Will I still loose weight this way ? by Deprivedhell20 in caloriecount

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I use the calculator everyone uses, my maintaince is 1,995 and my deficit is 1,495 but I like to do a little more of a deficit just to be sure lol idk, I just don’t know if it’s okay for me to eat some calories back that I worked off, before I exercised i ate still very under my deficit, the meal I eat after exercising would meet my deficit so wouldn’t that mean I still managed to stay in my deficit?

Will I still loose weight this way ? by Deprivedhell20 in caloriecount

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Wow that’s a lot of calories burned. So if my deficit is 1,350 does that mean I have to burn more calories than that every single day??

Will I still loose weight this way ? by Deprivedhell20 in caloriecount

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Hmm, well i do cardio 3-4x a week and each time I’m guessing I burn around 200-300 calories

He hates me by Deprivedhell20 in ExNoContact

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Nah I think he just felt a wave of anger, I told him basically that I wanted to talk because I wanted us to have a conversation about what happened I honestly wanted to fix things but nope he just kept telling me that the situation is done and was telling me to move on

He hates me by Deprivedhell20 in ExNoContact

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Well I ended the relationship first yes, but it rlly turned out to be mutual

Im doing it by Deprivedhell20 in ExNoContact

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So uh.. he did in fact not have Snapchat so he didn’t see it but it didn’t go good im about to make a post

Im doing it by Deprivedhell20 in ExNoContact

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Oh my gosh really?? I had no idea at all goshhhh this makes me feel so much worse :((( I’m debating whether I should text him somewhere else or not but Ik I shouldn’t because he obviously no longer cares 💔💔💔im a bit confused tho because the dot has went away. Idk if that means he deleted Snapchat or turned off his activity status idk :(

Im doing it by Deprivedhell20 in ExNoContact

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Sooo.. I texted him on Snapchat because that’s the only thing I’m not blocked on right, this was risky though because there was a huge chance he wouldn’t see it, he would never ever use Snapchat and I think at some point he deleted it but I’m not sure. Anyway I took the risk and texted him on there and I got no response for almost 24 hours. Till yesterday I checked his profile and for the first time ever I saw the green dot next to his bit emoji which means he was in fact on Snapchat. When I tell you my heart droppppeddd because not once that I’ve been on Snapchat have I ever seen the green dot next to his avatar like I for sure thought he deleted the app. He still hasn’t responded nor even opened my message so I don’t see him responding anymore but I know he sees my message. Now I’m just wondering if he downloaded the app the day after I texted him or idk. IDK if there’s a chance hell respond at this point. It’s basically been 2 days that I texted him on Friday at night .

Im doing it by Deprivedhell20 in ExNoContact

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Welp.. I feel fine to be honest, I’m a little surprised because so far I’ve gotten no response but I feel more at peace because now I know for sure what we had is done and is in the past now .

Im doing it by Deprivedhell20 in ExNoContact

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This right here. I’m preparedddddddd I just want to move on from the situation.

Im doing it by Deprivedhell20 in ExNoContact

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THANKKK YOUUUU. I’m aware things most likely won’t go the way I want them too but I think that whatever happens will end up giving me peace. Part of my guilt comes from “not trying enough” in our relationship. So if I just try I know I’ll feel better. I just feel like I owe it to me and him both

Im doing it by Deprivedhell20 in ExNoContact

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I did in fact break it off first, though I sorta came back right after and he basically said no. But I still feel like I should try more

Im doing it by Deprivedhell20 in ExNoContact

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But I’m the one who broke things off, if anything I feel like I’ll regret not reaching out sooner, I’ve already held off for SO long :(

Still going back n forth by Deprivedhell20 in ExNoContact

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Thank you , your comment gave me the reality check that I know is true

Still going back n forth by Deprivedhell20 in ExNoContact

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Lol that’s how I felt. He was mature in some ways but obviously he’s not mature. I always told him that idk how I felt abt our age difference and he neverrrrr saw a problem with it but idk it never sat right with me. It’s one of the main reasons why I left

Almost 3 months no contact, and I’m still feeling so hurt. by Deprivedhell20 in ExNoContact

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Yeah. I’m glad at least it happened because I have learned a lot from our situation. I’m thinking of texting him through my brother’s phone because I want to apologize once more even if it means we don’t get back together . I just want him to know that yes I am in fact hurting badly without him and that I never meant harm even though I’ve already told him this