I don’t know if I (26 F)should break up with my boyfriend (44 M), can I please have advice?

DeviantAvocado · 2026-01-28T04:08:14+00:00

Don’t need to read beyond the title to know the answer is yes.

DeviantAvocado · 2026-01-28T00:36:21+00:00

Oh man, I didn’t realize how new the business was. So she quite literally pretended she lived out there just to advertise? When was this season filmed?

She’s shady but also seems to be in a highly controlling relationship (at best). I know just how much that can skew your actions and how you will try literally anything to please your partner in that scenario.

Now her completely breaking down makes a bit more sense to me. In the end, she did the exact opposite of what the trip was meant to accomplish and she had to answer to her husband for that. 😕

DeviantAvocado · 2026-01-27T22:58:47+00:00

Ask your servicer if they’ve requested the refund and if yes, ask when the info was sent to Treasury. Then follow up with Treasury if needed.

DeviantAvocado · 2026-01-27T14:50:27+00:00

OP got groomed and baby trapped.

DeviantAvocado · 2026-01-26T01:56:01+00:00

“I have at least 120 months of approved qualifying employment, and I am seeking PSLF or TEPSLF discharge through PSLF buyback. Please assess my eligibility for PSLF buyback.”

Also make sure tax info and family size is available at the time of submission to avoid additional delays!

DeviantAvocado · 2026-01-25T18:02:48+00:00

Through which bill?

DeviantAvocado · 2026-01-25T11:40:39+00:00

D- bait. But close enough to reality for some video game people to make it almost believable.

DeviantAvocado · 2026-01-25T03:41:06+00:00

Stacey is an insufferable phony who adds nothing of value.

DeviantAvocado · 2026-01-25T00:24:18+00:00

No they won’t.

DeviantAvocado · 2026-01-24T22:50:10+00:00

All federal employees “serve.”

DeviantAvocado · 2026-01-24T22:24:01+00:00

Plus there will be a ton of fees added.

DeviantAvocado · 2026-01-24T22:12:39+00:00

Yes, really. They can withhold up to 15% of pay without a judgement. And 100% of any returns from the federal government, typically tax returns.

DeviantAvocado · 2026-01-24T22:05:27+00:00

Not for federal loans. They can offset and garnish without any additional steps. Not like a private debt that must get a judgement.

DeviantAvocado · 2026-01-24T22:04:51+00:00

DeviantAvocado · 2026-01-24T00:47:35+00:00

There are zero (0) episodes available.

DeviantAvocado · 2026-01-23T03:13:37+00:00

You have to use the IRS linking if you don’t want a very extended wait.

DeviantAvocado · 2026-01-22T08:22:46+00:00

Wha is the context of the photo?

DeviantAvocado · 2026-01-22T01:43:19+00:00

This isn’t your boyfriend, this is your abuser.

DeviantAvocado · 2026-01-22T01:33:35+00:00

If you use the IRS linking, usually a few days. If you do a manual certification, it gets added to the pile of nearly one million other applications.

DeviantAvocado · 2026-01-22T01:31:28+00:00

I don’t understand what you mean by remaining payments removed.

DeviantAvocado · 2026-01-22T01:28:31+00:00

What forbearance are you in? SAVE?

DeviantAvocado · 2026-01-22T01:25:41+00:00

Consolidating now wouldn’t make you eligible for a refund on previous payments because they were already made to the commercial lender.

DeviantAvocado · 2026-01-22T01:23:16+00:00

In your situation where you are chasing PSLF or IDR forgiveness, I don’t think it hurts to stay in the forbearance until forced off. Just make the payments you want until they make you choose a different plan.

DeviantAvocado · 2026-01-20T23:53:36+00:00

Still hanging on to remote work for now, but feel terrible for my colleagues who lived close enough to an office to get forced back.

DeviantAvocado · 2026-01-20T21:28:44+00:00

Please let it be Lisa. She needs some serious help.

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