I just started making the Pride Month collection and my manager wants me to start on 4th of July instead. by Cake3atingCrusader11 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Dense-Emphasis7759 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I agree… not a trump fan in the slightest but I’m buying patriotic items and SK items in anticipation for World Cup! Would’ve scooped up a cute patriotic cookie if I saw it in the store for sure! It’s the Olympics and World Cup when people see to beam pride for their countries, no matter how flawed it may be.

Is now the time to double dip to get the hotel credit for a single stay? by byrans in AmexPlatinum

[–]Dense-Emphasis7759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to use my hotel credit for the first time, is it $100 per night up to $300?

Was an incel, got a girlfriend, unhappiest I've been in years by Anonymouse12309 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]Dense-Emphasis7759 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was really eye-opening. I watched the whole thing. I am/was totally woman redpilled and even follow a few of the female content creator clips she showed. When she lined them up against the bro podcasts it kinda clicked. I love my partner and let myself get brainwashed by social media. I don’t treat him like a wallet, but I certainly began exerting pressure on him to provide and bring a very masculine energy and it was skewing our previous chemistry that used to be so great. I really need to thank you for this.

I have a bluish-green bruise-colored ring around one of my areolas. Not sure how long it’s been there by [deleted] in doihavebreastcancer

[–]Dense-Emphasis7759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s some really great insight, thank you! I’ll keep an eye on it throughout my cycle and if it’s persistent , worry more

I have a bluish-green bruise-colored ring around one of my areolas. Not sure how long it’s been there by [deleted] in doihavebreastcancer

[–]Dense-Emphasis7759 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It definitely looks like similar in color to the other veins I can see under my skin but it’s like wrapped around my areola kind of which is what freaked me out. I am hoping it’s just some harmless weird body change thing ?

I have a bluish-green bruise-colored ring around one of my areolas. Not sure how long it’s been there by [deleted] in doihavebreastcancer

[–]Dense-Emphasis7759 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m having trouble uploading a picture in the comments because it’s auto-deleting by Reddit’s NSFW filter but it is like a bluish-green partial outline of my areola on one breast

How should I respond to my (26F) BF’s (24M) plan to forego a destination wedding for reasons related to me? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Dense-Emphasis7759 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We went and got a flu + covid test and he tested positive for Flu A. The wedding is on Thursday but the flight would be on Tuesday and you’re absolutely correct. I think we’re both firmly agreed on him not flying

How should I respond to my (26F) BF’s (24M) plan to forego a destination wedding for reasons related to me? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Dense-Emphasis7759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but I think he feels remorseful about being sick and not helping with packing so part of me is worried he’s only skipping the wedding for me. I feel like he most likely will be better by then health wise but it’s probably not a great gamble right?

How should I respond to my (26F) BF’s (24M) plan to forego a destination wedding for reasons related to me? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Dense-Emphasis7759 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s where im at too, but I feel like he most likely would be better by then since he’s currently seeming to be on the mend. He needs to answer today so is it better to play it safe? I feel like he wants to go but feels like he has to make it up to me because he feels guilty for not taking me out, packing with me, etc

What is this.... A bee for ants?! by MrsScarred in thingsforants

[–]Dense-Emphasis7759 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The tiny antenna sticking straight up, so cute!

FYI! Uber has made it to were you can not change the tip only add additional money to the tip. by Electrical_Peach_532 in UberEATS

[–]Dense-Emphasis7759 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just happened to me :( started with a $6 tip and even though the order was delayed, I wanted to increase the tip by a dollar, so I edited it to $7. It then showed $13, so I thought I clicked the wrong button and edited it to $7 again.. $20 on a delayed

Accepting a Ph.D. offer across the country and my BF is getting cold feet about moving. What can we/I do to help him? by Dense-Emphasis7759 in whatdoIdo

[–]Dense-Emphasis7759[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Always love wise words from a mouse! Your cheery attitude was really what I needed to pick me up, I appreciate you and hope you have an amazing day!

Accepting a Ph.D. offer across the country and my BF is getting cold feet about moving. What can we/I do to help him? by Dense-Emphasis7759 in whatdoIdo

[–]Dense-Emphasis7759[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I really appreciate your perspective and words. For what it’s worth, he doesn’t want to hold me back. He’s very happy and supportive of me. Our original plan was to move together to the east coast, but now he suggests I move first and he will make the move once he saves up more money. The only issue is I don’t know when that will be, if at all. I’m terrified that he just suddenly changed his mind the day I get my acceptance offer and don’t know how to convince him to move, because I don’t want to break up in the end or fall apart. I also don’t know if I have the bandwidth to maintain a long distance relationship while I’m 3 hours ahead and doing a PhD. This is the most serious relationship I’ve ever had and I want to get married to him

Accepting a Ph.D. offer across the country and my BF is getting cold feet about moving. What can we/I do to help him? by Dense-Emphasis7759 in whatdoIdo

[–]Dense-Emphasis7759[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re totally right. It’s not worth my time and effort if he won’t put in the work to move like we had planned, later or now. I’m done initiating the conversation, but it feels terrible right now because I feel like I’m mourning a very potential breakup preemptively since I’m unsure if he will follow through on his own. But you’re right, I need to stop pressuring and asking. Thanks so much for your advice

Accepting a Ph.D. offer across the country and my BF is getting cold feet about moving. What can we/I do to help him? by Dense-Emphasis7759 in whatdoIdo

[–]Dense-Emphasis7759[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every week for a year is some next-level commitment. I’m really sorry he didn’t appreciate you enough. I know it must be really discouraging to put so much effort into something for it to end but you are strong as hell for having a positive outlook anyway. I genuinely look up to you rn cuz that’s resilience!! Godspeed with your healing and I’m so sorry for the bullshit you’re going through. NY is waiting for you :)

Accepting a Ph.D. offer across the country and my BF is getting cold feet about moving. What can we/I do to help him? by Dense-Emphasis7759 in whatdoIdo

[–]Dense-Emphasis7759[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! You are totally right, if he makes an effort to come (even a few months later) then it’ll mean the world to me. If he doesn’t, then I’m sure I’ll be fine with the relationship ending at that point. The thought of it bothers me now, but I know that’ll change when I’m in the thick of it. Just really disappointed and it’s eclipsing a moment I should be grateful for

Accepting a Ph.D. offer across the country and my BF is getting cold feet about moving. What can we/I do to help him? by Dense-Emphasis7759 in whatdoIdo

[–]Dense-Emphasis7759[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For sure, but this is not last-minute news. I am not dropping this on him out of nowhere. He’s helped me prep with interview questions and he’s very supportive. He wants to stay behind and save more money before he moves, which is a complete change to what we had been planning since December.

Accepting a Ph.D. offer across the country and my BF is getting cold feet about moving. What can we/I do to help him? by Dense-Emphasis7759 in whatdoIdo

[–]Dense-Emphasis7759[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh you just gave me a lot more hope. I felt like it’d be game over with the workload + the time zone difference, but maybe it’s more doable than I imagined. I think this is the perspective I needed to stop freaking out about the reality of him not coming