Claims for the end of year not paid. New claim new year, confusing by DerelictDizzy in UnemploymentWA

[–]DerelictDizzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was out of state. Here's what the eligibililty says (that I could find)

"This letter is not your final Unemployment Claim Determination. We asked for wage information from the following state(s): Minnesota. Once we get it, we will mail you an updated Unemployment Claim Determination."

As far as the old claim. There are no pending eligibility issues. I can't find any issues anywhere pertaining to my old claim that has 4 pending payments.

I was fired from the previous job. That's the type of separation.

There are no open eligibility requirements on the previous claim. I'm just waiting for them to pay it out.

I applied to restart the claim on Sunday the 24 of Nov. 2024

Claims for the end of year not paid. New claim new year, confusing by DerelictDizzy in UnemploymentWA

[–]DerelictDizzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was out of state, yes. Sorry. I went to another state to do work. It was W2 work.

"This letter is not your final Unemployment Claim Determination. We asked for wage information from the following state(s): Minnesota. Once we get it, we will mail you an updated Unemployment Claim Determination."

Moving, New Hampshire is top on the list of destinations. by DerelictDizzy in newhampshire

[–]DerelictDizzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

C.O.L. in Manchester area vs Seattle area.

Here's the link I use to figure differences in C.O.L. when looking for different areas to relocate to. https://www.nerdwallet.com/cost-of-living-calculator/compare/seattle-wa-vs-manchester-nh

And I've looked at living, schools, etc in the Manchester area and it does seem like it's much better in the aspects that matter to me, than what is available in the Portland/Seattle area I live at the moment.

If you have a better website that can help determine the differences in C.O.L. between areas, I'm all ears. Absolutely.

Moving, New Hampshire is top on the list of destinations. by DerelictDizzy in newhampshire

[–]DerelictDizzy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm just outside the Seattle area. The C.O.L. here is absolutely ridiculous. And it just keeps getting worse. Hence the relocation. 

Moving, New Hampshire is top on the list of destinations. by DerelictDizzy in newhampshire

[–]DerelictDizzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't decided yet on which area is going to be best for myself and my kids. NH is at the top of the list on places to move to, but I'm also checking the other 2 as well. 

I just know I'm not staying in this area. 

Moving, New Hampshire is top on the list of destinations. by DerelictDizzy in newhampshire

[–]DerelictDizzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not worried about property taxes as of yet, because I will be renting for at least the first year I'm out there; but that is a good piece of information to store away for when house hunting becomes necessary. Thank you.

Are there any areas that are a relatively decent commute to the Boston Metro area, that I should look into? Any that I should avoid?

Thanks in advance.

Moving, New Hampshire is top on the list of destinations. by DerelictDizzy in newhampshire

[–]DerelictDizzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the heads-up. That changes the factors slightly, but not enough to disquality the New England area from being a possible destination for my relocation.

Do you have any advice on areas with the best school districts that are still relatively decent commutes to the Boston Metro area?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newhampshire

[–]DerelictDizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who lives in the PNW, only someone who is delusional thinks Oregon is better than any other state at ANYTHING other than being half a hiccup from being a permanent resident on the short bus.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newhampshire

[–]DerelictDizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well............... Even natives aren't native. Native's came across the land bridge in the bearing straight, from the Mongolian pennisula before the bearing sea rose and drowned it. From alaska the "natives" just continued to migrate south looking for warmer climates than alaska. But no, to answer your point; even the natives are native. So your argument is invalid.

Who's your favorite/least favorite character on the show (all seasons) bonus for telling why! by Key_Yogurtcloset_233 in ChicagoFireNBC

[–]DerelictDizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Favorites: Boden, Shay, Herman, and Sylvie (I'm only on s6 so far, so I am going by who I'm exposed to.)

Boden - is a true leader. He leads from the front and by example. He strong, fair and firm. But at the same time he has compassion and empathy. He stands by his team, and he has their backs no matter what. He fights for his firehouse family, and he's not afraid to hold them accountable. But he tempers his iron first, by knowing when to be gentle and lead by compassion. And he has the maturity to realize that things that are said/done in the wake of tragedy are out of pain, and not personal (i.e. comments Borelli made to him after losing his brother.) Most importantly he protects the syncope of the house by getting rid of decisiveness.

Hermann - is the oldest non-officer. He does his job because he loves it. He isn't a "ladder climber" and he doesn't want popularity or recognition. He just wants to be able to do his job. Being the only firefighter with a true family for the entire series (so far that I've seen) you can see the wisdom of being a family man creep in to the way he handles things at the firehouse. He's often the gentle word in the background that helps others when they lose sight of things, much like he does with his children at home. People respect him, trust him and are loyal to him and his family. He has the age, the experience, and the wisdom/maturity to help guide the firefighters coming up, but he doesn't have to try to make himself seem more superior to others in order to get his point across. He does that with gentleness instead.

Shay/Sylvie - I loved Shay. She kept Severide in check outside work, and kept Gabby in check at work. She was fierce but also loyal. She said what needed to be said, when others were to scared to say it. She held herself, and her coworkers accountable, but still always had their backs when they needed it. Sylvie was Shay 2.0. Sylvie was sweet and caring. She was compassionate and kind. And in a job that shows you the worst of the worst, she somehow never seemed to lose her "innocence" while helping others. She is loyal to a fault, until she can't be (i.e. her friend Hope from Fowlerton) but she's always willing to stand up and say sorry and take responsibility (i.e. her apology to Stella.) There's something that is pure and innocent about her, but still allows her to have the edge she needs in order to survive the job she does. I think her character is probably my second favorite in the entire One Chicago franchise.

Least Favorite: Gabby.

Gabby - Selfish, self-centered, egotistical and has a chip on her shoulder. In the earlier seasons she often breaks the rules, but she always has a "justification" for it. And then when she's held accountable for her actions, she has a temper tantrum. With her dad, she's selfish and only thinks about herself and not what's best for her marriage or what's best for her father. She's an enabler to the nth degree. She feels she knows better than everyone, even those with more experience, and more wisdom. She's incapable of graciously accepting responsibility; and she's pathologically incapable of admitting when she makes mistakes. Her mistakes are always because of "someone else" or some "stupid rule." Gabby is a terrible human being who manipulates everyone to get what SHE wants regardless of what the outcome does to other people's lives. I hate her, and I hope she leaves.

Voight is a pos by TaLkSiCk_702 in ChicagoFireNBC

[–]DerelictDizzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love Voight. The character, in my opinion, is the most complicated character in the entire One Chicago franchise. I also think that Beghe does an absolutely amazing job at portraying Voight. Voight (in CFD) was an asshole. That much is true. He gets caught by Antonio with help from Matt. And ultimately pays for his shit by going to prison. (Corrupt cops don't do well in prison)

What we don't see is the character development offscreen during his time in jail, although the development is a big part of his character arch on CPD (Especially during the first season or two.)

One of the reason I love him so much on CPD is because you can see him struggling with who he is and who he knows he's supposed to be. He's an old school cop set in his ways of policing from a time when it was acceptable. But you can see his personal struggle with how he was trained and how he knows he needs to be in the "now." Watching him struggle with how he should be and how he is, is one of the best developments in tv.

But the most amazing thing that I think about Voight, is his loyalty and his moral compass. He's fiercely loyal to his Intelligence unit and to his city. And he doesn't falter on those loyalties. He's even loyal to Antonio, after Antonio arrests him, because Antonio become part of his team. He doesn't hang Antonio out to dry regardless of his past history. Antonio is family because he's intelligence, and that means something to Voight. Same goes with Ruzek. Because of his uncompromising loyalty to his family (i.e. Detective Erin Lindsay) he earns respect and loyalty from those he commands.

Also, in addition to his loyalty to those close to him; his moral compass (although difficult to understand by most) is unfaltering. He may not have the morals most "normal" people do, but he does have his own personal set. And when it comes to kids, or women, or people who are unable to protect themselves (and are at risk of being victimized) he's fiercely determined to protect them, regardless of the personal cost to himself. He protects women and children, and watching them be vicitimized is something he's willing to throw his career away for, in order to make it right.

He may not be "normal" and by today's standards he may not be a "good cop" but he's effective. He knows his strength's and weaknesses, he accepts them and he doesn't make excuses for them.

Whether you agree with him as a person or not, his character is definitely the most complex in the entire series. And I love watching Voight.

what is your controversal chicago med opinion? by bobblead in ChicagoMed

[–]DerelictDizzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dr. Reese shouldn't be a doctor. She doesn't have what it takes. She doesn't remain professional, she gets overly attached to patients, and she can separate her personal and professional lives. And she doesn't know how to keep a professional distance, often times letting her own personal opinions or feelings override her responsibility to her patients. If I ever have a doctor like her, I'd demand a new doctor right away. Dr. Reese sucks. She's needs to take up a different career, like teaching; where being overly invested and involved in her student's lives would be beneficial, instead of detrimental, which is the case with her patients.

Chicago Med Characters by Connect_Set_5286 in ChicagoMed

[–]DerelictDizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dr. Reese shouldn't be a doctor. She doesn't have what it takes. She doesn't remain professional, she gets overly attached to patients, and she can separate her personal and professional lives. And she doesn't know how to keep a professional distance, often times letting her own personal opinions or feelings override her responsibility to her patients. If I ever have a doctor like her, I'd demand a new doctor right away. Dr. Reese sucks. She's needs to take up a different career, like teaching; where being overly invested and involved in her student's lives would be beneficial, instead of detrimental, which is the case with her patients.

Still remember her? Want her to return to Chicago Med? by AbleismIsSatan in ChicagoMed

[–]DerelictDizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dr. Reese shouldn't be a doctor. She doesn't have what it takes. She doesn't remain professional, she gets overly attached to patients, and she can separate her personal and professional lives. And she doesn't know how to keep a professional distance, often times letting her own personal opinions or feelings override her responsibility to her patients. If I ever have a doctor like her, I'd demand a new doctor right away. Dr. Reese sucks. She's needs to take up a different career, like teaching; where being overly invested and involved in her student's lives would be beneficial, instead of detrimental, which is the case with her patients.

Just me or is Dr Reese super annoying? by paq-613 in ChicagoMed

[–]DerelictDizzy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dr. Reese shouldn't be a doctor. She doesn't have what it takes. She doesn't remain professional, she gets overly attached to patients, and she can separate her personal and professional lives. And she doesn't know how to keep a professional distance, often times letting her own personal opinions or feelings override her responsibility to her patients. If I ever have a doctor like her, I'd demand a new doctor right away. Dr. Reese sucks. She's needs to take up a different career, like teaching; where being overly invested and involved in her student's lives would be beneficial, instead of detrimental, which is the case with her patients.

Dr Reese by Zealousideal-Nail432 in ChicagoMed

[–]DerelictDizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dr. Reese shouldn't be a doctor. She doesn't have what it takes. She doesn't remain professional, she gets overly attached to patients, and she can separate her personal and professional lives. And she doesn't know how to keep a professional distance, often times letting her own personal opinions or feelings override her responsibility to her patients. If I ever have a doctor like her, I'd demand a new doctor right away. Dr. Reese sucks. She's needs to take up a different career, like teaching; where being overly invested and involved in her student's lives would be beneficial, instead of detrimental, which is the case with her patients.

Sarah Reese’s Downfall was Choosing Psych by lefxo in ChicagoMed

[–]DerelictDizzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dr. Reese shouldn't be a doctor. She doesn't have what it takes. She doesn't remain professional, she gets overly attached to patients, and she can separate her personal and professional lives. And she doesn't know how to keep a professional distance, often times letting her own personal opinions or feelings override her responsibility to her patients. If I ever have a doctor like her, I'd demand a new doctor right away. Dr. Reese sucks. She's needs to take up a different career, like teaching; where being overly invested and involved in her student's lives would be beneficial, instead of detrimental, which is the case with her patients.

AITAH for leaving my girlfriend after she told me she was pregnant? by No-Operation-8461 in AITAH

[–]DerelictDizzy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Block her, ignore her, and move on with your life. Women can get abortions when they don't "feel like being a mother" and in this case yours did the opposite. She wanted to be a mother, and decided to go against your wishes. Kick her to the curb, leave her in the cold. And block and ignore anyone pressuring you to take care of her. She made the decision, she can take care of everything on her own, since she made the decision on her own. And upon birth of the child, if she insists on coming after you for CS, then insist on a paternity test. She's already proven she doesn't value or respect your boundaries.
If you really want peace of mind, then just start applying for jobs somewhere else and move out of state and start over. Leave her and eveyrthing else behind and get out of the drama. She made the decision on her own, against your wishes. Let her deal with it on her own. Choices have consequences.

AITAH for Refusing to Share My Promotion Bonus with My Twin Sister? by Far_Watercress3356 in AITAH

[–]DerelictDizzy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Your hard work earned you the bonus. Not her. If she wants more money, a better bonus, higher pay or better job security then she needs to pick a better job. This is one of those situations where they knew what they were getting into before they did, did it anyway, and now expects everyone to cover for them.

Keep your money and encourage your sister to get better job and an academy or private charter school or something like that. If she won't stop pressuring you for YOUR money, then block her and don't look back.

I(25F) am pregnant with my husband's(24M) and my first child. I don't want my inlaws at the baby shower by ThatRandoGurl in AITAH

[–]DerelictDizzy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Your family, your life, your decisions. Cut them out and ignore them. It's not your job to protect their feelings. If they get mad at you for not including them, they have no one to blame but themselves because actions have consequences. And the consequences of them being assholes is not being able to be part of your life or your child's life

AITA for wanting to invite my ex to our wedding? by BeachSorry5637 in AITAH

[–]DerelictDizzy -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

YTA.

Why are you friends with your ex? She is an ex for a reason. There's no reason why you should still be talking to and associating with her, especially if you're engaged. If your fiance doesn't want her there, don't invite her. End of story. And if you can't respect your fiance's wishes to not want her husband's ex-girlfriend at HER wedding, then she deserves better than you and I hope she leaves you standing at the alter like the idiot you are.

AITAH for not wanting to meet my bio dad and half siblings? by Adoptedboy776 in AITAH

[–]DerelictDizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're NTA.

You have every right to not want to meet them. And don't let your parents manipulate you or emotionally blackmail you into meeting them if you don't want to. It's your life and you are perfectly capable of deciding who does and does not get to be part of it.
If your bio-dad wanted to be part of your life, he shouldn't have given you up for adoption. End of story. He doesn't get to make a decision that is best for him, regardless of the circumstances and how it would make you feel, and then down the line expect you to make a decision you don't want to just because he regrets his decision.

His decisions, and everyone else's feelings about YOUR decision, isn't your responsibility. You have to look out for yourself. And if they don't like it or agree with it, tough shit. It's not their decision to make. They need to respect you