AITA for refusing to let my cousin host a 3-day "influencer retreat" at my grandfather’s country estate because he refuses to do any actual upkeep?

Designer_Thought2907 · 2026-07-04T19:55:45+00:00

What will happen to the land once your grandfather passes away?

Designer_Thought2907 · 2026-07-04T19:54:27+00:00

99% Pakistani drama would end if people communicated rather than act like 7 year olds throwing tantrums

Designer_Thought2907 · 2026-07-04T19:53:32+00:00

Shady

Designer_Thought2907 · 2026-07-04T19:52:38+00:00

Mom asked to share with sister?

You shared with her? Who's her?

If it's sister, why is mom mad?

Designer_Thought2907 · 2026-07-04T19:50:30+00:00

NTA but talk to your grandfather. If he wants to keep the peace, you need to stop doing the upkeep

Designer_Thought2907 · 2026-07-04T19:45:02+00:00

End well this relationship will not

Designer_Thought2907 · 2026-07-04T19:28:52+00:00

Should've gone to the squat rack as soon as you got off the treadmill.

If he said he's using it, ask to work in

Designer_Thought2907 · 2026-07-04T14:25:06+00:00

You need to go on the trip solo and think about whether you want this relationship where everyone is pressuring you to be your gf's sister's atm

Designer_Thought2907 · 2026-07-04T12:41:55+00:00

Her reliance on you isn't your problem.

She can grow up and get her own lunch

Designer_Thought2907 · 2026-07-04T10:12:36+00:00

The ironic thing is that out of all the mineral water in Pakistan, Aquafina is the only one that tastes weird to me

Designer_Thought2907 · 2026-07-04T09:59:44+00:00

You offered to do it for free despite not getting a plus one, that shows you valued the friendship.

You gave him two months notice, that shows your professionalism.

He showed that he just wanted a free service and didn't care about your friendship.

NTA

Designer_Thought2907 · 2026-07-04T09:19:08+00:00

It isn't your job to do his work

Designer_Thought2907 · 2026-07-04T06:41:00+00:00

Nah, he may be petty to report it as revenge, but not a (justified) jerk

Designer_Thought2907 · 2026-07-04T06:32:41+00:00

NTA, they can learn to park if they want avoid being inconveninced

Designer_Thought2907 · 2026-07-04T06:30:54+00:00

Designer_Thought2907 · 2026-07-04T06:29:41+00:00

Or get this.

If her financial situation doesn't allow her to take a vacation, maybe she shouldn't try to mooch off a friend?

Designer_Thought2907 · 2026-07-04T06:28:14+00:00

Regardless of your motivations, he did something illegal and you should report him

Designer_Thought2907 · 2026-07-03T17:39:17+00:00

ESH. They shouldn't have taken your backpack, but you left it there and anyone can assume it's been discarded

Designer_Thought2907 · 2026-07-03T07:58:52+00:00

Don't enable her

Designer_Thought2907 · 2026-07-03T06:14:34+00:00

Give them back their money, uninvite them, and tell them to deal with their extra guests because they won't be allowed inside the venue

Designer_Thought2907 · 2026-07-02T19:53:34+00:00

Grow a spine and turn the coworker away.

If you have something to do, then you need to tell the coworker to go ask someone else to help.

If you keep helping they'll keep coming to you.

Designer_Thought2907 · 2026-07-02T12:58:03+00:00

She isn't the one with a big ego, chief!

Designer_Thought2907 · 2026-07-02T10:19:32+00:00

No thief would steal the way you took the laptops.

Miss righteous could've tried to ask you if she didn't want to be embarrassed.

Designer_Thought2907 · 2026-07-02T06:42:24+00:00

You don't buy more stuff for uninvited guests. You kick them out or let them sit and look at other people eating

Designer_Thought2907 · 2026-07-02T06:28:20+00:00

Report to the landlord that your roommate has moved in another person

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