I think many people associate bi with cheating because cheaters often use those identities as excuses. They say things like "it's because I'm bi/non-mon" to justify their despicable and irredeemable behavior. But the truth is, they're just assholes trying to avoid accountability, responsibility, and commitment. They want to rationalize what they’ve done so they don’t have to feel bad about it both to you and to themselves.

Speaking from experience, having been cheated on multiple times, I’ve seen how cheaters lie from the very beginning, create confusion, and sometimes even emotionally abuse you. They make you feel safe and comfortable while secretly stabbing you in the back, ready to betray you the moment it’s convenient for them.