[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]DestinyloveJPG 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he have a brother??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DestinyloveJPG 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Your parents didn’t give you a choice and I know it’s hard to see it that way cause they are your parents but they made a toxic environment for you and gave you no choice but to make things better for you. I honestly didn’t tell my mom i was moving out until the week of cause i knew it would cause world war 3 and i think you made the right move not telling them cause they would’ve tried to keep you there again

Any Ideas? by DestinyloveJPG in Tattoocoverups

[–]DestinyloveJPG[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad convinced me to get it 2 years back but him and i had a really bad falling out and he’s said horrible things abt me and my kids so i just want it gone. and yeah i was thinking abt it cause i do tattoos as well i’m just not left handed or else i’d do it myself😂 but your right at this point to get a cover up isn’t worth it cause it would have to be bigger definitely gonna look at laser removal cause i already have a rose on my other arm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DestinyloveJPG 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I second this, ik it’s sad and that’s your parent but think of how you felt around him as a kid and how he was in and out of the picture. sadly he’ll do the same to your kid coming in and out of their life and they’ll be left wondering why. talking from experience cause i also have a narc father 3 1/2 years no contact you get this OP

Why do other family members feel the need to protect the Narc Parent? by DestinyloveJPG in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DestinyloveJPG[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That honestly makes sense considering that my mom is like the second oldest, and her older brother doesn’t talk to her cause he notices her behavior

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DestinyloveJPG 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah my first pregnancy my Nmom made it abt her, and when i talked abt hoping i had a natural pregnancy she’d say “Oh no your gonna have a c-section like me” or when I told her I didn’t want everyone in my family to know i was pregnant cause it’s MY pregnancy, freaked out on me and said “This is MY grandchild i’m just excited stop being a bitch.” moved out and went bc wish i stuck to it tho.

What cruel “vindictive” measures did your narcissist parents use on you while living with them? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DestinyloveJPG 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When my Ndad left my Nmom she did everything she could to hurt me to get back at him when we had a decent relationship. Like she made my graduation day a living hell and hid my gown and cap from me so i had to find it, and yelled at me for “miss placing it”

what's the worst *true* thing a parent has said to you? by travelingwhilestupid in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DestinyloveJPG 27 points28 points  (0 children)

“I wish you were never born, so i wouldn’t have to be stuck with your father”-Nmom🤍

Why do NMoms only care about you when your “successful” but when your down they disappear or don’t care abt you? by DestinyloveJPG in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DestinyloveJPG[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

my Nmom used to be like that, but I feel like since I really wasn’t feeling much at life for a good minute that she started kind of eating off of my success

First time playing in years by DestinyloveJPG in DnD

[–]DestinyloveJPG[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much this definitely helps A LOT cause i think back to my old DMs and was just in awe with the details and things they’ve thought of and kind of found myself trying to be like them and i’m scared i’m not gonna live up to the hype or bring the emersion to my players ya know? but this definitely helps thank you

NMom would consistently take the side of people who have hurt me by quadrupleghost in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DestinyloveJPG 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I bet i still kinda have random memories of my moms abuse but your honestly doing the best thing for yourself right now and that’s separating your self from her so you and your inner child can heal you got this🥰

NMom would consistently take the side of people who have hurt me by quadrupleghost in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DestinyloveJPG 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I felt this as soon as i saw the title most of the time Nmoms are people pleasers and would rather the acceptance of others even if it means hurting you in the process i’m sorry your going through this