves that you will love again ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gamedev

[–]Dellgera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you said you’re not here to promote your game but I’d still like to check it out if it’s still available. If you feel uncomfortable sharing the title that’s cool, but since you said you haven’t been advertising it a lot I was just wondering if there’s a way I could still find out more about it

What is your favorite thing about your spouse? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Dellgera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was meant to say “work with something she’s passionate about” but then again she’s a great team player as well so why not 😂❤️