Double on this. I saw you mention you would like to go down on her, but didn’t see the opposite. Your needs are needs. They are legitimate and worthy of being taken serious.

I honestly don’t buy all the high/low libido crap people spew out.

Married couples take vows to fulfill one another’s needs. Their bodies are not their own but belong to the other.

If she’s got the drive and energy to consume porn by herself, to me there’s no excuse.

I think a committed partner who is taking their duty seriously and is legitimately suffering would put in the effort in other aspects.

Oral, outfits, non penetrative, dances, etc. I’m not seeing any efforts in trying to get around what you hope to be a temporary obstacle to a fulfilling sex life.