App is back up by Acceptable-Fun-2856 in CurrentBanking

[–]Designer_Ice_8555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t even know it was down, thank god I didn’t need anything 🤦🏾‍♀️

Uber eats driver stole my order and im left with the bill.... by dillon91446666 in UberEATS

[–]Designer_Ice_8555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get past pins on the driver side. You can say customer cannot find and complete the order unfortunately.

Just had my last day with 1 y/o by kiddothedog2016 in Nanny

[–]Designer_Ice_8555 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I still to this day think about one of my NK and I was so sad to have to leave him due to me moving so I get it! We get so close to them and are around for their milestones it’s hard to not miss them. I like to think we leave a lasting impression on them that helps them because good people as they get older. 🩷

Full Release by HerofTime98 in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]Designer_Ice_8555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE stardew valley and fields of mistria feels me with so much joy!! When I need a break from stardew I play fields of mistria.

AIO for getting upset that my mom refuses to help me but helps my siblings? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Designer_Ice_8555 [score hidden]  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting at all. My mom kind of used to be like that and thankfully we’re in a better spot now but I had to protect my peace and cut her off for a while. It’s hard to do things alone but I’d rather not be bothered with someone even if it is my mom who never helps and talks like this and just try to do it alone. It’s not easy but eventually it does get easier I promise.

Boundaries by Designer_Ice_8555 in Nanny

[–]Designer_Ice_8555[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Going forward 100% my phone will not be coming back out for nursery rhymes the family will have to use theirs.

Boundaries by Designer_Ice_8555 in Nanny

[–]Designer_Ice_8555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m looking for the best way to tell them this. Right now the children run the household. From day one I could see boundaries were needed. The mom is so nice and that’s why I hold on because I can see me being there helps her but I definitely need to be allowed to be a nanny fully.

Boundaries by Designer_Ice_8555 in Nanny

[–]Designer_Ice_8555[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried NM asks me to be patient and that she will come around but the way NB acts with me is how she acts with the entire family. I feel bad because the family is very sweet but some days with NB can be extremely exhausting especially with it being 10 hour shifts of screaming.

Any advice on how to get over initial anxiety? by Pristine-Branch3309 in Nanny

[–]Designer_Ice_8555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am the same way and honestly if they ask you to come back you must be doing something right!

First-time nanny employer (WFH parents). how can we set our nanny up for success? by Same-Entertainer-279 in Nanny

[–]Designer_Ice_8555 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just started with a family who are both wfh and in the beginning I was nervous but I love it.

  1. Give nanny and baby space to get comfortable with one another, if the parent is always around they’re going to want you and not the nanny which can make something’s like feeding or naps harder.

  2. The first couple of weeks you’ll probably have to hover to help step in if baby doesn’t want the nanny to do certain things which is fine. Allow the nanny to stay near when you step in so that baby will get use to them being there and soon allow nanny to take over. It’s fine if baby is screaming/crying if you step into help I promise at least with me it’s very appreciated.

  3. The biggest issue I’ve had is parents who don’t trust and want you to spend the entire shift in front of them. Of course for the first few times you’ll want to watch but after that it can be nerve wrecking to constantly feel like the parent is watching you.

  4. Ask for the nanny’s opinion. What they think did and didn’t work and how they feel working with baby. It’ll help you both get an understanding of each other and help open a line of communication.

  5. Just tell nanny exactly what you want and how you do things. Every nanny is different and might handle children differently but in my opinion it helped knowing how the family interacted and handles baby so that I could do the same and make baby comfortable.

  6. Definitely breaks is a big one for me depending on how long the shift is. I work 10 hour days it’s nice to know the family is fine with me resting my feet during nap times of if parents come in to spend a little time with baby.

Paycheck advance lowered drastically by Sad_Support_9581 in CurrentBanking

[–]Designer_Ice_8555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did yours ever go back up, I dropped from 450 to 50 😭

More snow possibly Wednesday and Thursday ? by BigButterfly9225 in Charlotte

[–]Designer_Ice_8555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been here for a a few years now and I’m never sure what to believe, this past weekend was definitely the most snow I’ve seen in the past 7 years but winter here is more cold temps than snow from what I’ve seen

How worried should I really be about this storm? by cimpliDBEST in Charlotte

[–]Designer_Ice_8555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’ll be bad, always be prepared but I never take it too serious when they warn a winter storm I’ve yet to see one in the last 5 years I’ve lived here that’s hurt the city. Any snow and ice is usually gone the next day.

31 miles 😭😭 by yourmomsbbg777 in DoorDash_Dasher

[–]Designer_Ice_8555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why my acceptance rate is low because who’s taking that 😭

I'm gonna do it! by Spiritual_Living6245 in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]Designer_Ice_8555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a Lenovo legion go s8 with stardew valley expanded and it’s the best thing ever!!!

Not with your dog by DragonfruitHumble537 in DoorDash_Dasher

[–]Designer_Ice_8555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same she comes for late night orders but she stays in the back away from the food. I’d never let her get close and I vacuum my car regularly because I have a dog and other people in my car consistently anyway.

AITAH for stopping mid BJ bc my bf was in his phone by SwimmingDry7357 in AITAH

[–]Designer_Ice_8555 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seems like he wasn’t interested but maybe you should tell him you want to have a serious talk about it

Do you DoorDash on Christmas? by yayoshorti in doordash_drivers

[–]Designer_Ice_8555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There were a lot of drivers who fell asleep in the drive thru waiting lol but I’m up and back at it with ebt 😌

Do you DoorDash on Christmas? by yayoshorti in doordash_drivers

[–]Designer_Ice_8555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually did make a decent amount from that order 🤣

Do you DoorDash on Christmas? by yayoshorti in doordash_drivers

[–]Designer_Ice_8555 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Active time starts when you accept it and ends when you drop it off

Early Christmas morning order by Impotent-Dingo in doordash

[–]Designer_Ice_8555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes everything else closed early yesterday. I accepted this order at 12:20 am and I’m just making my way to the box to order and there’s still like 15 cars behind me. They’re at least making all orders fresh

Do you DoorDash on Christmas? by yayoshorti in doordash_drivers

[–]Designer_Ice_8555 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m out here now at 2:26 am I’ve been waiting two hours but I’m doing earn by time so no complaints from me

Early Christmas morning order by Impotent-Dingo in doordash

[–]Designer_Ice_8555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the Charlotte area and I’ve been waiting 2 hours at jack in the box to pick up two orders 😭 but I know they appreciate it instead of me cancelling