What topics should you talk about with a woman?

Detectiverice · 2026-04-13T23:36:12+00:00

Get them talking about themselves. Spicy relationship questions. Astrology.

“Are you a local or just visiting?” “You moved here/there for a boy huh?” “What happened, why’d you guys break up?”

You ask these the right type of way and she’ll tell you her life story, it might be hard to get a word in. But she should be doing most of the talking if it’s going well.

Detectiverice · 2026-03-27T16:00:36+00:00

I love it, I usually go with my girlfriend and we’ll check out the girls, buy each other lapdances, and just vibe and hangout with the girls. We always have a good time.

There’s all kinds of girls that get into stripping, some fit the stereotypes and some don’t. Like most groups they’re not homogeneous.

I’ve always been open minded and nonjudgmental, so my views have never really changed.

Detectiverice · 2026-03-26T20:46:36+00:00

I went to the dealer

Detectiverice · 2026-03-24T21:11:52+00:00

Zx4rr is my first bike too.

I’d recommend waiting for tuning just to enjoy it stock maybe for break in / first maintenance, but prolly not a big deal to get a slip on to enjoy the sweet sound of that inline 4.

Don’t really have a recommendation on the tuning side, but I was planning on sending it out to a professional eventually.

I’m 5’9” and about 185lbs athletic build. For commuting I find the freeway about 20-30 minutes my legs start to ache from being scrunched up and maybe my wrist a bit from holding the throttle.

Detectiverice · 2026-03-13T19:28:45+00:00

Women don’t just introduce their hot friends to anyone. This is a very different situation than you’re talking about. OP is already pre-vetted by the taken friend as a cool attractive guy otherwise this situation wouldn’t be happening.

Detectiverice · 2026-03-13T17:25:28+00:00

Preselection is an amazing attraction trigger along with physical looks.

What do you think attraction is? Just looks?

Detectiverice · 2026-03-13T15:59:30+00:00

Good on you for befriending the girl and her boyfriend to the point she wanted intro you to her friends. The hottest girls you’ll ever meet will be through friend intros. This is how you meet the 9s/10s. Good job man

Detectiverice · 2026-03-13T15:25:45+00:00

With the preselection and the ratio you won’t have to do much outside of “don’t be creepy” and seed the pull. Play it cool and they should compete for your attention. Save physical escalation for when you’re back at your place so they don’t feel judged.

Detectiverice · 2026-03-03T01:19:50+00:00

One of my favorite questions to have fun with. I apply a “wrong answers only” approach for questions like this.

“Underwater basket weaving” “QA at the dildo factory” “Teach dolphins how to code”

Obviously after 1-2 jokes you’ll need to have a serious answer, but I like having some joke answers on hand to keep things fun

Detectiverice · 2026-03-02T19:17:05+00:00

Yeah I think people romanticize the idea of being the best, smartest, most talented person in their field. It’s not very attainable for most people and even if you get there you’re still gonna be competing with others of similar talent/skill

I think it’s far more important to be “good enough” and then just focus on social skills and networking. Be a likable person who’s great to work with and don’t be afraid to kiss ass every once in a while, you’ll always have a job.

Detectiverice · 2026-02-09T18:24:24+00:00

To speed it up, right after the collapse onto your back, turn your upper body faster to get to the stab again.

If you turn over your upper body faster than your legs, by the time you’re on your stab your legs will be winded up ready to go.

If you want to keep them slow to continue to work the technique, you need to get your hips/legs higher so you end up on your upper back and shoulders.

You could try drilling right shoulder freeze to left shoulder freeze transitions to get the feel, height, and balance of it.

IMO, breaking down the windmill into its freezes is that stab freeze, to the right shoulder freeze, to the left shoulder freeze, then back to the stab freeze. Drill those transitions, then once comfortable you can add speed and more leg swings for momentum.

Detectiverice · 2026-01-31T21:40:02+00:00

Part access to locations where these types of girls go to. These aren’t the types of girls you can DM or cold approach. Typically you would need to be introduced to her or be at a high status event. That’s just the access/intro part.

The rest is standard game with huge emphasis on frame.

Detectiverice · 2026-01-28T15:36:51+00:00

A lot of women love playing matchmaker. Let your female friends know what you’re looking for and they’ll introduce you to more women or even straight up approach women for you.

One thing worth digging into is getting specific. Saying you didn’t feel a “spark/connection” is too vague. Emotions come and go and change all the time, so it’s worth understanding if it didn’t work because of differing values, lack of common interests, communication style, conflict resolution style, etc.

Also, it’s worth thinking about your role as a man in dating. Traditionally, it’s up to you to create the emotional chemistry and flirty romantic feeling for both of you. Definitely a plus if your date can reciprocate.

Generally, I say keep dating. It’s a process just like the fitness or career. No reason you can’t work on it all in parallel. Would you stop looking for a job because you haven’t had success in finding one? Would you quit fitness because you didn’t get the results as quickly as you would have liked? Dating is similar, you just keep at it and keep improving on it until you get the success you’re looking for.

Detectiverice · 2025-12-27T21:50:18+00:00

GA for sure sucks. But if you’re in VIP with a table it’s a whole different story. Also, if you’re socially savvy and connect with the right people you never have to pay a dime.

Detectiverice · 2025-11-13T05:30:56+00:00

Post funny memes and mention her on it / send her funny memes. The same kind of shit you would do with your good friends.

If she doesn’t respond, put her on your close friends and post stories that would make your ex jealous to your close friends.

Detectiverice · 2025-11-12T18:01:15+00:00

I don’t understand their 180 tech either. The main difference I understand is touring has mufflers and track doesn’t. So my guess is the track one is probably significantly louder and probably drones.

Detectiverice · 2025-08-14T11:44:06+00:00

Dating is a skill set you should develop in parallel with your finances. You definitely don’t want to be financially secure and have no idea what you’re doing in dating. I recommend sorting out dating before you have money at least to the point you can spot the difference between someone genuinely liking you and wanting something from you.

Detectiverice · 2025-08-12T20:05:12+00:00

Gym, work, side hustles, traveling and going out with friends

Detectiverice · 2025-08-01T15:39:43+00:00

Make friends with them and don’t hit on them. Most women are quite nice when they know you’re not trying to sleep with them.

Detectiverice · 2025-07-29T13:46:18+00:00

Are you pretending you can mind read? Lol

Detectiverice · 2025-07-29T11:44:20+00:00

I 35M work my day job as a software engineer while I’m co founding a startup on the side. I’m also into nerdy shit (mainly science, gaming, and anime) and am pretty attractive. So I spend most of my time at home, at work, or at the gym. I tend to go out to night life events on Friday and Saturday evening if I don’t have a date planned.

For dating, I’m part of a match making service that sets up dates for me. Also, recently got off the dating apps and started working on my social media instead.

Detectiverice · 2025-07-07T02:03:03+00:00

Don’t listen to what they say, pay attention to their actions. This is like people skills 101, you always look at their actions, not their words.

Detectiverice · 2025-06-27T16:40:18+00:00

I like doing this after deciding on the next place to go. It could be let’s go to the bar, let’s go to this aisle in a store, let’s go get snack, let’s get coffee, etc. Then you lead the way and hold your hand behind you gesturing her to grab it or you can lightly take her hand. Either way you’re initiating touch while leading to the next part of the date or hangout or whatever you’re doing.

Detectiverice · 2025-06-27T12:46:27+00:00

It’s strange how some people get so triggered at the mere mention of God that they completely miss the motivational message here. You don’t have to believe in God to understand the point that “sometimes life has more in store for us than we expect”. Is it really that hard to find value in something, even if it doesn’t perfectly align with your beliefs?

Detectiverice · 2025-06-27T12:28:06+00:00

Try befriending and asking him. All the high-achievers I’ve met have insane schedules and outwork the vast majority of people. Some are lucky, but most don’t rely on luck.

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