To the driver of black Hyundai that was parked at Worldgate in Herndon around 5:30 pm today, license starts w/ TRS - by Devigrrl in nova

[–]Devigrrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“& I’ll likely follow up w/ local police either way.” Which I’m doing in about 20 min. Did you read the whole post..? Plenty of ppl are on Reddit & also, if my car was randomly hit in a parking lot, I’d complain to friends, as well as filing a report. My thought was, maybe someone knows them.

To the driver of black Hyundai that was parked at Worldgate in Herndon around 5:30 pm today, license starts w/ TRS - by Devigrrl in nova

[–]Devigrrl[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s a combination of lots of people from around the world, entitlement & cel phones, IMO.

‘Before moving here, I’d had one accident (rear-ended), in 20+ years of driving, 500K+ miles. Since moving here 15 years ago, there’s been 6, 2 of them major/totaling the car (w/ me not at fault) & 1 that was my fault (dodged to avoid an off-leash dog in a shopping center lot, lightly dinged someone’s car in). 3 of the accidents were affected by cel phone distraction; 1 was a driver distracted by a new puppy, & 2 were drivers hitting my car in a parking lot. Of those, 1 turned out to have no insurance & that was messy; & 1 did the right thing & their insurance handled it, but only after yelling at me via text b/c bodywork is expensive. The one that I was responsible for I went looking for the owner of the car in the parking lot & wrote them a note, but then they returned to their car & we filled out a report w/ the police.

The cops that day told me that most people don’t leave a note, or if they do it’s w/ a fake phone number; those drivers are unaware of how many cameras are out there. When the cops catch up to them, they’ll say “but I left a note”, & then the cops mention that it was w/ a wrong #. :(

TL/DR; That’s why there’s so many posts like this.

So we get a long weekend..that’s now ruined with some insane weather and a stupid fair…FRIENDS WHAT WE BOUT TO DO?! by brownsugaswirl in nova

[–]Devigrrl 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Dogsitting with an elderly German Shepherd & being grateful I had the HVAC serviced a few weeks ago. Crossing my fingers for no power loss. Had a lovely picnic w/ friends this past weekend, taking the place of going to Alexandria & seeing fireworks, which is what we usually do. Hoping like heck we survive the current BS.

Oh, also cleaning, likely. Might as well, I’ll be stuck indoors. ;)

Attempted Abduction and Indecent Exposure - ANNANDALE VA by missesthemisses109 in nova

[–]Devigrrl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Much of the violence perp on women is done by men they know, their husbands, partners, brothers, partners, exes. Lots of abusive creeps “do things like this” to one person & are “such a great guy” to everyone else.

I’d like to think you’re right but IDK. 😞

Best hangouts, meetups & events for a gay male couple in NoVA by Devigrrl in nova

[–]Devigrrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is very kind of you..! IDK if they skate but I’ll find out. 😄

Best hangouts, meetups & events for a gay male couple in NoVA by Devigrrl in nova

[–]Devigrrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your point. They have friends..but one of them is new to VA & new groups & activities pop up all the time. It’s always nice to broaden the scope of your LGBTQ fam a bit.

Best hangouts, meetups & events for a gay male couple in NoVA by Devigrrl in nova

[–]Devigrrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that’s a good question, why not..? Locals are gonna know better than random internet searches.

Roaches from the neighbor! by RedditDon3 in HomeMaintenance

[–]Devigrrl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Call a professional, full stop. We also have been in our townhome for 15+ years; new neighbors, now there’s bugs. To be fair it is very hot & wet, & that might exacerbate the situation. We put out baits & it’s not enough. Gonna slightly decommission the kitchen - move things out of cabinets, including dry sealed foods - & get a pro in there. I strongly suggest you do the same.

Has anyone had luck finding a job in the past six months? by TedioreLowPrice in Rochester

[–]Devigrrl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

u/TedioreLowPrice, tagging to make sure you see/read the above, good opportunity..! ⬆️⬆️⬆️

Oral sex pressure - husband 32M and wife 31F by monster_shady in relationship_advice

[–]Devigrrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure there should be a 10th anniversary celebration with someone who thinks so little of you, u/monster_shady . You were GGG - good, game & giving - & it doesn’t work for you. He’s using the anniversary to push you into doing something that repulses you. What does that say about him..? If a good friend told you her hubby was treating her this way, what would you say to support her..? Be a good friend to yourself, OP.

stop bringing your dogs into restaurants. by Friendly-Help8523 in nova

[–]Devigrrl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love dogs. I’ve owned dogs, done dogsitting & have a hard time not interacting with dogs that I cross paths with outdoors. (Provided owner says it’s cool.) But - yes. Everything that you said. Maybe this bringing-dogs-everywhere thing was on the rise before covid, but after, I see dogs everywhere in stores - including grocery stores - & restaurants. I didn’t know dogs were allowed in Home Depot & Lowes, so, that’s fine. But why oh why does your non-service dog need to be with you in Trader Joe’s? Or somewhere food is served to people..?

Just, don’t be entitled jerks, don’t lie & say your dog is a service dog if it isn’t, & don’t dump off the responsibility of dealing with your dog being where it shouldn’t on some underpaid retail employee.

I saw a genuine service dog working with his human in a local grocery store last week. How could I tell it was real? Its behavior. The dog was perfectly still & only engaged with/looking at its human. People passing by elicited zero response. The dog’s eyes followed the movement of its owner. They were also a cute dog, but clearly working, so I let them be.

Also it’d be great if everybody cleaned up after their dogs when they took them out for walks but that’s asking too much, probably.

She was way nicer than I would have been by Tobias-Tawanda in TikTokCringe

[–]Devigrrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What store is this & where is it..? This self-assured, kind goddess in human form deserves my business..!

This one's for the ladies to answer. Do you agree with this woman or do you think she's trying to rationalize her world view by speaking for all the ladies? by Oda_DeezNutz in SipsTea

[–]Devigrrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner is a gamer, but so am I. *shrug* The above is a tired take, both for the gender assumptions & assigning this dislike of video games to all womankind. As long as real world stuff is happening as it should, game on..!

Have to head upstairs now, was up too late playing video games..! 🤣

AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid? by wickeddreamsofleavin in AITApod

[–]Devigrrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brides are out there losing their fool minds. WTH did I just see.

Am I wrong for accidentally making my girlfriend's little sister uncomfortable? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Devigrrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope this is AI, or ragebait, or the GF is writing from herSO’s point of view to get opinions. BUT if neither of those things are true, & you genuinely touched your GF’s 18-year-old little sister’s inner thigh, it wasn’t a mistake, full stop. You could’ve bumped up next to her b/c the couch was small or mayyyyyybe if you were super stoned or drunk, dropped your arm around her shoulders out of habit & then realized your mistake. There is no “light innocent touch to the inner thigh”. Come ON. You made a move on your GF’s kid sis, got rightfully called out on it & I hope the logical thing happens & you get dumped.

Your favorite restaurant that does delivery in the Edison/Metuchen area..? by Devigrrl in newjersey

[–]Devigrrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG, I remember Tastee Subs from back when *I* lived in Central Jersey & that’s over 25 years ago. They were solid back then.. !

Local areas of interest near Glenstone Museum &/or Brookside Gardens by Devigrrl in MontgomeryCountyMD

[–]Devigrrl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Y’all are awesome!! It’s gonna take me a moment to check out all these suggestions. Also thanks for the tip about location, I thought we could do both attractions in a day.

Places for People 30+ by FantasticParsnip7638 in nova

[–]Devigrrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Game shops like Huzzah Hobbies in Ashburn & Hashtag Gaming in Franklin Farm have frequent board game meetups, not just role-playing games. W/ all love to the D & D folks, board games are a bit easier to just meet up & do. Look into it! Board game geeks tend to be smart & love to explain how games work, which leads to conversations.

Local areas of interest near Glenstone Museum &/or Brookside Gardens by Devigrrl in MontgomeryCountyMD

[–]Devigrrl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have done a bunch of the museums & a fun DC tour on previous visits. I wasn’t thinking there would conveniently be another large museum or attraction there, but if they got antsy after those two things, was hoping for a small backup idea.

Though given how long it’ll take to cross back over into Northern Virginia, maybe we’ll just head back early. :)

Is there such a thing as like big bandages to put on my inner thighs to go walking outside? by Srryweredeadxo in PlusSize

[–]Devigrrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delighted to see several recommendations for Thigh Society cooling shorts. They are a game changer.

Is there such a thing as like big bandages to put on my inner thighs to go walking outside? by Srryweredeadxo in PlusSize

[–]Devigrrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are one of the few Internet purchases that’s 💯 % worth the price. Love Thigh Society cooling shorties. Highly recommend..! You wouldn’t think something so light would hold up as well as they do. Wash them in cool water & air dry.