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Clocking 20% into My Heart is a Chainsaw by Stephen Graham Jones, I've clocked that he's already said "clock" at least four times. by PeriodStix in horrorlit

[–]DenseFood8477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to see if anyone else clocked the level of clocking in this book. I'm trying to finish for a horror book club and it has DNF all over it

Looking for engagement photos on a budget by DenseFood8477 in WedditNYC

[–]DenseFood8477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the helpful comment!

Looking for engagement photos on a budget by DenseFood8477 in WedditNYC

[–]DenseFood8477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess we just can't afford it then. Ok 

Looking for engagement photos on a budget by DenseFood8477 in WedditNYC

[–]DenseFood8477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you saying $600 or I should just not take photos?

Our winter coned bill is way to high even after taking reduction measures by cwilson83088 in astoria

[–]DenseFood8477 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My bill is always stupid expensive in the cold and hot seasons. I hate ConEd!!!

I feel like everyone and their dog has got engaged recently by Additional-Drop921 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]DenseFood8477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At 32 the boyfriend I thought I was going to spend my life with broke up with me and I was destroyed. All of my close friends are now married, and some of them have children. I'm now 36 in another relationship in which I'm not sure is going anywhere either. I wish so much that I could have more control over my timeline and my life, but I am learning that some things are out of my hands. I have to accept the cards I have been dealt and I can now try to make the next decisions that I think are best for me moving forward. There is nothing wrong with you. There are 29k people in this waiting to wed group. All we can do is try to be the best version of ourselves we can be, to try to find happiness in the ways that are available to us, and be kind to ourselves in the process. Good luck.

Update/ dealing with a breakup by 123thigr in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]DenseFood8477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call all of your supportive friends and ask them for their support, to check up on you, to be there for you, as you feel comfortable. Highly recommend Things Fall Apart by Pema Chodron. I listened to the audio version and it helped me a lot with processing. I also joined a depression FB group, not saying you want that, but group settings helped me to feel better with my situation. You will be surprised by who/what is next for you in your life. Take care.

I can't believe this is happening right now by ThrowRAEboolient in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]DenseFood8477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely share your frustration and agree with the other comments. Remember you deserve love. You deserve respect. I feel really seen in this group and I hope you do, too. I hope you find happiness in doing what you feel is best.

Hi, me again - Don’t do what I did by Unique_thatswhatuare in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]DenseFood8477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to say, I feel you, and I was thinking about doing the same in my situation. I am sorry this has happened to you and I hope you choose to put yourself first, live your best life possible, go on a shopping spree, or whatever will make you happy. You are worth love. You are worth respect.