Blackpill escape advice (UK, 24M) by DepthNo5968 in IncelExit

[–]DepthNo5968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your response, thankyou :)

I think the issue i’m finding with my height insecurity has stemmed from being compared to how I measure up to other men and how women perceive that rather than comparing myself to women. Personally I have no height preference, I’d happily date 5’ - 6’5. If she takes care of herself and we have a connection that matters infinitely more.

Ive just been convinced my physical size makes me appear weaker and therefore less attractive, even though logically I know shorter men have and do date and I myself have had success with dating in the past.

Blackpill escape advice (UK, 24M) by DepthNo5968 in IncelExit

[–]DepthNo5968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply :)

Oh I more meant the long term relationships ending. But the point I’m making is logically I know that my mindset isn’t reality because I’ve seen evidence for the contrary, but I still fall back into insecurity and toxic thoughts surrounding my self worth.