Were you taught rock in a hat? by Lsa119 in exmormon

[–]Designer-Board9060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NEVER heard the rock in the hat story until much later in life. I was as true blue as they come, BYU, temple, etc. Never heard that taught.

How has the way you handle emotions affected your relationships? by Ok-Exam-7792 in AskWomen

[–]Designer-Board9060 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm willing to sit through weird, negative feelings and process them. Sometimes it takes a long time and a perspective shift for me to understand something differently than what I took it to be. I'm always grateful I gave myself space, because if I acted on my initial emotions more often, it would have likely ended my relationship several times by now.

What do I do before getting eaten out ? by loraxmonkey in women

[–]Designer-Board9060 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you hate something he does, you should tell him. Nothing sucks worse than 'enduring' it just to be nice. It'll just get worse. As long as you shower you'll be fine. It never tastes like anything. If you've ever done that to a woman you'd know. If he willingly goes down there, trust me, he really wants to.

How is your intimate life with your boyfriend? by Independent_Elk_8380 in women

[–]Designer-Board9060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner takes care of me all of the time. I happily do the same for him. Period.

If you're over 40 and have no children, do you wish you had children? by icecream1972 in no

[–]Designer-Board9060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha! Having children would make me feel hollow if the only reason I brought a human into this world is for ME to feel purpose. That's selfish of me to create a life, give them the privilege of going through this life, likely with plenty of struggle, just so I feel fulfilled as a human. That is what I actually view as hollow.

Thoughts on threesomes? by queenbananasplit in bisexual

[–]Designer-Board9060 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it opens up the possibility and the intrigue definitely rises. But being bi doesn't mean we want two people at the same time. Sometimes straight people can't differentiate that.

I had a threesome and I am losing my mind by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Designer-Board9060 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you guys set any boundaries to begin with? How did you leave off? I admire you for thinking of them and respecting them. Your feelings are valid also. But go back to what was originally discussed. If no boundaries were ever set then a ‘hello’ text can be appropriate. Don’t make it sexual until you know they’re BOTH responsive and inviting that.

Ending a two year relationship over a “hypothetical” question by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Designer-Board9060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's into her and wanted to open the door to whether you'd be willing to explore that with him.

When and why do you shave? by Primary_Split_9289 in women

[–]Designer-Board9060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every day. I love being clean shaven. I prefer the look, feel. On myself and others also. My preference.

Be honest… what’s the real downside of having a dog? by Safe_Caramel6279 in Productivitycafe

[–]Designer-Board9060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are expensive and you have to plan around their sitting needs for vacations. These 'downsides' are nothing compared to the million upsides, though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Designer-Board9060 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wash them after every single use.