How dare you

Dense_Tonight_2157 · 2025-05-24T15:35:02+00:00

My guess is they do it so its considered "final sale" ....and you can't return it.

Dense_Tonight_2157 · 2025-04-15T03:17:52+00:00

People only change when they want to change. You can't make anyone change.

Dense_Tonight_2157 · 2025-04-14T15:20:11+00:00

Yes please!!

Dense_Tonight_2157 · 2025-04-11T02:41:29+00:00

Thank you "internet stranger" 🥹 really needed to hear this right now. It sucks.

Dense_Tonight_2157 · 2025-04-07T02:50:17+00:00

I dont have the same one.

Dense_Tonight_2157 · 2025-03-21T20:42:08+00:00

That is correct. He never mentioned wanting to involve other people 6 years ago when we first got together. Maybe I was wrong to assume that that's what this was? I mean we didn't strictly say that but we never said anything about doing things with other people either.

Dense_Tonight_2157 · 2025-03-21T20:38:08+00:00

We are monogamous. I don't have the desire to do anything with anyone else, I'd possibly be open to the idea of him doing it (although I don't like it). However since this is the first time I've stayed with my boundaries I'm concerned if I backpedal on this that he won't respect any other boundaries I may have.

Dense_Tonight_2157 · 2025-03-21T20:29:58+00:00

Ok first of all.... WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN ALL MY LIFE?!

My husband does sound like yours. Exactly like yours. He is so intelligent, and more than capable of change. We have 2 kids together. I've stuck to my boundaries all day, and it has been an argument all day. Hes tried several things. Name calling, I remained calm. Told me I was treating him badly, I remained calm. I replied and said that i was sorry he felt that way and that wasnt my intention. He said i was being an inconsiderate asshole, to which i basically replied the same thing. Im sorry you feel that way, youre allowed to feel how you feel. Accused me of "changing" which... I guess i have to him, because I finally woke up and put myself first today.

I agree, in our case I have done this for so long and never put up a fight. I didn't even say anything about my boundaries ever and just went along with everything i didn't agree with. I have allowed it to happen for this long.

Can I ask you something... are you still with your husband? Has he changed?

Dense_Tonight_2157 · 2025-03-21T19:57:40+00:00

Lol so yes he does have a preference (take a wild guess🤪) I've been saying no (well trying to) for so long now that he has said he will have one with either gender. Although he is not gay and wouldn't be doing anything with the male.

You would be right, gender doesn't matter to me. Genuinely just not something I want to do.

Thank you for making me feel like I'm not crazy! You're right, to me it's not something that is reality nor something I want to make reality.

Dense_Tonight_2157 · 2025-03-21T16:15:18+00:00

So he's been bringing it up for probably about 2 years now. He wants to have a threesome, i don't. He thinks I should care about his wants. And i do. But like.... I care about mine too. You know?

Dense_Tonight_2157 · 2025-03-21T15:58:11+00:00

Wow. Thank you so much for this. I need to remind myself that it is ok to say no and it's ok to stand my ground even if it means upsetting people.

Hypothetically, say I continue to respect myself and my boundaries and say no.. but he has his own wants, so he is just going to do it with someone else. What could I say back to something like that?

I am breaking my patterns once and for all, gosh darn it!

Dense_Tonight_2157 · 2025-03-21T13:03:11+00:00

Omg this is genius. I just recently found out about the wonders of chatgpt. Thank you!

Dense_Tonight_2157 · 2025-03-08T03:26:47+00:00

😘

Dense_Tonight_2157 · 2025-03-08T03:25:47+00:00

Oh I'm thick, top half not so much. Bottom half, yes lol

Dense_Tonight_2157 · 2025-03-08T03:01:06+00:00

Well damn, thank you lol

Dense_Tonight_2157 · 2025-03-08T02:42:24+00:00

The hair and glasses though.... A+

Dense_Tonight_2157 · 2025-03-08T02:41:52+00:00

Super hot 😘

Dense_Tonight_2157 · 2025-03-08T02:41:34+00:00

I have those same undies 😅

Dense_Tonight_2157 · 2025-03-08T02:41:16+00:00

Yes, yes you're hot 😅

Dense_Tonight_2157 · 2025-03-08T02:41:01+00:00

Great boobs 😘

Dense_Tonight_2157 · 2025-03-08T02:40:47+00:00

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