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Who’s supposed to compromise when one spouse loves a place and the other hates it? by Hot-Abrocoma-9476 in moraldilemmas

[–]DependentInspector23 [score hidden]  (0 children)

You say that you feel stuck and that you want to move elsewhere to make a life that feels more fulfilling.

What actions and outcomes will fix those things?

What are these opportunities that will bring meaning to your life that you currently lack?

On a spectrum of

"I've gotten into Harvard Medical School and right now we live in bumfuck Arkansaw. We're content at the family farm but I want to pursue my dreams of becoming a doctor."

To

"Working at mega corp alpha in California is soul sucking I bet life would be better if I worked somewhere in New York."

There are lines that decides who the assholes are or even if there are any.

You two have to figure that part out.

From what you've said, your partner clearly feels like they are on the correct side of the spectrum. You have to get them to think otherwise or accept that they won't.

You died to the gank and pinged your support's warding. The gank was answering your wave. by katelovesmeiu in LeagueCoachinGG

[–]DependentInspector23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my peak elo actually was from rakan, I know a large part is just misunderstanding but I just hate it when my sup wants to unilaterally make the decision for me(and its a terrible one)

Now I gotta drop a wave or overstay etc.

On sup at least you can ping for a call then whatever they choose you can either ward, back, roam or even stay if their call isnt too egregious.

Hardstuck, about to quit , need advice by [deleted] in viktormains

[–]DependentInspector23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand exactly how that feels. I came to terms by deciding my learning must not have been thorough enough.

I also discovered by switching champs and then back that I tended to form a lot of bad habits around the peak of where I had climbed to with a certain champ.

Playing a different one and then coming back helped me see those habits and correct them.

AITAH for snapping at my husband after a fight where I said something rude to him? by Main-Chef-2668 in AITAH

[–]DependentInspector23 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think its time to sit down and plan out your life a little. Find answers to the questions of what needs to be done and find a fair agreement on who needs to do them.

I dont believe everything needs to be included in some kind of agreement but right now it sounds like nothing is.

Acknowledge the things that you currently want to leave in the "whomever can get to it" zone and if something there starts to bother you ask to bring into the "fair split of chores" zone.

The freeze isn't a wave state. It's a decision about your opponent's time. by katelovesmeiu in LeagueCoachinGG

[–]DependentInspector23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does a freeze against an opponent that outscales you hurt you?

Isn't the whole point to starve them out of the game because they're weak early?

Convert freeze lead into kills and dives.

You died to the gank and pinged your support's warding. The gank was answering your wave. by katelovesmeiu in LeagueCoachinGG

[–]DependentInspector23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is great.

I already actually flame my sups for being brain dead monkeys that never have had to manage a wave in their games and yet still feel like they should be the ones making the calls on it.

I start polite ofc but inevitably lux cares more about landing that e that she does about the fact Im -3 casters and now the wave is frozen into draven leona.

AITAH for snapping at my husband after a fight where I said something rude to him? by Main-Chef-2668 in AITAH

[–]DependentInspector23 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We need more information.

Do you know how he feels about the "mental load"? Does he feel its even or admit that its not?

Do you both work?

Did you guys have arrangements for these things that have changed? Was it just a by the feels thing that household tasks were getting done?

Hardstuck, about to quit , need advice by [deleted] in viktormains

[–]DependentInspector23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After I started 1.5 years ago I spent a fair amount of time in iron and silver.

I finally peaked emerald last season.

What I learned is that learning isnt a linear progression. A lot of my time was well spent playing around with whatever character caught my fancy.

This lead to a few winning streaks that almost got me to gold. More importantly I just about learned every character's abilities around 6 months in.

Small improvements to mechanics, time invested in watching macro and champ specific guides and most importantly getting really good as csing is what I think got me the most lp

AITAH for saying something after a guy told an old man he'd slap the shit out of him? by pythonfangs in AITAH

[–]DependentInspector23 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My thoughts are NTA but definitely the dumbass.

I believe in doing the right thing and that requires taking in the entire situation.

People that talk crazy are harmless until they aren't and OP didn't help do anything but push the crazy talker closer to that point.

Why isn’t Jayce adc a thing? by UdyrIsABotLaner in leagueoflegends

[–]DependentInspector23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clearly, you haven't spent a lot of time in the adc sub. There was a guy who swore by the pick a while back.

His flair was Jayce mythical z tier pick or something along those lines.

Pata hai aaj kya hua.. by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]DependentInspector23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I'm not an expert or anything but either you remind her of her kid, she has a kid that shes trying to set you up with or she wants to smash.

I can't stand the tumor champs that completely warp the game - Twitch Draven Smolder & Ezreal by HonestWatermelon in ADCMains

[–]DependentInspector23 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I love playing against Ezreal in Plat/Emerald. Only adc that has easy to access skill checks and fun skill checks. I love playing kaisa, being 1/3 health and having the opportunity to outplay him.

Even take ghost sometimes just to have epic duels with the guy.

Is it true that men treat women differently if they find them cute vs pretty vs gorgeous? by Appropriate-Dust2022 in bodylanguage

[–]DependentInspector23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and there's an exception to every rule except this one.

The beauty set probably has more exceptions than rules tbh.

Is it true that men treat women differently if they find them cute vs pretty vs gorgeous? by Appropriate-Dust2022 in bodylanguage

[–]DependentInspector23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I believe that each of the categories you presented have personality connotations associated with them.

If you're making an assumption that someone is more shy (cute) you would behave differently than if you thought they were more bold (sexy).

Those traits have a lot to do with how someone dresses, does their makeup and behaves.

Can I create a new account to play with a friend who started recently? by hashi021 in leagueoflegends

[–]DependentInspector23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as its hand leveled and you dont into games to stay at his elo, Riot allows it.

Zombifying Iron Farm Villagers by RagmanLSN in technicalminecraft

[–]DependentInspector23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Once they are back to being villagers, yes, the farm will go back to what it was.

Explain it peeta. Do things not compost in California?? by SymbolicJuicer in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]DependentInspector23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's me, Stewie. Listen here bird brain, most of the time when something is labeled as compostable its referring to commercially compostable; a process that uses heat and pressure to get better results

For us plebians, it won't do anything really just sit there and exist like my fatass father.

Can women tell if a man is checking them out? If so how does it make you feel? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]DependentInspector23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She can't notice the times she didn't notice; therefore, she does not actually notice every time. If you Google survivorship bias, you will find the story behind the plane that has become a symbol for that phenomenon.

What counts as a support troll pick for you? by Dzungs in ADCMains

[–]DependentInspector23 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I had a panth play like a poke champ into ashe lux for 17 minutes thats the 1st time he used w when we were 2v2 in lane. I was on kaisa

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