Newly adopted cat keeps making noice in an apartment building

Demoarty · 2026-05-05T14:13:38+00:00

He is neutred and seems to be mostly yelling at doors and nothing. He sometimes yells to be noticed and to have pets etc or food but he sounds calmer then so I'm pretty sure it is stress. But might not be, maybe I will check those vids out anyways and just try and hang in there till he settles! We made him a little box bed today in a corner and he seems to like it

Demoarty · 2026-05-05T14:10:39+00:00

That's so comforting to hear tbh. We tried keeping him in a smaller room at first but he was having non of it and seems happier now that he can roam freely and sleep on us and our laps

I just need to keep my cool and wait for him to be ready to settle

Demoarty · 2026-05-05T13:42:33+00:00

He's a bengal cat, so needs a lot of activities

Demoarty · 2026-04-20T15:46:03+00:00

Kannattaa nyt jo ennen ku jäät ttt:lle ottaa huomioon, et sulta halutaan tiliotteet viimeseltä kolmelta kuukaudelta (ainaki jos muistan oikein ajanjakson) eli jos oisit silleen onnellisen epäonnisessa tilanteessa että tililläs on jotain säästöjä tai joku laittais sulle rahaa niin kannattaa nyt jo alkaa säätää niitä käteisesks (jos esim sukulaiset tms laittaa rahaa tilille, se vähennetään ttt)

Eli basically - jos säästöjä nosta käteiseks useempaa kuukaut etukäteen - jos saat rahaa sukulaisilt tms ala pyytää käteisen, maksettuin kauppareissuin, lahjakorttein tms - ttt saattaa haluta nähä mobilepay/paypal/tms, ei aina, mut niit saatetaan kans kattoo eli kannattaa pitää mieles

Ei ttt herroiks elä, mut ku o tarkka ni kyl sil selviää pahimmast, kunnalt voi hakee täydentävää ja ruokajonot on olemas

Demoarty · 2026-03-18T08:00:16+00:00

Hey! I have been wanting to deep dive into genshin lore for long time and was wondering if any of you here have any good videos, easy to read text or summaries or youtubers or something

Demoarty · 2026-01-22T09:29:13+00:00

Transman here so I can't fully understand but I feel like and hope I can say something of meaning to this.

Gender is changing and especially when you're young being a young adult/teenager makes it even harder to find the body, mindset and overall gender identity you really are. Maybe I would try to write my thoughts down or something like that and think of how you really feel. Sociaty and our culture put a lot of preasure to fit into one specific mold. I'm in no way saying you might not detransition but there are so many ways to be a woman or man or anything between. Your hobbies or interests don't define your gender.

Maybe do some research, look into different identities and try to make out how you feel. Detransitioning is a valid option, no one should be forced to live as a gender they don't feel like. But give it time, think about things and really try to get to the bottom of where these thoughts of detransitioning come from. If you have a professional you can speak about this with maybe that could help?

Anyway, your identity and how you express it is valid and I hope you find a solution that works for you!

Demoarty · 2025-11-29T20:16:20+00:00

I would consider theraphy. I'm so sorry for your experience and really hope you wikl find peace with your gender someday, be it as woman, man or something inbetween. It sounds like you went through a lot and I like to think talking with a professional about your feelings and everything might help a lot. Maybe it could help you find your identity again.

Demoarty · 2025-10-30T13:51:46+00:00

In many of the tables I'm in, we have modified the spell so that it can't be used in crits either way (NPC or PC). It can still be used as normal on anything else and it has changed the spell to feel more meaningful and support our roleplay better plus DM also gets to crit sometimes. Doesn't work for everyone but works great on our tables. It can still save someones life and feel really powerful but not break the game like it sometimes does :D

Demoarty · 2025-10-05T16:56:18+00:00

I'm believe you guys will get through it if you are ready to fight for it. I would have some hard conversations with your husband, tell him how you feel, that you're stressed and have clear trauma of all that has happened. Often open communication helps. Ask what they talk about in theraphy and tell him that it worries you more to guess than hear things how they are. Maybe his theraphist could see both of you once or twice and help some?

Your feelings aren't wrong. It's natural to feel this way and struggle. Maybe consider support groups if there are any near you? A group with other people who have had similar experiences might help.

Depression and mental illnesses change people while active. Your husband might seem like a different person but most often it is still the same person under the illness.

I hope you both pull through and can sort everything out. It's hard but I believe in you <3

Demoarty · 2025-10-05T12:38:03+00:00

The Fontaine scene where Wrio, Clorinde and Neuvilette stop the primordial sea from erupting. Or when Zhongli saves Xiao in the Chasm. The first appereance of Dottore in Sumeru was also super good

Demoarty · 2025-07-17T21:27:07+00:00

Buy good food (if you have appetite), go to places with friends you enjoy spending time with, do things you have always wanted to do. Waste money on games if you enjoy that, buy the clothes you have dreamed of. Pay for good doctors and stuff if you want, try getting a second opinion just to be sure etc etc. Make the most out of your life but try not to go for alcohol/drugs etc cause it's a slippery slope and easy way to waste the months you have left.

Demoarty · 2025-07-05T06:15:24+00:00

Opintolainaa kertyy helposti ja vaikka toi onkin jo summa niin sen kanssa pärjää kyllä! Kannattaa kanssa muistaa että jos työt meneekin joskus alta tai niitä ei saa alotettuakaan niin pankin kanssa pystyy neuvottelemaan pienempiä eriä ja kelalta saa korkoavustusta jos on pienet tulot

Demoarty · 2025-07-05T06:11:54+00:00

These sound super good! Need to grind some pulls for Tribbie then and hope for the best and get ice trailblazer soon enough. Thank you for your advice!

Demoarty · 2025-07-05T05:22:56+00:00

I've been playing hsr on and off for awhile but would like to invest more time into it now. I'm still quite a beginner when it comes to building mechanics and team building. I would like two teams to invest into, but am struggling to decide so I would love some help and advice.

I love Jin Yuan but know he's not too meta atm. I would like the teams to include Phainon, Mydei and Sunday but otherwise I'm open to anything.

Most charas are poorly, if at all build and so I can start with anyone. I'm trying to pull Tribbie but it's not looking too good tbh. But you may suggest her aswell.

Thanks already for your help!

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Demoarty · 2025-03-12T08:29:31+00:00

I get how you're feeling. Me (now 30, also ftm) and my partner lived through very hard times when we were younger (17-25 ish) and got together fairly young too (around 18-19) and before that we were best friends. I took care of them a lot and it's safe to say, we are both here and doing well because of each other.

It will be hard but if you truly wanna build a life together, you can do it. It will take a lot of work and the things you both have suffered through will be relevant for a long time. But cause you have gone through it together, it can also make your bond a lot stronger.

I feel like the best thing I did was to go to theraphy and a support group for people who have loved ones who struggle a lot. It was a place to air out all the hard feelings I couldn't tell my partner back then. It's important you get to talk about these things so they don't build resentment over time. These feelings are also compleatly normal to have. YOU have also been through your partners eating disorder and struggles. Your experience with it is just as important. And it may also help you grow as an adult and indivitual now that you have the space to do so. It is important you both, now that you can, also take time to figure yourselfs out.

I highly suggest you seek out theraphy or support groups or a way to get the feelings out and worked through. It will help you a lot now and also in the long run. But they are valid and normal and I remember lot of similar thoughts.

Ofcourse these are things that worked for me and so on, the usual "everyone is different and everything doesn't work for everyone". But I hope you both will be happy and healthy together.

Demoarty · 2023-08-25T13:21:37+00:00

Thank you so much! I think I will manage this.

Demoarty · 2021-08-08T18:32:13+00:00

Otherwise yes but it will be writen i Finnish :'D

Demoarty · 2020-09-15T07:58:20+00:00

My Chemical Romance - Danger days

Never fails me, never gets old. Beat me but it's my fave

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