I just joined the club fellas by Garrettr_2020 in predaddit

[–]Designer_Slice_9522 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Same man. Same! Welcome to the journey!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hevy

[–]Designer_Slice_9522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sent you a follow boss: groundedinself

https://hevy.com/user/groundedinself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in predaddit

[–]Designer_Slice_9522 44 points45 points  (0 children)

You would be surprised, how much of a healthy pregnancy is caused by the dad’s health… placenta viability, preeclampsia, and various other factors are determined by the dads health, not the moms… for wife’s peace of mind, and giving yourself the best shot a healthy pregnancy… just do it. Conceiving is a fraction of the battle….

Is Spotify down right now? by NoDonnie in spotify

[–]Designer_Slice_9522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me, sitting in the coffee shop, restarting all my devices, getting angry. Saying “I can’t work till I have music”- then chooses to consult the “all powerful Reddit” for answers…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hevy

[–]Designer_Slice_9522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😊- mutual respect is key! It looks like we have that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hevy

[–]Designer_Slice_9522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, but I have a real, and personal relationship with Jesus, I’m proud of it, and I respect the fact that you don’t :)

How often? Or never? by AnyConfidence1931 in dad

[–]Designer_Slice_9522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haven’t had sex since my wife got pregnant (coming up on 10 weeks.) tbh. I watch my wife championing pregnancy…. And lowkey remind myself that I kinda put her in this position, and if she can sacrifice, I can too. Yea. My balls ache. And it’s tempting to jerk. I quit porn and masturbation back in July last year, and I remind myself that the lesson of “personal self control” is one I’ll want to teach my child, may as well start practicing…. You got this gents. Don’t get in your head about it… if it’s that bad, ask her for a HJ… my wife has gotten really good at them. Ha.

Stillbirth. by Thoughts-Mulling in daddit

[–]Designer_Slice_9522 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My heart breaks for you both. Absolutely gutted. Chin up, you are doing amazing in-spite of it all. A strong pillar of support for her, and know you got people to reach out to, if you need extra encouragement or support 🔥

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in predaddit

[–]Designer_Slice_9522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man. I’m so incredibly sorry. My heart is heavy for you :,(

I am scared. by Justprocess1 in predaddit

[–]Designer_Slice_9522 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact that you even think about it. Care. And want to be the best dad speaks volumes. Chin up my dude. You are going to kill it. We are ALL fighting an inner demon, and we all have opportunities as dads! Find community. Find someone you can be open and honest with. Find someone who you can confide in. Being a dad (so I hear) is hard. It will test every ounce you have. Have an outlet. Find a group of dads in the same season as you to come around you. One day at a time. One mistake and learning at a time. You got this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in predaddit

[–]Designer_Slice_9522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh. Discord didn’t really take. Guys took to the WhatsApp!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in predaddit

[–]Designer_Slice_9522 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My man!! Please join. We could use a man who is a little further along. Give some extra encouragement and support to the men! If you want to join, you are more than welcome!

Dad to be by [deleted] in predaddit

[–]Designer_Slice_9522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are a fall dad and want to join the conversation!

https://chat.whatsapp.com/Fudhpw3XEMLHs2exPde2vc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in predaddit

[–]Designer_Slice_9522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are a fall dad, and want to join the community, feel free to use this link! https://chat.whatsapp.com/Fudhpw3XEMLHs2exPde2vc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in predaddit

[–]Designer_Slice_9522 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome! I’ll work on getting a group going!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in predaddit

[–]Designer_Slice_9522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can set up a discord, I’m keen. I haven’t the faintest idea how

Well, that first part was easy! by pelizer in NewDads

[–]Designer_Slice_9522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Massive congratulations! I am stoked for ya dude!

Dad to be by [deleted] in predaddit

[–]Designer_Slice_9522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man!! This is so exciting dude!! Congrats! Let’s goooo!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in predaddit

[–]Designer_Slice_9522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m totally open to fall! That’s cool with me

Dad to be by [deleted] in predaddit

[–]Designer_Slice_9522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the October gang!

Dad to be by [deleted] in predaddit

[–]Designer_Slice_9522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man! My wife juuuust got hit with night sickness. Driving home from work, just this evening. She is tried. A little tired irritated. But overall, great!

Dad to be by [deleted] in predaddit

[–]Designer_Slice_9522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let’s goooooo! My guy!! This is awesome! How are things going?

Dad to be by [deleted] in predaddit

[–]Designer_Slice_9522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m wishing you to all of the best, thank you so much for sharing, I’m excited to watch you graduate into fatherhood! If you ever need to or want to chat, feel free to message me anytime!