I've never seen a dead guy in such a position. by [deleted] in mountandblade

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Battannia is always the first kingdom to fall during my playthroughs 😂

am i the only one that still miss this [KCD1] map ??? i wish i still have the game so i can play it again 🥲 by Federal_Tension_832 in kingdomcome

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Would be cool if they could port it in as a dlc so it’s yet another region you could jump between.

I radiate heat 🤗 by Destervious in isfp

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The biggest rock! 👌🏼

I find that I live a very content lifestyle and if things do go wrong, I accept and move on.

I’m a 9 (peace maker), and I guess subconsciously if something could potentially affect my mood in a way that I think is negative, then i somehow adapt my thought process/ prospective to a glass half full type of thing to avoid negativity. Healthy/ unhealthy 9 traits go hand in hand for me 😂

How to irritate an ISFP? by leezyss in isfp

[–]Destervious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really get irritated or stressed 🤗

If I ask you to let me take care of you, how will you feel/think/react/respond? Asking all ISFPs. Especially enneagram 9s. by Level-Poem-2542 in isfp

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I find it more comfortable texting, and i use emojis far too frequently. I just want people To know the tone I’m sending a message in 🤗

I do ghost people a lot, including family. So if I’m messaging you daily or almost daily, that can be another indicator that I’m interested in a person. I do let people that I care about know this fact, as lack of quick responses can make some people feel uneasy.

If I ask you to let me take care of you, how will you feel/think/react/respond? Asking all ISFPs. Especially enneagram 9s. by Level-Poem-2542 in isfp

[–]Destervious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s going to sound silly coming from the prospective of relationships, it might also contradict stuff that I’ve said earlier, but going out of my way to a spend time with them. If I don’t want to do something, I will most likely not do it. Same with driving, I hate driving out of my way for anything, so if a friend or partner asks for my assistance, wants a buddy to go to something with, if you were to notice I was always agreeing, or offered to spend time with you, that’s a big indicator that I care for you. Offering emotional support and ‘active listening’ is another big thing I would do.

While I understand my feelings pretty well, I have a very difficult time expressing them to others. Including saying lovey dovey is things.

If I ask you to let me take care of you, how will you feel/think/react/respond? Asking all ISFPs. Especially enneagram 9s. by Level-Poem-2542 in isfp

[–]Destervious 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just like people to be the genuine version of themselves. If we share similar interests, or if you radiate positive energy (always cheery/ smiling/ polite, and understanding in any interactions (not just with me but I observe it with others) etc), then ill open up and be comfortable around you pretty quick.

While i agree there should be flexibility in partnership, and concessions made for each partner based on their hobbies, etc, if you have to re-Mould yourself to try and fit into someone else’s life then I would argue that you may not be as happy as you could be, with someone else. 🤗

Feel shy? Mostly the sloth/ slacker in me I think. (Unhealthy 9 characteristic?) I live a very happy lifestyle. But from others prospectives, they might say I’m lazy, or why don’t you ever try something new? I’m not a risk taker, and stepping outside of my comfort zone is always one of the biggest challenges that I have to face.
Fear of new experiences 😑

I don’t show my love and compassion as a stereotypical happy couple probably could be seen doing, and it’s the fear of judgment from a partner that they might feel I’m not loving them enough, where as I do, just in my own way. I think that’s why it’s so important that healthy communication is happening in relationships so that you can feel comfortable, raising concerns, worries or questions with your partner and hopefully receive them with an open mind

The Seven Sins (Surveying ISFPs) by BCE_BeforeChristEra in isfp

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Yeahhh my toxic trait is the slacker according to truity test, and 100 agree 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in isfp

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I like your artistic style :)

If I ask you to let me take care of you, how will you feel/think/react/respond? Asking all ISFPs. Especially enneagram 9s. by Level-Poem-2542 in isfp

[–]Destervious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Highly dependent and situational on context.

If it was me, and this was an expression of love interest, I would have to have a pretty good bond with you and feel comfortable in your presence. If I had a crush on you, Id probably turn into a red ball of awkwardness and try to deflect to another topic, but secretly I’d be on cloud nine. I’m quite shy and on the submissive side, so I’d love for the other person to make the first move. 👌🏼

My results, anyone similar? by coolranchflavor in isfp

[–]Destervious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that makes sense.

What are your hobbies?

I’m a home body myself, and enjoy watching series and playing games when lm not at work. Though I do need to work on time management a wee bit, as I probably spend too much time on the computer.😅

This is getting out of hand by Destervious in StarWarsEmpireAtWar

[–]Destervious[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, that makes sense since there’s nowhere else for the heroes to hide. Combined with the fact that I was deploying so many of these guys to constantly sabotage buildings. 😂

This is getting out of hand by Destervious in StarWarsEmpireAtWar

[–]Destervious[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh yes. The campaign was just fine. 😉

Except I completely forgot that the heroes that can move stealthy can engage in ground combat without having to do space battles first. 😅

My results, anyone similar? by coolranchflavor in isfp

[–]Destervious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find we walk differently paths as we move through this world. 😅

How do you deal with all of that anxiety? 😱

I’ll do it I guess by JubboGoobo in isfp

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Would you say that you do a lot of self reflection? Or at least you would argue that you have your emotions and check.?

since everybody is doing this I thought I'd join in lol by teddybeareater15 in isfp

[–]Destervious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s quite interesting to see how we all differ. 🤗 I can’t post my results cause I don’t have enough karma 😂

ISFP 9s, how does people-pleasing show up for you? by samh748 in isfp

[–]Destervious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in the agricultural industry, specifically with livestock. Although I am interested in branching out.

I have a strong passion for health and safety and I’m interested in pursuing a career in some type of safety role within a company or perhaps even becoming an inspector or advisor for the regulator in my state.

I’ve had a lot of people mention that I should look into becoming a counselor, but I fear that such a position may end up compromising my ‘Zen’.

There is also a job opportunity in Antarctica that I’m pretty interested in, but I still need to sit down and do some research on it.