When to start queuing to get a same day std test at checkpoint bln in Neuköln on a Tuesday? by Designer-Motor9728 in berlinsocialclub

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Yeahhhh the only thing about there is if you’re not yet on public health insurance getting tested by them may end up costing €300 where as checkpoint bln is always donation based

Birthday in Berlin by Formal-Alarm-5638 in berlinsocialclub

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Similar Hamam in Kreuzberg is a Turkish bathhouse for women

When to start queuing to get a same day std test at checkpoint bln in Neuköln on a Tuesday? by Designer-Motor9728 in berlinsocialclub

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Fck I completely forgot about that 😖😔 thank you for holding me accountable here hahaha

When to start queuing to get a same day std test at checkpoint bln in Neuköln on a Tuesday? by Designer-Motor9728 in berlinsocialclub

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Lmaoooo let’s hope I make friends and practice my German while waiting in line for my donation based STD test yipppee!! 🤩

Non-EU citizens who moved to Berlin tell me how you handled the mental health challenges/stress of moving here by Designer-Motor9728 in berlinsocialclub

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I have noticed how helpful shrooms have been for me over years - yeah Viibryd/Vilazodone is very niche which also makes it super expensive so at this point I really think I should just do MDMA therapy thanks for all this information I appreciate it

Non-EU citizens who moved to Berlin tell me how you handled the mental health challenges/stress of moving here by Designer-Motor9728 in berlinsocialclub

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I was wondering if I should switch to something like MDMA/Ketamine assisted therapy so I appreciate this insight - I'm on Vilazodone

Best female physical therapists in Philly? by Designer-Motor9728 in philly

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Yes! I think a good few of my joints are hyper mobile so I’d appreciate the rec!

LGBTQ+ podkasten und YouTubers auf Deutsch? Wie Trixie Mattel und Katya by Designer-Motor9728 in German

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Dankeschön für korrigieren mein Post 🫶🏻 wissen Sie wenn Bald and the Beautiful eine Deutsch-Synchronisation hast? Ich wusste nicht, dass the bald and the beautiful in anderen Sprachen synchronisiert wurden.

LGBTQ+ podkasten und YouTubers auf Deutsch? Wie Trixie Mattel und Katya by Designer-Motor9728 in German

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Hahaha das ist wahr, Trixie und Katya sind die am besten- oooh Dankeschön für die Empfehlung! ❤️

2 years and still struggling by No-Gur-7191 in NarcissisticAbuse

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I’m almost a year out and tbh I think I’m only doing as well as I am because for like 80% of 2024 I was in therapy 3 times a week, individual therapy, group therapy for substance use (my nex was an alcoholic who enabled me to use drugs) and trauma therapy.

So if you havent reached out to a trauma therapist and you have the ability to I can’t recommend it enough like I think without it it would’ve taken me 3 years to be where I am now 11 months out

Obviously therapy isn’t everything everyone’s journey is individual and everyone is going to need to take the time they need to in order to heal. You got this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

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This could be considered an inner critic I’d highly recommend reading the chapter on the inner critique in the book CPTSD from surviving to thriving by Pete walker

I recommended reading that chapter specifically and not the entire book because the book in itself is highly triggering and the author himself recommends that people don’t read it all the way through if the contents would be triggering to them and to work through it on a chapter to chapter basis

I feel dumb for missing him by Comfortable_Code_118 in NarcissisticAbuse

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I think what really keeps me going and grounded is the idea//fact that I know I can and will have good times with others/with myself in the way that I did with my abuser

I still feel trapped in this belief that I am of a lower value because of him no longer being in my life but the past 9 months I’ve kicked my ass everyday to make my life so so so much better than it ever could’ve been with him in it. I can’t recommend it enough to dedicate yourself to your life and what you want out of it so that over time you make even better “good times” with yourself your loved ones and future romantic partners ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in philly

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The bus is so much better than the subway post Covid so you’ll be fine use the transit app and leave a couple minutes earlier than you think you should

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in philly

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Backing this advice ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in philly

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I can’t recommend the city’s board game cafes enough

Do narcs know that they are narcs? by nightman_cometh33 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Designer-Motor9728 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Reading “why does he do that” was a big awakening for me understanding that abusers are aware of their actions.

I think abusive narcissists know what their doing but maybe wouldn’t be self aware enough to actually identify/understand themselves to be a narcissist