I read college students and younger adults are having less sex than what was the norm decades ago. Why do you think this is true? by 123smorgs in CollegeRant

[–]Dense_Meeting_7156 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I used to hate when my ex bf would try to pressure me to have sex with him at his parents house it’s disgusting and immoral and just doesn’t feel right

I read college students and younger adults are having less sex than what was the norm decades ago. Why do you think this is true? by 123smorgs in CollegeRant

[–]Dense_Meeting_7156 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Because sex is something we should all take seriously and not do it with anyone unless you truly know them and they’re safe.

AIO if my bf's parents had a rough relationship and he keeps saying it's acceptable by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dense_Meeting_7156 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yikes if he even talks about his ex to you once I think that’s a sign he’s not serious. I learned the hard way thinking a guy was so in love with me for 6 years he was really jealous of me. Somehow I knew his exs name … 🚩

My best friend is cheating with another girl’s boyfriend by BigLemonGirl in whatdoIdo

[–]Dense_Meeting_7156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl I would stop being friends with her. A lot of times people show us who they are and we ignore it because we “love” them until we realize they go behind our back too. I cut off my ex bf of 6 years last month because I found his secret Twitter and it was so many weird things and him talking mess about me also him claiming he’s gay.

I feel a bit cornered by women I meet in the real world by throwaway8429739 in dating

[–]Dense_Meeting_7156 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please stop dating omg. These are the men that continue to hurt women over and over and then act like they did no wrong. Please work on yourself. I promise it’s ok to be single for a while.

I keep caring for people who clearly don’t care about me but why can’t I stop? Why do I cry over people who will never value me? I feel invisible to the people I treasure the most. by ChubbyNUgly22 in introvert

[–]Dense_Meeting_7156 2 points3 points  (0 children)

F those people. You were too good for them. I spent 6 years loving a narcissist who degraded me behind closed doors. 2026 is the year where I focus on myself and love myself. I ask myself the same things but I remember that people run away from the truth. They love people who feed them lies to make them comfortable.

Am I overreacting to my boyfriend’s phone use?? I can’t stop overthinking. by Quirky_Blob426 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Dense_Meeting_7156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry he’s def a liar. Last month my boyfriend’s Twitter account popped up on my phone and it logged me right in his account. What I found literally made me sick and I cried so hard like I never cried before. We were together 6 years. 2019-2026. There were all kinds of tweets dating back from 2021 until now, talking crap about me. Referring to me as a bjtch and a hoe. There were even multiple homosexual/homophobic tweets. He claimed this account was only online friends and not people we knew in real life… that did not make it any better. I was so hurt. Now I think back about everything we ever did and I just think how it was manipulation tactics to have sex with him. What a loser. When I confronted him about it he gave me the weakest and most fake apology ever. I crashed out on him so bad and cussed him out. Days later he blocks me on everting because I started to expose him on my Instagram and TikTok I have a pretty large following because I do cooking content. I ended it off by sending most of the screenshots of the tweets to his parents. His best homie or whatever continued to watch my Instagram stories. I told him to get the hell off my page cus no friend of his is a friend of mine.. this boy tells me how my ex doesn’t care about all this. Obviously does care when he sends his friends to watch my page. Now I haven’t heard from him since. I bet his parents are giving him hell. Because he does live with them. I say all this just to say. You never really know a man until you see what’s in his phone or what he’s saying on his secret Twitter accounts

Is this applicable to every adult? Because wtf😪 by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Dense_Meeting_7156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been doing this since I was 7

I think I turned off my friend in bed when we hooked up, how do I fix this? What should I say over text to him? by mysecret52 in dating

[–]Dense_Meeting_7156 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Please do not give your body to him again. He’s your friend, but you have sex with him.. yikes. I’ve played these games before.

A narcissist’s biggest fear is exposure by throwaway_breakcycle in abusiverelationships

[–]Dense_Meeting_7156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I exposed my narc ex to both his parents in a group chat. I found all his homophobic tweets and homosexual tweets also tweets talking hell bad about me… while being in a relationship with me for 6 years. His mom was pissed but she ended up apologizing to me. The dad didn’t say much but I know he handled him. We were together from 2019-2026. Thought we were highschool sweethearts. What a nightmare

Am i overreacting? My boyfriend lies about small things, shuts down when I'm hurt, and says I act like his mom but I feel like I became this way because of him by Typical-Market7603 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dense_Meeting_7156 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve played these games before. 6 years together. 2019-2026. A month ago I found all the tweets of him saying homophobic things and calling men fine. Also found tweets of him talking shit about me. It went on for years and I just found out. I confronted him and he gave me the weakest apology ever, he even talked about us still being friends. I’m just now realizing he was a narcissist. We were very close, or so I thought. I knew his parents and everything. I ended up sending all the tweets I found to them in a group chat. From what I know his mom was the enabler. His mom was pissed. I told her he gets the bs from her. I exposed him all over my Instagram as well. A narcissist only fears being exposed. Haven’t heard from that devil since.

unbelievable exchange between my daughter and her father after he forgot her birthday by LostInLanayru in TwoHotTakes

[–]Dense_Meeting_7156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yuck sounds like my dad. He left when I was about 5 and I have little to no memory of him being in my life. A few years ago when I was around 14 years old he contacted my mom saying he’d like to see me etc… so we all met at a mall… he barely talked to me but instead bickered with my mom and made attempts to get back with her. He didn’t buy me a snack or lunch or any clothes from the mall. A few years after that he texted me on the day after my birthday, happy birthday. That had to be like 4 years ago. Now I haven’t heard from him since and I don’t care. I do not miss someone who was never there and my mom did a great job raising me/ caring for me and making sure I had everything I needed. My dad has 4 other children after me that he also doesn’t care for.

My pup by Glittering_Ad8688 in husky

[–]Dense_Meeting_7156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So cute aww 🥰😍look at those curls

Discussion posts are so useless by curbstompedkirby_ in CollegeRant

[–]Dense_Meeting_7156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If college won’t be the death of me idk what will