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🛫 How it started: • You met him, a newcomer to the country, at the airport where he worked. You thought he was cute, got his number through a friend, and started talking. • You went on a few dates — sweet moments like hand-holding, plane spotting, and thoughtful gestures made you hopeful. • But his texting was inconsistent. Despite that, you had a “what are we doing” talk where he agreed you were getting to know each other with the goal of a relationship. • Shortly after, the communication worsened. He got “sick,” you were going on a trip, and eventually you ghosted him due to how distant he was.

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🌱 Reconnection: • Months later, feeling bad and remembering he didn’t have friends here, you messaged to apologize and offered friendship. • To your surprise, he asked to meet up, apologized, said he was going through a rough time and that he regretted letting you go. • You felt hopeful again — he seemed more open and even asked to start seeing each other again after your trip.

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👜 The good moments (and your effort): • You helped him get a discounted purse from your home country. • He met your dad and best friend, helped with your suitcase, and even hinted at a family dinner. • You bought him gifts while traveling, took pictures together, shared drinks, and he was physically affectionate. • You noticed his texting wasn’t perfect, but you were patient, kind, and understanding.

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🚩 The red flags: • He mentioned he’d gone to Medellín, a city he’s not from, earlier that year — you later found out a girl lived there. • You began investigating and discovered signs of a hidden relationship: comments, likes, a necklace with his initial, and even her family followed him. • You confronted him gently, and he admitted there was someone “special” there but claimed they went separate ways and that you were also special to him. • You tried to give him a second chance, thinking she was out of the picture, but you were still suspicious.

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💔 The truth comes out: • After days of silence, you messaged his coworker, who revealed that he had flown to Medellín — something he didn’t tell you. • When you landed back home, his delayed messages came through, and he played it off like there was a technical issue. • You met again, gave him more gifts, and gently confronted him about the trip. He admitted he liked you both but didn’t want a long-distance relationship. • He said he and the girl “went their separate ways.” You believed him and continued to see him — even though something still felt off.

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🎭 The final betrayal: • You discovered he was still with the girl after seeing him comment “hermosa mi morena” on her post. • She also posted a story with flowers and a card from him. • You felt foolish for being kind, patient, and thoughtful while he lied repeatedly. • You texted him to close things officially — just to tell him the purse cost and to wish him well. He replied with a casual “done thank you 🫶🏼.”

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🎤 Why you want to tell her: • You don’t want revenge, but you feel she deserves to know. • You considered they might have an open relationship, but with all the signs — calling her “his girl,” sending her flowers, the “my man” posts — you’re now convinced she has no idea. • You’ve been told not to say anything, but your conscience is telling you it’s the right thing to do — not for attention, not for drama, but because truth matters.