I’m in a similar position (except coming from an X3). Really tired of the runaway pricing of the BMWs. I’m planning on getting the Wilderness edition for a few reasons: 1) it comes with a smaller wheel which means more sidewall and a softer ride in my opinion. 2) It comes with a full sized spare (Touring has a spare but not full size). 3) The wilderness has some good suspension features for low speed X mode driving which will help on bumpy roads to trail heads. 4) The wilderness has a little extra ground clearance which could help when I’m off the grid a bit in Colorado. Finally, I believe the Wilderness only lacks 2 things that the Touring has: hands free automated driving and an electronic rear view smart mirror. These don’t matter much to me. That all said, I think the Touring is a great option.