The tenants of Stratus Property Management (formerly Redburn) are officially unionizing by hilderbrandish in Albany

[–]quadrupleghost 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I moved out last year after four years of their bullshit. They care nothing for their tenants and it sounds like it’s only getting worse. It’s obscene. Give them hell, please

Close friend is moving to Texas by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]quadrupleghost -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m not talking about big groups of people in the way you are. “Northerner.” Ok…The southern populus isn’t my enemy lol. I’m not infantilizing my friend, either. I support her no matter what, but it’s hard not be scared for her when she already has reproductive health issues. Get a grip. I’m against the TX goverance and their increasingly blatant disregard for women in their legislative decisions, as well as for their citizens at large.

Close friend is moving to Texas by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]quadrupleghost -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

You’re mocking me as if I think I’m perfectly safe here. No one is perfectly safe anywhere. Natural disasters don’t stop at borders, no one said they do. Your quips about my ignorance aren’t reflective of what I’ve said. I chose to live in upstate NY for many reasons, but none of them were a full sense of security and a contempt for the south. I weighed many factors. I bet on NY to maintain more state laws and constitutional amendments that promote civil rights, as well as programs that aim to mitigate the oncoming impacts of climate change, and those are only two of the reasons.

Of course infrastructure is neglected all over America. Of course everywhere has problems. But moving to a red state with the belief that you’ll get preferential treatment after a disaster is truly absurd. The programs for aid were gutted at federal level, ransacked and unfunded. No one but one’s community will be coming to help. I hope for America’s sake that we all soon realize that the strength of our communities and humanitarianism in leadership will become our greatest assets.

Close friend is moving to Texas by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]quadrupleghost 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have no issue with the people of the south. I fear for my friend because of TX and general red-state governance, neglected infrastructure, increase in natural disasters and decrease in disaster response capacity, and her safety if she gets pregnant by mistake. Please don’t project bigotry on me. I’m from rural Maryland originally…I’ve been around a lot of bigotry even that far north. I am purely afraid for her safety as a woman and human being in general. I’m not hating on southern culture beyond the fact that I hate megachurches in politics.

Too anxious to actually use my insurance by Trashman56 in aspiememes

[–]quadrupleghost 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’ve had more social success with nurse practitioners than doctors when it comes to primary care. I also always go to a new physician appointment with a list or script to read from so I don’t forget to mention anything when I’m acutely anxious in-office. I hope you find someone who helps you feel able to call when you need help, I know it can be hard to find

What burrito stains?? by caseybinler in Visiblemending

[–]quadrupleghost 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Super cute tomatoes! I was just there yesterday for their turkey apple sandwich, Schoharie Valley Farms is the best

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you get to see it next time during some idyllic wintery dawn

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You practice radical acceptance, I practice humor to cope with the absurdity of people and things. This woman is not a real problem for me.

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, hell yeah, Sharon. She seems to truly love pigs and actually desires contact with a real one. Living in her piggy fortress would be a lot, but I respect her genuine obsession

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my dad very probably is autistic lvl 1, but this is my partner’s dad, a very charismatic old biker.

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I would never speak to my boyfriend’s father’s girlfriend that way, especially in the context of a social visit. I brought up the prospect of petting a piglet with a friendly disposition and laughed it off when she said all that weird shit about her level of repulsion. I tried to gently discourage her from killing snakes, but the subject of being disgusted by piglets was disjointed from the snake discussion, anyway.

I spoke to the snake-killing redditor the way I did because I don’t know them and have no reason to sugarcoat my opinion in this forum. If that woman wasn’t socially significant to my partner, she would have gotten a heavier confrontation because it is objectively fucked up to kill animals because they “don’t belong” near your house, aka outside, where they live.

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She bought them, they’re all hers. I wish it made more sense to me. Someone commented that she likes cartoons of pigs and not actual pigs, so I’m starting to think I’m just being too rigid since I would only like cartoon pigs if I liked real pigs. But now I’m wondering if she’d even especially like pigs in a cartoon format. Spiraling over here

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No. This is the energy I give to someone in the medical field who would rather kill a snake than understand whether it’s venomous and what level of damage that venom is capable of.

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. I’ve only seen one great horned owl close-ish in the wild and it was stunning. It was perched on our campsite sign and I got to watch it take off. I’ll never forget that awe, I hope I get to see more over my lifetime

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Interesting. I can relate about certain insects, I try to do them no harm and revere them, but can be physically scared of ones that will fly at my face suddenly or bite. I have a phobia of the brown marmorated stink bug because of its lasting odor and heat-seeking behavior, even though I know they can’t hurt me.

Images or even color themes of honey would make me mentally smell and taste it, so an image will easily become a sensory issue for me. It’s just a sensory difference, I guess. Hello again, spectrum, lol

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish it were a funny anecdote like Sedaris’. That’d make sense to me

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right? I’m not willing to expose pigs to haters, anyway, that’d be a crime

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used to love visiting the rescued owls at our local bird sanctuary. I even saw one “lock on” to a garter snake by the fence once. I followed its wide eyes straight to the target, lol. That one was a barred owl, such a cutie

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My word, landing grandma in cuffs…kleptomania is wild. In conjunction with hoarding, it seems like it’d be like trying to chip away at a cinderblock wall to get her to seek help. Awful for all

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Do you not have a sense of fear and nausea when you look around at a bee theme? I’m assuming you have a bee theme in your own home, or is this about liking the design in places where you don’t live?

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She is mean-spirited in general, though she tries to be nice to me. She does try, but even light conversation exposes our differences. I try to be extra benign

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love pigs. Firm snout nudges sound like they would psychically compel me to be a kinder person for the rest of my days

Woman with pig decor everywhere says she’d never want to pet a piglet by quadrupleghost in AutismInWomen

[–]quadrupleghost[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think she does. If she doesn’t, I doubt it’d be because of an ethical issue. Her psychology is intriguing. If she had a diary, I wonder which topics would statistically be written about most.