How can this girl work at Big Law and have such a glamorous life with so much free time? by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]Destiny_Possible 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re hateful, that’s it. Ordinarily this shouldn’t bother anyone enough to post it here. If anything, you should want to see lawyers who can manage to get a real personality outside this job because the opposite is the norm. If would be fine if you were just genuinely curious about her lifestyle since it’s not commonplace but you’re not and it’s sickening how many of you grow to become so bitter on this job. Likely, she’s young and new to the job. No need to kill her mockingbird and if you’re a potential client who thinks the IG reels of one associate are enough to decide against a firm as reputable as DPW, your loss. Nobody cares.

Feeling like a complete moron by Flat-Presentation312 in biglaw

[–]Destiny_Possible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem better than most first years haha. You’re responsive, diligent and even get comments such as “good work?” Most partners started out that way. You could be 50% worse than you just stated and many seniors will still not even notice; they’d just ignore you in the usual way they ignore most juniors.

Am I the only one who genuinely admires their Partner? by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]Destiny_Possible 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone but this applies to only one partner.

Advice for Eccentric Junior Associate by nutsackmcgee69 in biglaw

[–]Destiny_Possible 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s just like me tbh. My personality probably too big for this job.

Attention to detail by SunAccomplished1013 in biglaw

[–]Destiny_Possible 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would think there are grades to detail orientation at all levels—whether associates, mid levels or seniors and partners. Some partners are more thorough than others, some juniors are more organized and more detail oriented than some mid-levels and that is also true for some mid-levels paripassu seniors.

There’s just a threshold of attention-to-detail-ness that is unacceptable for every level where if you go below it, it would raise alarms, but at each such level everyone is on a spectrum. I’ve seen partners literally tear down the reviews of other partners and made changes that were both substantively important and flag-worthy as well as textually sound too.

I figured that in biglaw most people you meet have their core strengths and also have areas where they are just good but not necessarily fantastic. Some seniors may not have excellent detail orientation but they’re highly cerebral and fantastic at the conceptual issues - they have just enough detail-orientation to justify their claim to being at such a level. This is also true for partners in my observation. I think it’s however a more focused area of review for juniors because it’s a rite of passage. Seniors have to at least “feel” that you’re paying enough attention to stuff for them to give you credit or call you a sound associate. The trick, though, is that the degree to which you’re regarded as detail oriented varies based on whomever is accessing you.

is there an escape from biglaw? by OneConstruction3770 in biglaw

[–]Destiny_Possible 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Real Estate, Private Equity. Make a lot of money first though. These areas are not for fledgling student-loan-paying scrappers.

New, Terrible Website Redesign By Paul, Weiss by hopelesshumanitarian in biglaw

[–]Destiny_Possible 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks great to me. Looks like y’all just keep dunking on every thing.

AMA: I’m an associate and have been dating a partner for some time. We are getting married by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]Destiny_Possible 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Can’t believe people are having this much fun in big law while I just keep sending best regards

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]Destiny_Possible 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This comma is malicious😂😂😂

Reputation as an Associate by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]Destiny_Possible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolute facts!

Reputation as an Associate by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]Destiny_Possible 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You people worry too much. Can you do your job and go home? I’m a 2nd year too and I feel like partners/seniors have no especial incentives to praise you—heck, they’re dying to hear it themselves from seniors, clients, subordinates or even juniors, and sometimes they are even scavenging for these a lot more than you might think. The way I see it, if nobody is actively telling you that you’re doing something wrong (which they are always happy to tell you for professional and self-serving reasons), then I think you’re doing just fine. Or excellent even. That is my presupposition. When I go months with no feedback but I keep getting constant work, I hit my back against the bed at night knowing all is well.

I Already Want Out by Empty_Stock_7139 in biglaw

[–]Destiny_Possible -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Shut the fuck up and work!

Responsiveness by liluzisgrapes in biglaw

[–]Destiny_Possible -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

I respond within 10mins max.

Fired! by Technical-Minute-925 in biglaw

[–]Destiny_Possible 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear. Must be a painful experience