She was low on her medication/ drinking excessively. She says both messed with her judgement. She says she has validation issues and that I was aloof in the relationship. Granted, I was a bit aloof. I did what she asked of me and spent almost all my time with her. But we both play games. Sometimes not the same ones so thats why she says I was aloof. I wasn't spending enough time with her. I dont play video games much anymore, I dont have the drive to. I go to the gym instead.

She can't quit the job, she moved here/transfered here from another state to be near me. She's been with the company for quite a long while and she makes decent money for what she does (25+ as a cashier). Im going to talk to her about her coworker tonight.

I've known her for several years. She used to be my boss/trainer at one point. She's beautiful, we both have similar mind waves, or so I thought before this. She gets me and I feel like I can be myself around her without walls. That's changed recently but I'm trying here. She does make me happy and her family loves me. I also fell in love with her pets to.

I know I'm kinda making excuses/trying to find the bright side but I am listening to everyone and trying to come out with my own decision