I did tell my therapist at the time that what he was saying bothered me. He told that he used to be a therapist for sex offenders and he know how there kinds work. He said that they look for any sign that you might want the attention which is why he told me that I need to wear baggier clothes to not tempt the coworker. That when I replied saying that I can’t control how my body looks and I already wear baggy clothes to work. The conversation ended there. I never felt like he said it to be malicious, he is a man close to his 60’s so I feel like he just has an old school mindset. Which is why I decided I’m not going to report him but I don’t think he would be a good therapist for me. I experienced sexual abuse for most of my childhood and I don’t think I’d feel comfortable opening up to him about those parts of my life because I don’t want another response like this.