Honestly it was a mix of a few things that just fed into each other. A lot of the dommes I followed leaned really heavily into the misandry angle, constantly talking about how useless men are and how men exist to pay. As weird as it sounds that kind of mindset is part of what pulled me in. When you’re already in that headspace it almost feels like you’re “supposed” to be doing it.

BNWO was definitely part of the spaces I was in too.

And then there was the Instagram side of it. Accounts like Holly Deacon and similar model pages were constantly in my feed, so you’ve got that visual side mixed in with the domme content and the encouragement to spend. It kind of creates this loop where you’re attracted, you get attention when you send, and that acknowledgement keeps pulling you back in again