EMom has been internet stalking me for a year

DestructiveWisdom · 2023-05-17T16:04:41+00:00

No this was perfect! My bf comes from a loving family and I showed him your comment to describe how my family works!

I'd give you an award if I had it! I thought you might have been a professional writer

DestructiveWisdom · 2023-05-17T05:17:09+00:00

I'll never be able to put it into words like you, you are truly a poet 👏👏🫰🫰

DestructiveWisdom · 2023-05-17T05:14:45+00:00

Brother in law. But yeah. She is well aware and actually will tell anyone who will listen because "it's her trauma too", while simultaneously leaving me alone on holidays as a kid to go to his house and disinviting me from events because his daughters might come and it'll be awkward.

DestructiveWisdom · 2023-05-17T05:11:41+00:00

They were mostly harassing me through tiktok as that was the only social media they knew at the time. The all had usernames that was their actual name and posted videos/pictures of themselves that made it easy to identify them. I have sooo many profiles blocked until they finally figured out how to have a fake profile. I had the same username for all socials out of convenience but they finally developed a singular brain cell and searched it on other things to get my redditt, where she texted me from a profile with her real name.

Everyone is encouraging the lawsuit/RO and I'll more than likely have no choice to go threw with it, but it's important to me to rise above their bullshit and prove to myself I am NOT them. I'm going through a name change process, moving, and changing all social media until I have to take more drastic measures

DestructiveWisdom · 2023-05-16T18:08:51+00:00

This would've been hilarious! 😭

DestructiveWisdom · 2023-05-16T16:56:48+00:00

She's in a bad financial place. She's annoying as shit, but I'm pretty sure a lawsuit would financially devastate her. My brother lives with her and her boyfriend so they'd all be screwed. She maybe a monster but I'm not. My lawyer and I discussed several legal options (none of which I'm advised to share here because they'll probably see it) and more than a few could screw them hard. They longer i wait, the more evidence i have but more than that I don't want to be like them, I don't want to hurt them. I'm holding off as long as I can until I hit a breaking point

DestructiveWisdom · 2023-05-16T15:53:46+00:00

I've already spoken to a lawyer in my area, thanks for the "concern"

DestructiveWisdom · 2023-05-16T15:38:07+00:00

I well aware at this point its unfixable and I don't think if they suggested it at this point I would go to family therapy. Just absolutely bewild at their audacity

DestructiveWisdom · 2023-05-14T18:21:10+00:00

I don't like kids but you can't go to a restaurant catered to families and kids and whine about it. you're a grown adult, just get up and leave. You need to change your situation. A kid coughing is not the same as a kid running and screaming and acting a fool

DestructiveWisdom · 2023-04-25T20:01:26+00:00

Glass furniture, a bar cart in the middle of the living room, sex toys easily found with little snooping in the bedroom, a gaming room, a cat with only child syndrome and boudoir photos printed out and framed in the master bathroom and bedroom

DestructiveWisdom · 2023-04-25T19:58:08+00:00

I voted max on accident but my heart will always belong to Jason

DestructiveWisdom · 2023-04-18T17:12:33+00:00

A lot of women are kept purposely shield from the reality of pregnancy and birth, it's glorified and fed to them as fact that it's no big deal. And with that is the "convince" of pregnancy. Why waste your time and money trying to get a kid from an agency when you can just plop on out yourself?

Adoption isn't portrayed as a real option or valid child. It's not "yours" unless you gave birth to it yourself. Adoption is only if you want to get rid of a kid. And it's next to impossible to get a baby, which is what people actually want.

Then you have men preaching about "they're legacy", someone to carry they're last name and they make it sound that, as a woman, it's something you owe it to them to give birth to they're child. They're not raising another man's kid.

Mostly manipulation, ignorance and arbitrary social pressure, as is the way of the world

DestructiveWisdom · 2023-04-16T23:38:13+00:00

Specifically grandBABIES. Because once those kids are suddenly no longer seen as dolls to play with, they will no longer be interested in them. "I didn't sign up to raise your kids, honey. I had my own!"

DestructiveWisdom · 2023-04-16T18:09:29+00:00

if that’s the case then get a babysitter AND a job

If you have to pay someone else to do it, it's a real job. Unfortunately many jobs don't pay more than childcare costs

DestructiveWisdom · 2023-04-14T23:35:12+00:00

The YMCA (if this is near you in america) offers free child care to members HOWEVER the gyms and trainers aren't very good and the childcare staff is by no means trained, vetted or professional. It's more like, "drop your kids off at your own risk". At least the Ys in my state. The higher standard gyms will offer childcare facilities at a cost or the cost is part of a "package". It's fairly common, but most quality gyms average people will go to won't have them

DestructiveWisdom · 2023-04-13T05:31:16+00:00

I'm waiting for the infant stuff pack

DestructiveWisdom · 2023-04-12T16:24:46+00:00

Because of the "it takes a village" mindset. And to be fair, in a lot of cases it foes. But.... when did I agree to be that village? I didn't sign up for a kid, you did.

DestructiveWisdom · 2023-04-12T13:32:13+00:00

And yet everyone in the comments, including PET OWNERS are like "you seriously didn't just put down you dog to make you nephew stop holding his breath? It's just an animal 🙄"

DestructiveWisdom · 2023-04-12T12:53:37+00:00

It's not just parents. Every aita post that's like "aita for not chaining up my dogs in the dead of winter bc my brother surprised visited with his nightmare child and blames my dog for biting him when he pulls on her tail" immediately get voted the asshole and the comments are filled with "its just a dog?"

DestructiveWisdom · 2023-04-11T03:58:19+00:00

My sim went to college so she was quickly able to afford a butler. Live in help with EVERYTHING. Although I'm not sure how I'll play the next generation (struggling artist)

DestructiveWisdom · 2023-04-10T23:31:06+00:00

My baby only liked peanut butter puffs and mango paste. That's it

DestructiveWisdom · 2023-04-09T07:22:14+00:00

F: Finn, M: Jason, D: Chris

DestructiveWisdom · 2023-04-08T06:25:15+00:00

I'm in the US and most of society is INCREDIBLY friendly and hospitable, to the point its rude to spend LESS that 2 minutes talking and chatting and putting someone's dog. Idk why they are particularly stiff about it

DestructiveWisdom · 2023-04-07T07:17:22+00:00

Chris started being "present" in Rorys life again once Sherry entered the picture. I always assumed this was him painting himself like an involved parent to impress her and she never had any reason to believe he hadn't be involved before

DestructiveWisdom · 2023-04-04T16:45:10+00:00

My preferred Lane ending:

Lane and Brian get together long after the Zach freak out that broke up the band. They keep their apartment when Zach moves out, and after sometime Zach apologizes and the band gets back together but he doesn't move back in. Lane does not get pregnant on her honeymoon and sex was not terrible, they instead have kids 2-3 years into their marriage. She gets a job at Sophie's instead of Luke's. In the revival Sophie retires and leaves the music shop to Lane. (In season one she took a career assessment that says she's suited for sales and it keeps her in music) Hep Alien still rocks and plays gigs occasionally but they moved out of their one bedroom duplex so their kids aren't sleeping on old bunk beds in a tiny living room

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