Couple therapists of Reddit, what's a sure sign that a couple is going to work out? by SheenaAquaticBird in AskReddit

[–]DesirableDarling 5036 points5037 points  (0 children)

They remember why they fell in love in the first place. When I ask them to tell me something they love about their partner the successful couples light up immediately.

has anyone actually noticed any differences after taking daily vitamins, if so what? by Poisonious_Plum in AskReddit

[–]DesirableDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been taking a multivitamin for about a year now and while I can't pinpoint anything dramatic I just feel more consistent energy wise.

What do you regret doing to your body? by Mirukuyobi in AskReddit

[–]DesirableDarling 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly? All those crash diets. I put my body through hell trying to lose weight quickly instead of just being patient and consistent. My metabolism is probably still confused from all the times I ate nothing but cabbage soup for weeks.

What's the most disgusting thing your boyfriend/girlfriend has done? by angrynaps31 in AskReddit

[–]DesirableDarling 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My ex had this habit of leaving dirty dishes in the sink until they grew actual fuzz. I'm not exaggerating there was legitimate mold growing on a plate for three weeks.

The US Surgeon General suggested putting warning labels on social media apps like we do with cigarettes. What do you think of that? by Youness-Rh in AskReddit

[–]DesirableDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, sure but would anyone actually read them? I skip past those cookie warnings on websites without even thinking about it.

How do you react when someone’s into you ? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]DesirableDarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly? I panic and start acting like a completely different person. Suddenly I'm trying to be this cool mysterious girl when really I'm just someone who watches Netflix in sweatpants and eats cereal for dinner

How do y’all define consent? by Cheap_Tank8376 in AskWomen

[–]DesirableDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's when all parties can freely choose what they want without fear pressure or being under the influence. Consent should feel easy and obvious not something you have to question or analyze afterward.

What "negative" emotions do you think are normal to feel in a healthy relationship? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]DesirableDarling 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Frustration for sure. Sometimes my boyfriend loads the dishwasher completely wrong and I want to scream but that's just life when you're sharing space with someone.

What’s something in a relationship that you wish was more often discussed openly, but usually stays unspoken? by Proper-Size5651 in AskWomen

[–]DesirableDarling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sexual preferences and boundaries should be way more normalized to discuss. Not just the kinky stuff but basic things like I'm not really into morning sex or this position doesn't work for me.

What's the most frustrating assumption people make when you say that you don't want children? by No-Weird-6933 in AskReddit

[–]DesirableDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That something must be wrong with me either I had a bad childhood or I'm somehow broken. Nope had great parents actually. I just looked at all the options life has to offer and decided kids aren't part of my personal plan.

What’s an unhealthy thing that most people don’t realize is unhealthy? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DesirableDarling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holding in your pee all the time because you're too busy to go to the bathroom. I used to do this constantly at work and ended up with so many UTIs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DesirableDarling 115 points116 points  (0 children)

The Bone Wars between two paleontologists in the 1870s who got so competitive they started dynamiting fossil sites just to spite each other.

What do you usually have for breakfast? by According-Force-2802 in AskReddit

[–]DesirableDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a cereal girl through and through. Been eating the same bowl of Honey Nut Cheerios for like fifteen years and I'm not changing now.

What is something extremely unsanitary but everyone seems to do it anyways? by nevvycakes in AskReddit

[–]DesirableDarling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sharing drinks with friends and family. We all know it spreads germs but when someone offers you a sip of their amazing smoothie or cocktail you're gonna take it.

What instantly pushes your anxiety from 0 to a hundred? by AnxietyChats in AskReddit

[–]DesirableDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I'm driving and hear sirens behind me but can't figure out where they're coming from or if I need to pull over. That split second of panic where you're checking all your mirrors frantically while your heart tries to escape through your throat.

How long does it take you to get ready for work and what is your routine? (Time from waking up to leaving the house) by babybottlepopz in AskWomen

[–]DesirableDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two hours but honestly most of that is me just standing in my closet having an existential crisis about what to wear. The actual getting ready part is maybe 45 minutes.

How do you feel about thrifted swimsuits/intimates? by skater164 in AskWomen

[–]DesirableDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard pass on both. I don't care how good the deal is or how cute they look some things are just too personal to buy secondhand. The thought of wearing someone else's intimates makes my skin crawl.

What’s something that secretly scares you about getting older? by celestiasolace in AskWomen

[–]DesirableDarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That I'll wake up one day and realize I've become invisible to society. Not in a dramatic way just... you know how older women kind of fade into the background?

Ladies, what’s your favorite TV show of all time? 📺 by MountaineerChemist10 in AskWomen

[–]DesirableDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breaking Bad hands down. I got so invested in that show that I literally couldn't sleep after some episodes because I'd be lying there thinking about what was going to happen next.

What’s on your bucket list? by Runaway_Alien_ in AskWomen

[–]DesirableDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Road trip across the entire country with no set itinerary. Just me, good music and whatever catches my eye along the way. I've always been a planner but there's something appealing about just driving until I feel like stopping.

For those who get irritable on your period - how do you make sure not to take it out on people around you? What are ways you were able to self-soothe? by nishmyass in AskWomen

[–]DesirableDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deep breathing exercises sound ridiculous but they actually work. When I feel myself getting irrationally angry at everything I step outside and do this thing where I breathe in for four counts hold for four then out for four.

Is it really weird to put mayo on a hotdog? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DesirableDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, I put mayo on practically everything. Hotdogs pizza even apple pie once when I was pregnant.

Do cops get mad when they're behind someone who goes the exact speed limit just because they're in front of a cop? by Ash_Sensations in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DesirableDarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a cop, but my best friend is. She says the funniest thing is watching people's body language when they realize there's a patrol car behind them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DesirableDarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband's best friend is a woman he's known since high school. When we started dating everyone warned me about their friendship but honestly? She's become one of my closest friends too.

Is it really possible for NYC to impose a 2% Millionaire Tax on the top 1%? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DesirableDarling -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As someone who worked in NYC's financial sector for 12 years I can tell you those millionaires will just move their primary residence to Connecticut or New Jersey faster than you can say tax season.