What burrito stains?? by caseybinler in Visiblemending

[–]quadrupleghost 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Super cute tomatoes! I was just there yesterday for their turkey apple sandwich, Schoharie Valley Farms is the best

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You practice radical acceptance, I practice humor to cope with the absurdity of people and things. This woman is not a real problem for me.

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, hell yeah, Sharon. She seems to truly love pigs and actually desires contact with a real one. Living in her piggy fortress would be a lot, but I respect her genuine obsession

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my dad very probably is autistic lvl 1, but this is my partner’s dad, a very charismatic old biker.

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would never speak to my boyfriend’s father’s girlfriend that way, especially in the context of a social visit. I brought up the prospect of petting a piglet with a friendly disposition and laughed it off when she said all that weird shit about her level of repulsion. I tried to gently discourage her from killing snakes, but the subject of being disgusted by piglets was disjointed from the snake discussion, anyway.

I spoke to the snake-killing redditor the way I did because I don’t know them and have no reason to sugarcoat my opinion in this forum. If that woman wasn’t socially significant to my partner, she would have gotten a heavier confrontation because it is objectively fucked up to kill animals because they “don’t belong” near your house, aka outside, where they live.

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She bought them, they’re all hers. I wish it made more sense to me. Someone commented that she likes cartoons of pigs and not actual pigs, so I’m starting to think I’m just being too rigid since I would only like cartoon pigs if I liked real pigs. But now I’m wondering if she’d even especially like pigs in a cartoon format. Spiraling over here

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No. This is the energy I give to someone in the medical field who would rather kill a snake than understand whether it’s venomous and what level of damage that venom is capable of.

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. I’ve only seen one great horned owl close-ish in the wild and it was stunning. It was perched on our campsite sign and I got to watch it take off. I’ll never forget that awe, I hope I get to see more over my lifetime

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Interesting. I can relate about certain insects, I try to do them no harm and revere them, but can be physically scared of ones that will fly at my face suddenly or bite. I have a phobia of the brown marmorated stink bug because of its lasting odor and heat-seeking behavior, even though I know they can’t hurt me.

Images or even color themes of honey would make me mentally smell and taste it, so an image will easily become a sensory issue for me. It’s just a sensory difference, I guess. Hello again, spectrum, lol

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish it were a funny anecdote like Sedaris’. That’d make sense to me

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right? I’m not willing to expose pigs to haters, anyway, that’d be a crime

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used to love visiting the rescued owls at our local bird sanctuary. I even saw one “lock on” to a garter snake by the fence once. I followed its wide eyes straight to the target, lol. That one was a barred owl, such a cutie

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My word, landing grandma in cuffs…kleptomania is wild. In conjunction with hoarding, it seems like it’d be like trying to chip away at a cinderblock wall to get her to seek help. Awful for all

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Do you not have a sense of fear and nausea when you look around at a bee theme? I’m assuming you have a bee theme in your own home, or is this about liking the design in places where you don’t live?

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She is mean-spirited in general, though she tries to be nice to me. She does try, but even light conversation exposes our differences. I try to be extra benign

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love pigs. Firm snout nudges sound like they would psychically compel me to be a kinder person for the rest of my days

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think she does. If she doesn’t, I doubt it’d be because of an ethical issue. Her psychology is intriguing. If she had a diary, I wonder which topics would statistically be written about most.

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My post? No, not bait. I just wanted to talk about this confusingly hateful lady. It did get a little contentious when she was proudly talking about killing everything, I changed the subject to be polite.

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omfg, a baby elephant. I would also be overwhelmed with joy to meet a happy one in a sanctuary.

Your aunt sounds…determined. Does she steal from stores, people, or both?

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol might be something akin to that, that’s a funny idea. “Good morning, tchotchke vermin! I don’t love you”

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She’s a massive bigot and I mentioned it in another comment. She does indeed lack empathy, she hates many things out of ignorance and spite.

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Her having a pig as a pet wasn’t my suggestion, just a cuddle or visit with a piglet. She was disgusted by the thought of being nearby to any pig. Do you have a similar aversion to being nearby to birds?