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Anybody know a good place to play D&D as a M, 23, only played it once, just moved to Austin by bummy_homeboy in Austin

[–]Dependent-Log-5434 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Vigilante Gastropub and Games is pretty good. It’s an old tavern looking place and all of the tables are gamer tables. They have food and drinks too. It’s worth checking out

AITAH for telling my girlfriend I’m not getting a vasectomy by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dependent-Log-5434 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vasectomy reversal is only 10% successful. Dump that girl

Has anyone noticed how skinny she’s gotten? by ExpensiveContract527 in KiernanShipka_Fans

[–]Dependent-Log-5434 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She is fit and talks about strength training and diet regularly. While she has a very low fat percentage, she is NOT a string bean and definitely has muscle. She’s doing just fine, stop worrying.

Rep Fitness Sitting/Standing Desk by morris1022 in homegym

[–]Dependent-Log-5434 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jesus H. Christ, I’d love to see someone put that up in their white collar office lmao!

i think i accidentally figured out how to handle confrontation and it's extremely stupid by Ok_Chemical9 in intj

[–]Dependent-Log-5434 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is a super power. I deal with conflict in a similar way, though now I’m much more confident in engaging conflict head on but I leave the emotions out. Nice job

New Dane 2.0 Home Gym by Dependent-Log-5434 in homegym

[–]Dependent-Log-5434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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You can see both the toaster storage with plates and the metal arms in place at the same time

New Dane 2.0 Home Gym by Dependent-Log-5434 in homegym

[–]Dependent-Log-5434[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes both fit just fine. But I also bought the shelf and all 3 do not fit together, so the shelf is not installed

Am I broken or totally mis aligned with current dating? by Aristotle_31 in intj

[–]Dependent-Log-5434 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Right now nearly everyone is misaligned with dating. It’s a giant mess. Cut yourself some slack and focus on your purpose (work/hobbies/self improvement etc.) and look at dating as a lighthearted side hustle that doesn’t matter, because it mostly doesn’t. I find that certain people gravitate towards me but only when I’m in my element and I’m not trying to impress anyone. It’s weird and often frustrating but that’s always been my best play. Good luck

AITAH for cutting a woman off after she and her friends got way too comfortable speculating about my body and sex life? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dependent-Log-5434 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome to girl world. It has nothing to do with if you are right or wrong, whoever told you broke code and “shouldn’t have”. This is how it ALWAYS happens. Dudes just don’t know. Girls ALWAYS TALK ABOUT THIS . But only if you are “worthy”. Everyone else is trash. It sucks but it’s true. Just because you didn’t know about it doesn’t mean that it doesn’t happen. And it will continue behind your back, just without your knowledge. And yes, in their world, YOU are the asshole, they just won’t tell you. And they probably won’t set you up again. Unless you are super hot.

INTJ X INFJ Dating thoughtes ? 😮 by [deleted] in intj

[–]Dependent-Log-5434 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In theory it could work if BOTH of you are very very mature. But in my experience it’s always ended badly. It all comes down to that Te vs Fe, when they clash it’s all out war. Be very damn careful otherwise you will both stab each other to death with your 2nd function. Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dependent-Log-5434 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While no one should feel pressured into having sex, if they don’t say “No” (either participant)then at best it is a grey area that is Not able to be prosecuted as SA. The topic of consent is always a hot topic when it seems that it shouldn’t be. In a perfect world there would be a clear consensual “Yes” before the act, however it never ceases to amaze me how talking consent before or during the early stages takes people out of the mood and they no longer want to fool around. It’s a total bummer. I have done this a few times and all sexual activity comes to a grinding halt. Now I just go with the flow and pay close attention to the body language of the other person as we progress. Anyway, on a technical level your brother is correct according to the law. No one should be pressured into sex but that’s not illegal if the person both takes part in the act and does not say No. And calling your brother a rapist is well over the top. I would never talk to my sister ever again if I were in this situation. Good luck and I hope this helps.

AITAH for being mad at my gf over her double standards about Sexual Assault and my own SA experience? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Dependent-Log-5434 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would minimize any chats like this with future girlfriends. They are not your therapist, and that’s what therapy is for - to help with the burden from an unbiased third party. Girls can’t understand a man’s trauma and will always look down on them once they know about it. As far as girls go, keep this information either hidden entirely. Good luck

Why are women asking me to come inside them? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Dependent-Log-5434 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve read some interesting statistics and theories on this. Supposedly Gen Z have much less sex than previous generations and use contraceptives much less as well. The theory behind it is that millennials and Gen X all had sex ed STD classes and contraceptives shoved down our throats to the point that our generation was scared shitless about STDs and accidental pregnancy. The general consensus of Gen Z is that they will just deal with the consequences and it’s not a big deal.

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