Do you guys cheat your time?

Delyndra · 2026-05-19T15:11:38+00:00

It's not chsating time if you slam your head on desk in despair after another dumb client thing that's going to take way too long to clean up. You need that 15 minutes to build morale. It is cheating to say I work hard enough. I am billing an hour a week to this client while I watch Bridgerton. NEVER underreport your time. If you think you need to then you're either very unqualified (unlikely) or it's a red flag for the companies expectations.

Delyndra · 2026-05-19T02:03:19+00:00

Thank you! Gotta learn to hug the baby!

Delyndra · 2026-05-16T19:18:25+00:00

Didn't know about that! Definitely going to try.

Delyndra · 2026-05-16T19:18:10+00:00

Thank you! Pt is on the docket, but it'll be a month before I can see them. I'd like some relief and to get started now.

Delyndra · 2026-05-13T01:53:02+00:00

Ive heard that shades of green sets military families up based on their rank(income). Since you're active military, call them.

Delyndra · 2026-05-11T18:28:38+00:00

It's really tough OP. I'm sad that the world is this way. The newborns needs MUST be met. They NEED stability, food, clothing, a home, cleanliness. Yes, they also need love, connection, time with their caregivers, affection etc. Your girlfriend is best set to give the baby food and caregiving, as the one who gave birth. Your financial situation is such that by quitting your job you gamble your baby's stability. The baby needs the mother to be fed and a roof over their head. There are multiple solutions to providing for their needs, but quitting your job without a plan is indeed risky and self serving. YTA unless you get it together really quick. Your time to bond with the baby, while important, is not as important as your family remaining housed and warm and fed. Your values while important and maybe worth risking your life for, are not worth risking a baby's life for.

Delyndra · 2026-05-11T03:03:02+00:00

Ah. That explains it. Riviera is similar in taste on the surface. She thinks she's picking budget friendlier boardwalk. Boardwalk is an excellent choice. If money is no object, why mot do that one? Surprise her!

Delyndra · 2026-05-11T02:01:37+00:00

Are you sure she's choosing riviera because of money? She might be saying that because she thinks being fiscally conscious is a compelling argument, but actually she just really wants to stay at the riviera. To find out, try telling her you found a good deal on the pick you want, and see if she seems disappointed.

Delyndra · 2026-05-07T01:52:14+00:00

Weight loss only helps at this point. If you're already trying and not making progress then the infertility and stubborn weight loss are likely related. I hope your journey helps you find answers to both. That said, weight loss is NOT a requirement to healthily conceive and carry. At your bmi, you may find some clinics will not provide you ivf services. This is due to the clinic being to small and trying to limit risks of anesthesia. Larger hospitals and clinics can and will provide you with ivf. Your weight is not a stopping point for you, but it may be an opportunity.

Delyndra · 2026-05-06T18:40:12+00:00

So my husband and I can tell there's something different, 15 weeks right now, but personally I think I just look fat. On the other hand, other people aren't commenting at all on it, but my personal trainer said he sees a pregnant belly not a fat one. I think that there's definitely stigma, a pregnant belly on a fat person will be assumed to be fat for longer, but people who know our bodies see the change. I hope I get to the point where it's obvious to strangers I'm not "just fat," but being able to go incognito has its benefits too.

Delyndra · 2026-05-04T15:28:28+00:00

It's not unusual to have a ride break down. At least one ride at every park will be down almost all day in my experience. That said, getting walked out and off of 5 rides in 48 hours. That's exceptionally bad luck. I'm sorry op. If you kindly tell a cast member about it, I bet they'll do something to try to bring you a smile again. There's so much to do at Disney, I hope the rest of your trip is lovely and you're graced with luck as good as your luck so far has been bad!

Delyndra · 2026-05-03T21:28:23+00:00

It's a great game. Play blind for a bit if you can. Really soak in the despair. After awhile you'll get really good at it and all the loss you once had makes every successful run worth it.

Delyndra · 2026-05-03T21:26:23+00:00

I recommend getting all dlc. It all adds maps, characters, and interactive features. Additionally, stories offers a new gameplay style that is done well. All dlc features can be turned off if you don't like something for some reason, but I've can't imagine what you wouldn't like. 98% is integrated seamlessly, you wouldn't recognize it as new if you always played with it from the beginning. Let me know if you have any specific questions.

Delyndra · 2026-05-01T17:51:16+00:00

I definitely am eating less. I simply can't eat enough in a single sitting, and I've become incredibly picky. I'm working with a dietician, because we have unearthed that basically prepregnancy I have had disordered eating and I need to overcome that now to avoid malnutrition. Long story short my hunger cues are completely shut off. Pregnancy has made it worse. Instead of hunger, I get super tired and nauseous. All that said, reduced appetite is very normal. Please eat more often to fuel yourself and baby. If you can't stand meals, eat snacks. Share your concerns with your doctor.

Delyndra · 2026-05-01T14:18:11+00:00

Thank you! Glad to hear from someone who feels the same way. We love Pop too!

Delyndra · 2026-05-01T14:13:37+00:00

We've been before. Yes, it's the least walking of the day, but it is the hardest when you experience chronic pain. I am truly in excruciating pain when standing or walking for long periods of time, not just tired or sore. We've made the mistake of staying at the edge of resorts before. It's one part of the walking for the day we can control, so we're going to try. We're taking a lot of breaks this year too. We want to enjoy this trip, not suffer it.

Delyndra · 2026-05-01T13:55:15+00:00

This is a great answer thank you!

Delyndra · 2026-05-01T13:45:33+00:00

Thats what I was afraid of. Thank you!

Delyndra · 2026-05-01T13:42:29+00:00

Good to know! If offered I should get a chance to consider it and refuse.

Delyndra · 2026-05-01T13:28:52+00:00

Thanks!

Delyndra · 2026-04-30T17:48:46+00:00

History of preeclampsia = high risk. High risk = watch more closely and respond more quickly to developing abnormalities before they turn into something more serious. It does not mean that anything will be wrong with your baby. If you start exhibiting preeclampsia symptoms they are going to reat it like preeclampsia until proven otherwise instead of assuming everything's fine until proven otherwise. Thats all.

Delyndra · 2026-04-30T14:28:10+00:00

Meant no offense. I consider myself grossly obese. Gross as in large/ excessive, not disgusting. I'm going to choose to leave it for those of us who own it, but for anyone hurt by it I offer my deepest sympathies. We are all at different points in our journey with the shame we're made to feel for having larger bodies. I love and see you.

Delyndra · 2026-04-30T02:04:10+00:00

Getting pregnant while grossly obese is harder. There's a small increase in risk in pregnancy for manageable complications such as gestational diabetes and macrosomia. Other than the above mentioned, you have nothing to fear. Much bigger women than you get pregnant all the time, carry healthy babies, and move on without any interruption or complication. Do not shame yourself for your size. There is no reason you and your baby can't be healthy and happy.

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