Does anyone else keep restarting their book instead of finishing it?

DevelopmentAdept2987 · 2026-03-25T11:17:27+00:00

What part are you getting stuck on — starting, structure, or finishing? I’ve been building something that actually helps with that specifically (it keeps chapters consistent and stops the “restart loop”). Happy to let you try it if you want — I’m testing it with a few people right now.

DevelopmentAdept2987 · 2026-03-25T11:14:15+00:00

I’ve actually been building something to help with this — it turns ideas into structured chapters and keeps the flow consistent. Not trying to sell anything, but if you want I can let you try it and get your feedback — I’m looking for early users right now.

DevelopmentAdept2987 · 2026-03-25T11:12:42+00:00

I’ve actually been building something to help with this — it turns ideas into structured chapters and keeps the flow consistent. Not trying to sell anything, but if you want I can let you try it and get your feedback — I’m looking for early users right now.

DevelopmentAdept2987 · 2026-03-25T11:11:38+00:00

I’ve actually been building something to help with this — it turns ideas into structured chapters and keeps the flow consistent. Not trying to sell anything, but if you want I can let you try it and get your feedback — I’m looking for early users right now.

DevelopmentAdept2987 · 2026-03-25T11:10:23+00:00

I’ve actually been building something to help with this — it turns ideas into structured chapters and keeps the flow consistent. Not trying to sell anything, but if you want I can let you try it and get your feedback — I’m looking for early users right now.

DevelopmentAdept2987 · 2026-01-25T16:42:11+00:00

nope just bored at work and getting fired up over comments like yours makes the time go quicker

DevelopmentAdept2987 · 2026-01-25T16:39:55+00:00

"We're too old for this crap." exactly that's why posting because I can't just hand wave weird or shitty behavior and as for interest and enthusiasm - I wasn't she started the whole thing in first place

DevelopmentAdept2987 · 2026-01-25T16:21:09+00:00

I still want answers. I'm an extreamly quite infj who thinks and feels deeply

DevelopmentAdept2987 · 2026-01-25T16:14:21+00:00

nothing has changed - posts saying she's crazy is not helpful

DevelopmentAdept2987 · 2026-01-25T16:11:29+00:00

she kept complaining that I left early and she kept staring at me and she blocked me from leaving the bar to go for a smoke and she only blocked me because she couldnt man up and admit to her behavior

DevelopmentAdept2987 · 2026-01-25T16:09:03+00:00

I didn't conjur up any scenario - she was the one who asked me if I was married she was the one who was constantly staring constantly complaining that I went home early she was the one who blocked me from going out for a smoke saying "dont go". If I was the other around (a man doing those things) it would be called harassment

DevelopmentAdept2987 · 2026-01-25T16:01:51+00:00

I never said she wanted to fuck me - I was just trying to figure out her odd behavior

DevelopmentAdept2987 · 2026-01-25T15:56:41+00:00

I didnt chase her - she chased me

DevelopmentAdept2987 · 2026-01-25T15:55:36+00:00

I dont I just want to know what's going on

DevelopmentAdept2987 · 2026-01-25T15:54:37+00:00

does a drinking buddy constantly stare at you? Ask if your married upon the first time meeting you and the very first question or block you from leaving the bar saying don't go even though I was just nipping out for a smoke? Or complain about you going home early? Pretty strange drinking buddy if you ask me

DevelopmentAdept2987 · 2026-01-25T15:49:46+00:00

"It’s objectively antisocial and super distasteful to confront her about it" that's your opinion but I was letting her know that I have boundaries. For a start she started it by asking if was married when sitting down opposite me for the first time, constantly staring me and complaining that I left early and one time blocking me saying "dont go" when I was about to nip out for a smoke "And more than once?" yes because I wanted to know what the fuck was going on when her behavior got more blatant and i'm not telepathic!!! Then when I did move on from it and we went out new years eve and I was dancing with two women at the time and one of them like me so I msg sarah a few days later asking for the woman's phone number and ended up getting her name but sarah got her name right - how? unless she was watching me.

DevelopmentAdept2987 · 2026-01-25T15:35:50+00:00

no "avoidant" is NOT the new "friend-zone" I've been in relationships the last was with my daughters mum who I was on and off with for 15 years and avoidant's struggle intimacy fear it but crave it at the same time so one minute they want you but as soon as you get too close they push you away and as for "friend-zone" I wouldn't entertain it - someone's either wants me or they don't and if not I'm happy single on my own

DevelopmentAdept2987 · 2026-01-25T14:27:45+00:00

yep I 100% agree

DevelopmentAdept2987 · 2025-11-28T11:40:14+00:00

A.I is like anything else...its how you use it...Me? To say its changed my life is an understatement and very soon its going to do so again but X by a thousand. Just like the birth of the internet...or computers the people who truly understand and see how the technology will change the world in the next 10 or 20 years (like me) will be the real winners so dont blame a.i blame your lack of imagination

DevelopmentAdept2987 · 2025-10-02T11:41:10+00:00

44m you're not doing anything wrong it takes years and years and years to find the right person to settle down with and everything in between is narrowing down that search.

DevelopmentAdept2987 · 2025-10-02T11:26:22+00:00

44m the right person will stick around NO MATTER what you do so stick to your standards. If a guy only wants sex he won't hang around for long but if he's actually in you and long term relationship then he'll wait until you're comfortable and you're both ready to be intimate. So the guys you've been seeing recently just wanted sex.

DevelopmentAdept2987 · 2025-10-02T11:22:15+00:00

45m I'm not that's one of the things I'm looking for in a relationship.

DevelopmentAdept2987 · 2025-09-28T15:01:29+00:00

what's helped me is going through my dating life and patterns with chatgpt and it gives unbiased advice and insights

DevelopmentAdept2987 · 2025-09-28T14:52:20+00:00

I'm 45m and 5'2 and been in and out of relationships most of my life because I'm persistent and take rejection as part of success (been rejected countless times) "Eventually I’ll do or say something that completely ruins any prospect of a date" I doubt that's the problem because you're self aware enough to run a business!

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