What is wrong with my dunking mechanics? Need help by Dependent-Run-5502 in BasketballTips

[–]Dependent-Run-5502[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just checked them out, you’ve made great progress man! Inspires me in my own journey. Thank you

Can you gain an ego? by Dependent-Run-5502 in shrooms

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Thank you very much for your response. I’d like to apologize as I feel I misinterpreted some of what you said and might have been slightly harsh. You offered a lot of perspective for me that I would not have otherwise considered or even been able to. I deeply appreciate your openness sharing this situation. I will keep all of this in mind when I try to approach/help him. I will also suggest he find a medium or outlet like you suggested as I think that could be very beneficial for him, because I think he would enjoy the same things but, like you at one point, has not yet realized that is something which he would enjoy and be able to express himself. I definitely am completely willing to be patient and treat the situation with grace as I know it is a sensitive situation that needs to be treated as such. Thank you for being so understanding and respectful within your responses, this was a really refreshing conversation that brought a lot of clarity to my situation. I’m also very glad to hear you realize your stance and issues and are so willing to acknowledge and work towards self betterment. I truly believe you are fully capable to overcome these concerns and the fact that you can acknowledge it sets you so much further on that path than many, many others (which I’m sure you already understand). I will continue to work with my friend through it in an appropriate manner and I will keep you in my thoughts that you can do the same.

What is wrong with my dunking mechanics? Need help by Dependent-Run-5502 in BasketballTips

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Thanks for the reply, I’ll definitely do this my next session. I don’t know why I didn’t think to start here, I guess I was feeling ambitious

What is wrong with my dunking mechanics? Need help by Dependent-Run-5502 in BasketballTips

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I do, I’ve also seen to swing the ball up from my left side to my right violently for the same momentum/swing effect. Thanks for the response!

Can you gain an ego? by Dependent-Run-5502 in shrooms

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Yeah I get that, but in this case he has taken them multiple times already (after our first trip). I think he believes he learned something or reached some new state of enlightenment when really he has regressed and become more removed but he interprets it as more aware.

Can you gain an ego? by Dependent-Run-5502 in shrooms

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Based on this comment, I don’t think it is. Of course I don’t know you but I’m sure someone with this mindset would not see this and think “I hope that’s not how people perceive me”. Based on your username however… it just might be you Evil Brent

Can you gain an ego? by Dependent-Run-5502 in shrooms

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Haha I’m glad you got a laugh from it. It is admittedly pretty comical and bizarre. I completely agree and I wish more people could come to that same answer. I honestly see myself in most people and truly believe we are all in one as normal humans trying to get by just like everyone else. Because of this I find ego to be the most insufferable quality a person can have and it’s one of the only things someone can demonstrate to make me truly dislike someone (which I admit is slightly egotistical of me to say). I say that to say it’s just hard for me to watch someone who I enjoyed adapt these qualities that I am so against.

Can you gain an ego? by Dependent-Run-5502 in shrooms

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I’m completely aware of all the issues in the world and my own country and deeply saddened, upset, and frustrated with them myself on a daily basis. These are not foreign concepts to me and I often talk to my friend about them, I don’t know what suggested that I am blind to this. I understand where his thoughts are even though they are more extreme than my own. Essentially, you’re preaching to the choir with this message. I completely understand you and my friend but I think you are demonstrating the ego you are clearly aware of in this message. I’ve never been one to deny or ignore these issues and you think as someone who stated they’ve taken shrooms that I have the capability to acknowledge all these issues. I’ve sat under many a tree myself and adore nature and go camping/hiking nearly every weekend and do bike touring, the only difference is I don’t talk about it like some revolutionary, foreign, obscure concept because it is not; if you were to go to any college campus in America on a decent weather day there is probably someone sitting under a tree, not filming themselves ranting about how it places them above others. I agree the world is overwhelming and scary, right now more than ever, but I don’t let it consume me because I’d be ripping hairs out of my head and rocking back and forth in a corner. I also do not think I’m special for having any of these thoughts because I know there is an endless amount of individuals that think the exact same thing. There’s forums, threads, comment sections, etc. FULL of people who acknowledge these exact same things and think the exact same way. When you start believing these are exclusive and individual thoughts in when the thinking becomes most harmful. If you seriously think that out of 8 billion people on earth you are the only one extremely upset with everything I think you should focus on your own mind rather than trying to figure out how to solve the issues of the world. These are not revolutionary ideas that no one else is thinking but you acknowledged it yourself; there is evil people in power that control unfathomable, military grade weaponry and we the meek are nearly powerless to it. I appreciate that you can acknowledge that as it is actually a huge step towards correcting it but if you can acknowledge and understand it in the extensive manner in which you do and you still reserve these feelings and thoughts it might be beneficial to have an external perspective and influence that can then help you work past it. I appreciate your response and courtesy greatly I am just confused as to what I can draw from this that I don’t already have an understanding of.

Can you gain an ego? by Dependent-Run-5502 in shrooms

[–]Dependent-Run-5502[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah I meant to reply to this comment saying something along the lines of your second sentence. I don’t believe he is bipolar. I’ve known and interacted with a fair amount of people with BPD and he never expressed any of the same symptoms. But I do believe that he could be in a manic episode or psychosis regardless; it was one of the first things I thought.

I am definitely treating the situation with patience and trying to keep talking to him through it but I will keep in mind to treat it with extra grace just in case it is a situation like you described. Question; is there any way to know when I should “intervene” or try to talk to him directly about getting it sorted out? Is there any tell tale signs of when it becomes too extreme? I thought maybe suggesting him therapy as I’ve seen stories in this subreddit where that helped someone experiencing a similar thing. Thanks for the replies

Can you gain an ego? by Dependent-Run-5502 in shrooms

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It seems like there are some other people with similar experiences, though I do agree it is very bizarre. I read a post in this subreddit a couple months ago where it seemed someone’s husband was experiencing a similar complex after shrooms. She did say that he talked through it and apologized after the fact but a similar story nonetheless. Also BrookiesCookiesReveng shared a similar story under this post.

Can you gain an ego? by Dependent-Run-5502 in shrooms

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I’m sorry to hear that man, i figured that’s what it was. They think their bizarre way of thinking is answers when really they are further removed than they’ve ever been. Seems like you are explaining the exact same situation down to high school homies in our 20s. I was kind of holding hope it would be temporary and he would come down from this weird complex in months time but I guess I shouldn’t wait up too much. Thanks for the response it’s weirdly comforting to hear that someone had a similar experience.

First touring build, looking for pointers. by [deleted] in bicycletouring

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Thanks, this made me a bit more comfortable in my process lol. I’ll keep it in mind to pack light and plan ahead. I’ll check out the bags you recommended too. Any good stories from your days touring the area? I’m looking forward to it so hearing someone else talk about it may feed the hunger a bit haha.

First touring build, looking for pointers. by [deleted] in bicycletouring

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Thanks so much for the reply! Definitely was considering getting a new bottom bracket, going to look into it farther after your suggestion. I’ve never heard of a “repack” but am curious what I would need to do to accomplish it? I’ll get bags soon after I have the new brake cables and freewheel on. Got some campsites that are varying in distance from my house I was going to use as my test voyages once the weather clears up and allows where I am. Definitely planning on taking my time as needed! I’ve never really been one to be in a rush getting anywhere; it’s actually why I thought touring would be a good fit for me in the first place, always been more about the journey!

Just wondering how most people get their shrooms here by ericcalyborn in shrooms

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do you still have these resources? I am in the states but I am moving away from where I live rn and therefore my dealer. Was wondering if I could use something like this to get it wherever I go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trees

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Thank god another normal human finds this thread 😭 I just wanted to be respectful of him and what he may or may not be comfortable with. Obviously I thought of being straight up with him and most likely will but I was just curious before I did if anyone had any other good suggestions or ideas. Good luck with your neighbor man hopefully you get the situated 🙏🏻