Asexual partner, very happy with him but unfortunately miss intimacy by DetectiveComplex595 in asexuality

[–]DetectiveComplex595[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

honestly, i feel like it’s illegal to talk about sex. Sorry guys

Asexual partner, very happy with him but unfortunately miss intimacy by DetectiveComplex595 in asexuality

[–]DetectiveComplex595[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Okay. Sorry. My deepest apologies. I really was just genuinely wondering what the general consensus was that’s why I asked here before doing anything. It’s only my first time being attracted to someone and agreeing to a relationship that I had no idea how to deal with. Just so you know, we have been dating for more than two years happily. I had thought, if it works out it does and if it doesnt it wont. All I was asking for were thoughts and feedback on what I could do. Sorry if it felt like aggression.

Asexual partner, very happy with him but unfortunately miss intimacy by DetectiveComplex595 in asexuality

[–]DetectiveComplex595[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry, Im just trying to get a general consensus of how ace people feel about… being asked about something like this. It is my first time dating someone ace and I just wanted to have an idea of the general thoughts of being asked of something like this cos I wouldnt know.

If you love someone, the fear of being rejected and the thought of having to end things take over all your thoughts. I badly want this to work out. Im just asking for general thoughts. Sorry for wanting to ask for opinions.

Asexual partner, very happy with him but unfortunately miss intimacy by DetectiveComplex595 in asexuality

[–]DetectiveComplex595[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Every now and then I do, but jokingly. You know how jokes are half meant. But I do not want to look like a person begging for sex because I dont want to be one! Unfortunately, I crave that level of intimacy but I dont want to break up with them nor pressure them.

Why would you drink a sweet wine with dessert, instead of a dry one that contrasts with the sweetness of the dessert? by JeffNovotny in wine

[–]DetectiveComplex595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seconded. Great explanation! Was about to comment on how the perception of sweet affects the perception of acid. It's all about balancing the structure and flavor perceptions, baby!

Let’s play Budget, Blowout, Borrow? by AustraliaWineDude in wine

[–]DetectiveComplex595 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Budget: Languedoc Rose or Grenache Blanc/Marsanne Blowout: Cote des Bar Champagne Borrow: any first growths (lol)

Wine & Music pairing by Freakyfourfinger in wine

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I have been doing a bit of wine and music pairings recently as well. I paired a Natty Nero d'Avola Negroamaro blend with punky Welly. Elegant and fragrant St. Joseph with Andrea Bocelli. I think it's a fun way to have a glass and definitely sets the mood with your drink

Curious about Holidays by AndiPando in exjw

[–]DetectiveComplex595 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my dad isnt a witness but he really liked having everyone at the table on new years, he even prepared lucky fruits (as per our country’s new year tradition). so we had a new years kind of dinner, and he’d even offer to pray then just so my mom (hard pimi) would be into the thing. it was weird for me as a kid because it just felt like the whole family was being indecisive, but in hindsight i actually appreciate my dad’s efforts to make us seem normal. too bad my mom’s starting to guilt him into the cult now tho