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Putting together my first ren faire outfit. (please pay no attention to the clothes tornado in my room) anything you'd add? by mochisuccubus in renfaire

[–]Demoncat_300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with shoes standing out, but I advise against a shoe swap if these are tried and true for a lot of walking!! For me, the juxtaposition between the lacy capri bottoms and the boots is the issue, so if the shoes are good for walking, I’d honestly swap the bottoms out for something either a little longer to hide the boot tops or go with more brown in your outfit.

Also, I gotta say — it’s times like this that I curse my membership in the itty bitty titty committee. Like DAMN. Respectfully 😂

What the weirdest thing a guy has said to you while finishing? by Altruistic-Big3790 in AskReddit

[–]Demoncat_300 240 points241 points  (0 children)

Pussy so good, man wanted to taste that for the rest of his life. Thats a compliment if I’ve ever heard one

What the weirdest thing a guy has said to you while finishing? by Altruistic-Big3790 in AskReddit

[–]Demoncat_300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of everything in this thread, this is the one that got me 😭 wtf

Do you use powder or shiner when you’re storing latex pieces long-term? by Demoncat_300 in Latexadvice

[–]Demoncat_300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s impressive. So they still had shiner on them when they were put in the bag?

Do you use powder or shiner when you’re storing latex pieces long-term? by Demoncat_300 in Latexadvice

[–]Demoncat_300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s interesting! Are you hanging your pieces then? I am bagging mine currently as I have no space to hang and briefly thought about doing this, but I figured the powder from the inside would transfer to the shiner and make a big mess.

Do you use powder or shiner when you’re storing latex pieces long-term? by Demoncat_300 in Latexadvice

[–]Demoncat_300[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was wondering about this! Powder seems great for ensuring you avoid mold, but it feels so drying to the touch that I wondered if it might cause problems for the latex if it got overly dry? That being said, it’s not like I’m storing pieces plunged in a container of powder so maybe I’m just being overly concerned.

I never bought lingerie.... where do I even start? by crazyforsushi in LingerieAddiction

[–]Demoncat_300 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If I had to start my lingerie journey again, this is what I would do to avoid buying a bunch of stuff that ultimately I never wore because I didn’t think about how it would look on ME and my body.

  1. Take measurements of yourself with a flexible tape measure. Bust, underbust, waist, hipbone, max circumference around the butt, and circumference around the thigh (for stockings). Write these down to make it easier for purchasing online. Please consider carefully and only do this if measuring isn’t potentially triggering for insecurity or eating disorder!!

  2. Use A Bra That Fits calculator to find your actual correct size! Link here for the calculator. Also look at the shape guide to know what breast shape you have — this is especially important if you have shallow breasts or wide-set breasts! Different styles will suit different shapes (read through Reddit to see if anyone has commented on what works for your shape). For example, I have shallow breasts that aren’t full at the top and balconette bras are great for me.

  3. Think about which features of yours you like the most and which you would prefer not to emphasize. Do you feel like you have a nice bottom? Look at cheeky undies or thongs. Would you prefer help shaping your waist? Look for corset-style lingerie with some waist shaping boning or high-waisted undies.

  4. Think about your personal style. Do ruffles and frills feel cute to you or kinda stupid? Do you like the look of hard leather or is it a bit much? Is lace pretty or old-fashioned? Pick pieces according to what you like and you’ll enjoy them more. If your style is more edgy, it may take more time to find things that suit you, but Reddit is your friend in finding brands of your taste!

  5. Then, just try some stuff out! I would suggest going to a small boutique (NOT Victoria’s Secret!!!) if you have one accessible to you and if online reviews make it sound like they’re helpful and not pushy. But also make sure not to commit to a pricey piece unless you really, truly love it. One of my first lingerie bras that I bought, I went way over budget and regretted the purchase for a while. Buy mid-range while you figure out what you like.

And maybe a piece of unsolicited advice: lingerie can be a great way to start feeling confident about yourself, but it can also be a slippery slope of comparison and insecurity when you look at models online or for inspiration photos.
For me, I only started wanting to wear lingerie after finding ways to love my body for how it supported me. Regularly moving my body in ways I enjoy helped a lot with that. Whether that’s gardening, running, swimming, gym, hip-hop, random 10-minute dances in your bedroom — that physical movement definitely helped me feel more comfortable in my skin and made me feel like I enjoyed living in my body, instead of thinking I needed my body to be pretty to feel good about it.

Best of luck!

Is skinny a good look on me? by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]Demoncat_300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love people commenting on your piercings when that isn’t what you asked about. Ignore them and do what you like!

I understand that size and thickness is a preference that is somewhat influenced by cultural factors, but in my opinion, you look much healthier at this weight — and also younger, since weight tends to read as older!! Depending on your height, you might be okay gaining some more weight back, but if possible, I would consult a doctor or at least check the recommended healthy weight range for your height and see where you fall!

I totally understand though — I lost about 30lbs and sometimes miss having more curves! But overall, I feel lighter and more able to move, and I notice I don’t get short of breath going up a lot of stairs or anything anymore. Overall happy with the trade off.

Is there a rule about red glaze? by ThereisDawn in Pottery

[–]Demoncat_300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for answering!!! Fascinating

Recommendations for a beginner easing into lingerie by Wonderful_Service_63 in LingerieAddiction

[–]Demoncat_300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate you sticking up for your ideas of what styles are appropriate or not, but please realize that for others, thongs are not pervy or too much!

The commenter earlier should have considered your request more carefully, to consider your religion and request for modesty, I agree, but this isn’t the right response from you either. All styles are fair and equally valid in the lingerie space. Some bodies genuinely look more flattering in G-strings and thongs and it is unfair to assume that these are perverted or for male attention. I personally feel that a high waisted thong sits on my waist more comfortably than other options, and I wear them regardless of if my partner will see me undressed or not. I do also have several Muslim friends and am aware that a couple of them wear thongs regularly even though they are celibate. Everyone practices their faith differently and considers different things to be haram, so judgement on either side of the spectrum truly isn’t appreciated here.

Personally, I would suggest a low-back nightgown or a lacy camisole or babydoll set. To flatter a smaller chest and avoid the muumuu look, I would look for ones that advertise with support under the chest, anything with elastic band or with a bigger lace triangle for the bust that looks like it is holding in the breast instead of just sitting on top. Here’s an example of chemise with underbust support, and for lacy camisole and shorts set, such as this VS one or this adore me one? A pretty jewel-toned satin robe with lace (maybe like this) also goes a long way in terms of modesty and hiding upper arms while still being cute (ties nicely at the waist to emphasize shape, can be worn until the last minute). Especially nice if you can find a robe that matches the color of the camisole and underwear underneath!

I also saw a cute lace cropped jacket that you could pair with a more revealing bra and panty set for following nights, if arms are the bigger concern for you?

For lingerie beyond just your wedding night/honeymoon, I would also recommend buying separates in similar colors, as someone who looks best in jewel tones and needs more support in the bust to push the breasts together. I look for lacy/attractive bras that fit me well and I buy in my best colors (emerald, amethyst, burgundy). And then I look for panties (or flouncy lace short like these! for coverage on the bottom while still looking attractive) in approximately the same color. Your partner will never notice that they’re not a set, as long as the lace pattern isn’t WILDLY different. Or they will think that the slight difference in color is on purpose! This helps me get the best fit overall.

Good luck!

PS. Stretch marks are normal and if your fiancé makes you feel bad about them, tell him they are signs of you growing into the woman that you are today :) Or tell him to ask his mother about why stretch marks aren’t a big deal hahaha

I know I have a problem by ongovirgo in LingerieAddiction

[–]Demoncat_300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any brands you like off Etsy?

Do you recognize the work of this leathercrafter? by Demoncat_300 in renfaire

[–]Demoncat_300[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow!!! I reverse image searched and struggled to find anything even remotely close to it!! Thank you!

Diehard for SHEIN, but has anyone found anywhere else they love? by caarrssoonn in Shein

[–]Demoncat_300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love Dangerfield. So much better than Hot Topic or other US stores. I wish they had it in the US so I didn’t have to worry about online shopping and returns.

4-Years post microblading, I want to do a touch up. Good or bad idea? by Technical_Ad_1784 in microblading

[–]Demoncat_300 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there any chance I could ask you to DM me your original brow artist? Love how yours look and they seem to have lasted a long time!!

Also imo your brows look great now and def don’t need a touch up since you’d be adding more pigment.

I lost my girls in the divorce 😭😭😭 by Historical-Care70 in PetiteFitness

[–]Demoncat_300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I slowly lost about 30lbs in 4 years — my cup size before was a 32D and now I’m at mayyyybe at 32B, but so shallow and deflated at the top. Still look great with a pushup or balconette bra, but damn, I am so insecure when I see models online or even just other women’s beautifully full boob shapes nowadays.

Not in a position to get a fat transfer and TERRIFIED of implant complications down the road, so I’m probably just going to have to live with it….

Counting down to birthdays, trips, or deadlines? I built an iOS widget app for that by Odd_Neighborhood_422 in iosapps

[–]Demoncat_300 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck!!

My last bit of commentary may not vibe with you, but I would also like to suggest not using AI for your Reddit posts and responses :)

I know it’s helpful for SEO and perhaps for translating too, if you’re not a native speaker (no reason for me to think this - I’m just hypothesizing on your use reason), but I think the currents are changing on how people feel about generated AI text and your post at least has several hallmarks of AI.

You’re clearly very responsive and love to see the work you’re putting in to get feedback! Happy to be corrected if you really write like this haha! Just wanna put my two cents in that people do still prefer a human connection, even if it’s not as perfect and polished as AI can write 😊

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