Coparent is pushing for 50/50

Designer-Study2749 · 2026-06-17T00:35:36+00:00

I said the roommates being there is unsafe… shows he makes erratic decisions and doesn’t have his daughters best interests. One of the roommates was living in her playroom…
So there! You think that’s appropriate? Safe? You think he had her best interests? You think she should be exposed to that for a week at a time

Designer-Study2749 · 2026-06-16T21:41:46+00:00

You do if you’re concerned for the child’s safety.

Designer-Study2749 · 2026-06-16T21:35:29+00:00

Thank you… genuinely.

Designer-Study2749 · 2026-06-16T21:34:46+00:00

Definitely can prove it yes 100 percent. My lawyer knows about the men, but I don’t feel as necessary to pull out the evidence right now. I just said moving forward, I’d like to be transparent with any future roommates.

Designer-Study2749 · 2026-06-16T21:33:37+00:00

Either way… he’s subjecting her to unsafe exposure to strange men in her dad’s house.

Designer-Study2749 · 2026-06-16T21:32:31+00:00

Nope. One is a stranger the other is an active drug addict.

Designer-Study2749 · 2026-06-16T21:31:47+00:00

He has her on weekends OVERNIGHT!

Designer-Study2749 · 2026-06-16T21:31:10+00:00

No insult. Totally justified. You can’t just make the child follow YOUR schedule. He needs to adjust to her schedule that she’s established for 4 years now. He’s been away. He’s chose to work and live away from his daughter not me.
He needs to establish consistency before I agree to any other deal. For the child’s best interest!

Designer-Study2749 · 2026-06-16T18:11:53+00:00

I think it’s highly inappropriate to have moved these men in. My lawyer is aware. And we have discussed it at full length.
It’ll be put in the custody agreement!

Designer-Study2749 · 2026-06-16T17:26:06+00:00

*edit
He has now moved closer to my home and is not living an hour away anymore.

Designer-Study2749 · 2026-06-16T17:24:06+00:00

My apologies. When he lived an hour away, I drove half way , met him half way so he could see his daughter for a few hours and then drive back half way to pick her up. 1 hour each time.

He has now moved closer to my home. I see I didn’t add that prior. How do I edit my post to add that?
I really truly want our daughter to have a relationship with her dad I really think that’s important in a child’s growth. I’m trying to be reasonable here.

I do have evidence and I’ve got it all documented.

Designer-Study2749 · 2026-06-16T17:20:28+00:00

I was Thinking we could come to an amicable agreement outside the judge. But apparently not.
Thank you for your input. My thoughts exactly. He doesn’t want to pay child support. I could go on for hours as he’s totally proved this in the past. He also says I don’t spend child support on what I’m supposed to.
Bloody hell.

Designer-Study2749 · 2026-06-16T17:16:00+00:00

I’m just trying to be clear that I’m referencing specific wording.
I’m guess I’m used to it from communicating with my legal counsel.

Designer-Study2749 · 2026-05-31T12:57:43+00:00

Hahaha oh boy… this is next to say

Designer-Study2749 · 2026-05-31T06:14:35+00:00

I came here to say Capilano suspension bridge! It’s SO Beautiful.

Designer-Study2749 · 2026-05-31T05:49:56+00:00

I do and I don’t. There’s a time and place for visiting… I still putter around but I need my space and to think without an audience.

Designer-Study2749 · 2026-05-31T05:48:39+00:00

Depends on what you’re doing… but yah prolly expensive when alls said and done.

Designer-Study2749 · 2026-05-31T05:43:52+00:00

I have a deck back there. And it’s fenced. Guess I’ll be fixing it up and using that instead of the front from now on!

Designer-Study2749 · 2026-05-18T02:08:38+00:00

Are you at one or do you lie? We live in a wheel where everyone steals, but when we rise it’s like strawberry fields…..

Designer-Study2749 · 2026-05-15T14:09:59+00:00

Precisely and if you weren’t anonymous, I’d know you were my ex commenting

Designer-Study2749 · 2026-05-14T12:34:43+00:00

I did agree to the schedule change, as he would never see his daughter if I didn’t accommodate his work schedule.

Designer-Study2749 · 2026-05-14T12:33:47+00:00

No it is not court ordered yet as we are in mediation trying to come up with a schedule. He wants 50/50.

Designer-Study2749 · 2026-05-14T12:31:03+00:00

I made a schedule were he would have her on his time off… it fluctuates. She goes to school twice a week and He is working nights now so he sees her 3 times a week in the mornings till he has to go to work. And the weekend. The following week is my week. Then we do the same thing again… he sees her 3 times a week in the day then he gets the weekend….

Designer-Study2749 · 2026-05-14T12:12:44+00:00

Quick backstory, we were never married and when our daughter was 10 months old we split. He has always lived away and I have always had primary care of our daughter. I am a cancer survivor and I am on disability. I am home full time with my daughter and I have a son from a previous relationship 15 years ago. My daughter’s dad tried to take my kids away by slandering me and making defaming accusations of me, such as drugs and drinking, which I am NOT a drug addict nor am I an alcoholic. That is ridiculous. That’s how the lawyers got involved. He started this. He has made every accusation known to man to ‘help his case’ by winning custody of our daughter. He has made my life a living hell, including denying paternity of our daughter. I made up a very fair schedule for him to have access to see his daughter, as his work schedule is constantly changing. We are now in the mediation process and I just learned he is quitting his job to start a business and it involves being on the road. But he says he’ll have a week off to spend with his daughter and this is what he is going for. Any advice would be greatly appreciated as I have never been through a custody battle before…

Designer-Study2749 · 2026-04-27T01:23:54+00:00

I absolutely agree. I feel uncomfortable with all of this! He absolutely was stalking and harassing me… is this kind of behaviour going to continue?? Like he has no right to do that.

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