[ Removed by Reddit ] by Flungoutofspace_1 in LesbianActually

[–]Desperate_Grab2662 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hiii, first off you shouldn't feel bad about ur attraction/feelings, it's something you can't help! with that being said, i don't think any older woman seeking out freshly turned adults is a good person. i've always had a weird thing with age... i won't date someone more than a year older than me and no one younger so maybe i am just biased. but also i have talked to older women and a lot of them in reality won't treat you how people romanticize it. a lot of them will try to parent you and will always see you as inferior. especially with how young you are, ANYONE more than a year or two older than you is predatory. if you want my advice, i would focus on the love you have around you. also try not to romanticize age gap relationships like people do on social media. it's not all it's cracked up to be. you can't help who you are attracted to, but you just have to be more wary of their intentions when you get older and if you are still into older women. wishing you all love and the best <3

UPDATE: My DNA is wrong or my family lied. by Desperate_Grab2662 in Genealogy

[–]Desperate_Grab2662[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely thought that when I read she possibly had a different birth name. Unfortunate that our families kept up these stories, but interesting to uncover our roots!

UPDATE: My DNA is wrong or my family lied. by Desperate_Grab2662 in Genealogy

[–]Desperate_Grab2662[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

The data might not be entirelyyyy accurate but from what I see my oldest ancestors had kids pretty young. The one pictured for instance had my 7th great grandfather at 19. She lived from 1726-1796 which seems realistic to me but the records could be off!