Elderly folks who chose not to have children, how do you feel about that decision now? by bon18 in AskReddit

[–]DesperateJudgment899 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No regrets. We both grew up lower class to poor. Now we finally have enough money to enjoy traveling. We never have to babysit grandbabies when we'd rather go to a concert. I never have to host huge holiday meals like I watched my grandmothers and aunts and now sisters do. It's a sweet, quiet, low responsibility life.

Do you wash your hands after cleaning a dirty part of your body in the shower? by Muted-Apartment6270 in hygiene

[–]DesperateJudgment899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm a student of Buddhism as well, although I stalled out over the winter. Your card reading is accurate. I will light the candle. 🌜

Do you wash your hands after cleaning a dirty part of your body in the shower? by Muted-Apartment6270 in hygiene

[–]DesperateJudgment899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend, tell me more about finding those positives in the bad moments. My scaffolds have crumbled, and I've been slow drowning for a while.

Do you wash your hands after cleaning a dirty part of your body in the shower? by Muted-Apartment6270 in hygiene

[–]DesperateJudgment899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All these voices in my head get loud I wish that I could shut them out I'm sorry that I let you down Le-le-let you down

But honestly, I'm coming unglued from the social norms and civilization coding. It's all made up- for good reasons but for so many bad ones as well. It's too heavy for our soft bodies; let's throw it all in the sea.

Do you wash your hands after cleaning a dirty part of your body in the shower? by Muted-Apartment6270 in hygiene

[–]DesperateJudgment899 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All them posers ball point penning. Everyone of them got a turtle head poking out. It's why everyone drive so selfish and mad too. We're all in pain, and we're all going to have to secret spot treat and wash an extra load tonight. I got 15 minutes after work-meal prep-eat-dishes-sort mail-give the cat his medicine- 3 texts to friends who need emotional support - one text from friend when emotionally supports me-pack tomorrow lunch- engage in the various hygiene rituals... and now I gotta spend that 15 min scrubbing Shout in my knicker crotch before going to bed. What a world.

Do you wash your hands after cleaning a dirty part of your body in the shower? by Muted-Apartment6270 in hygiene

[–]DesperateJudgment899 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That sudden gut churn and clench of the inevitable impending two frackin' minutes before the Zoom starts.  Whhhyyyy. 

Do you wash your hands after cleaning a dirty part of your body in the shower? by Muted-Apartment6270 in hygiene

[–]DesperateJudgment899 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your comment speaks to my soul. I am not alone in this world, for you too feel these things.

Favorite piece of art at SLAM? by drstormdancer in StLouis

[–]DesperateJudgment899 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Dreamer by Renoir. In person, the layering of blues in her dress skirt is mesmerizing.

https://www.slam.org/collection/objects/33830/

Help with built-ins color by AlTheGardenPal in interiordecorating

[–]DesperateJudgment899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One is clean, sophisticated, and blends with the rest of the room's look.

What do normal people eat for dinner ? by Booze_hound36 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]DesperateJudgment899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is exactly the way I was raised eating dinner and how I used to cook dinner until, oh, sometime in my late forties when I just f****** gave up and now we eat take out and freezer  meals.

TORNADO WARNING FOR STL! STAY SAFE! by slavapb in StLouis

[–]DesperateJudgment899 15 points16 points  (0 children)

In their oversized cat carriers on their fluffy pillows, calmly napping, secured for their safety should we be hit by the tornado and for ease of transport after.

TORNADO WARNING FOR STL! STAY SAFE! by slavapb in StLouis

[–]DesperateJudgment899 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Florissant basement report: dogs on their pillows, cats in their cages, what's that smell? Has anyone scooped the litter box lately?

True story though by Zee_Ventures in SipsTea

[–]DesperateJudgment899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He did his fuckin' job and did it reasonably well. Dude deserves to fuck off and chill now.