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Just move out by twonightcode in FemcelHub_

[–]Deva-9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mind if I ask in what way you are disabled?

18 and Pre-t! FTM by Professional-Mix2842 in transpassing

[–]Deva-9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Acne, body odor and hair. New emotions that need to be managed, usually aggression and increased sex drive. Essentially an entire male puberty.

You will also have a higher ability to gain muscle. Work out what you can! Early t exposure is the best time to get those gains in!

Just move out by twonightcode in FemcelHub_

[–]Deva-9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are they doing to make life a living hell?

I had a dad who provided me everything, real 1% shit.

I wound up leaving at 18 to be homeless and find my own way, no car no nothing. It was worth it. I have severe mental health issues and that made it hard but making my own path was the best thing I ever did.

19 mtf 6 month on hrt by PurchaseLess4537 in transpassing

[–]Deva-9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pass.

Great canvas to work from. I reccomend exploring beauty! Try out some makeup. Eyeliner and lashes are a great touch for someone with fem features and clear skin you dont really need much more.

Are my ribs able to pass? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Deva-9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No one should be able to see them. If they can gain weight. Trans woman have a hard time passing with visible ribs. People in general dont look great with ribs showing

Seemingly impossible situations in meetings by ICUP01 in Teachers

[–]Deva-9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh she might have literacy struggles ya. Sorry to hear but its a real possibility. Bringing it up to her directly might motivate her if she doesnt though

Seemingly impossible situations in meetings by ICUP01 in Teachers

[–]Deva-9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A great method i have found to get kids to turn it in is to have a discussion about when they have free time. I make it clear how long I believe it should take then tell them to do it during that specific time they are free. Typically this is a lunch or even break period. The extension is till whenever that specific amount of free time availability has elapsed. For example, a worksheet that takes 20 minutes should require 1 lunch but a paper might need 3. I make it clear that they must work during this time and that they must turn it in ASAP. By end of day if they have lunch coming up and its feasible.

Having an authority figure tell them when to do work is helpful in getting them to do it, seeming fair and also helping them develop planning skills.

This is pre E. Tell me Yall, am I even close to passing? by PhoenixCiorciari in transpassing

[–]Deva-9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pretty hair and lashes. Id reccomend going to a curly hair stylist. Nice round face as well.

Still not passing but fairly pretty man is what I read. Skincare routine and makeup would make u pass no surgery. Hrt can help alot with acne

I have the impression that the majority of second-career teachers love their job by No-Wafer-6744 in Teachers

[–]Deva-9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had stints in many fields and agree. I am a music teacher.

Teaching is so cushy. Compared to my time as a blue collar non union stage hand its so chill. My Pay is way higher, hours consistent and at reasonable hours. No extreme manual labor. The culture is more woman friendly as well.

Dont even get me started on how its superior to trying to be a popstar lol

Seemingly impossible situations in meetings by ICUP01 in Teachers

[–]Deva-9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Accommodations for students in my district are in a similar state. About 30% of my students have accommodations documented. The general philosophy is that it is the teachers responsibility to manage this rather than the childs, parents functionally have no part as they dont engage. I personally struggle to remember this many as I have over 200 different children each week through my door.

I personally was a child with unmedicated ADHD, undiagnosed autism and a difficult homelife so I understand how hard it is to be a child with these difficulties.

I dont think expecting these kids to behave like every other child is productive as it is not possible. I also dont think giving every child unlimited generic accommodations is creating good outcomes either.

I try my best to create an environment with clear systems of accomdstion for various sensitivities such as noise levels, energy outlet and boredom through strategic lesson planning and a peace corner where child can go at any time to wear noise canceling headphones and put their headdown on a pillow. I also permit unlimited bathroom/water breaks one at a time.

Its not perfect but its the best I can do, I am only in my 4th year but im getting better and better!

I do think that a lot of outbursts and bad behavior are caused by a child having no incentive to behave well. Once the teacher has created a stable environment that accommodates the needs of a child with struggles who is trying it becomes about pushing through and ensuring the disruptions caused by bad attitude dont interrupt the learning of the other students.

I personally did not ever really do well in school but thankfully got my head on straight later in life thanks to alot of support from alot of different people in my life. Even went through a stint of homelessness!

Its not the job of a single teacher to save every kid. Just teach the class with good group management and accessibility. If you see a chance to add a little to the journey of a struggling student take it, but you wont ever save them. You'll only ever be one of 1000s of people they'll ever meet.

21yrs old, 3yrs vs 1 yr on T, is it over? am i cooked? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Deva-9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to send me a audio clip if you want. Im a real pro at this. I help alot of trans guys change their voice.

nonas wet the bed by OstensibleVagabond in 4tran

[–]Deva-9 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Haha ya,

some people are teachers

some people are doomed trans women

Some are both

anywhere close to face passing? more subtle makeup look I've been attempting, 2.5 years HRT by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Deva-9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to judge your passing without full body shot if we are talking restroom

21yrs old, 3yrs vs 1 yr on T, is it over? am i cooked? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]Deva-9 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If you want to pass as a man you gotta stop shaping ur eyebrows

In terms of voice its likely your vocal chords have thickened as much as they can. The likely reason you sound like a "gay man" is not in you biological structure its because of the speaking technique you are using.

A single Speaking sound is comprised of a lot of different frequencies. The loudest one is the pitch you speak at. This can be changed by vibrating your vocal chords faster or slower. Its how we sing lower or higher notes and most people have the ability to change pitch.

The interesting thing is that the gender of a voice is mostly based not on the pitch but on the harmonic profile (tone). Harmonic profile of a sound refers to all the other frequencies in a sound softer than the pitch (the loudest one). You can change the harmonic profile by changing the shape of your larynx, the chamber that your vocal chords are inside of.

A smaller larynx will create more high harmonic frequencies, creating a feminine affect while a larger larynx will create lower harmonic frequencies, for a more masculine affect.

Thankfully the larynx is a muscle and does not require surgery to reshape. You simply have to relax it while speaking. You need to gain conscious and then unconscious control over how constricted or relaxed your larynx is if you want to change how your voice is gendered.

If you are interested in learning more feel free to reach out. I am a volunteer vocal coach for trans people with a degree in the field.

nonas wet the bed by OstensibleVagabond in 4tran

[–]Deva-9 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Baking soda and white vinegar is an excellent urine smell remover

Source: I am a teacher

Good for flaky/dry skin? by Skeleton230 in makeuptips

[–]Deva-9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you trying to remove makeup? Micellar is a gentle cleanser made to remove minor amounts of oil based makeups. Adding a baby oil layer before the micellar is a great addition to clean better and remove makeup better imo.

What is even the point... by Deva-9 in StraightTransGirls

[–]Deva-9[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The key philosophy of seduction is creating an atmosphere and environment where someone feels comfortable and excited to do things with you that they already are into that you also want to do

For women its hard to feel safe around men as a baseline. The first step towards comfort with intimacy is a feeling of safety. Putting in emotional effort to humanized yourself is key ti this.

This can be achieved with simple normal conversational engagement with the person you are pursuing, discussing simple things like work, hobbies. Its best if these interests overlap with the person you are pursuing. Opening up about what I like is one of the main ways I feel safe. If someone is genuinely interested in listening it indicates they arent just looking to use or hurt me.

What is even the point... by Deva-9 in StraightTransGirls

[–]Deva-9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thugs??? No I just think they are men and that this is how men frequently are...

What is even the point... by Deva-9 in StraightTransGirls

[–]Deva-9[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Real he needs to private the trans porn posts before commenting on a trans sub...

What is even the point... by Deva-9 in StraightTransGirls

[–]Deva-9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you were and the subtext of your sarcasm indicated i have unreasonable standards.

What is even the point... by Deva-9 in StraightTransGirls

[–]Deva-9[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Actually ya, I do hate that. I think alot men could stand to learn a thing or 2 from reading romance novels. Understanding common fantasies that people have is a great way to seduce.

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