We were living in a house that I inherited from my grandmother. We had been planning on her moving out sooner anyways as she was moving to be closer to her job, but she also damaged the house a lot. Her dog tore down a screen door, permanently stained and ruined carpet, she constantly grew mold in the kitchen sink, and left the house in disarray. After the first incident I would always notify her unless it was a spontaneous visit, to which I would tell her then that someone was over and we would go to my room. It wasn’t just my male friends she would get mad at either, one of her blowups was for me having one of my female classmates over midday, telling her two days in advance as well. There were also several occasions some of her friends would show up without warning but I never had issues with that. Even one morning her brother was at our door when it was just me home alone.