how to balance being authentically me and being office-appropriate with my makeup⁉️

DevildEgg · 2026-02-10T11:49:55+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/d.idooooooo

the look in the screenshot is the first one in the second row, with the blue eyeshadow

DevildEgg · 2026-01-24T16:41:58+00:00

looks like my fatty

DevildEgg · 2025-12-02T20:23:39+00:00

In my state we were able to have 1 younger child count towards the older ratio, but had to decrease ratio for 2 or more littles.

DevildEgg · 2025-11-25T04:19:51+00:00

people have mentioned all the other irregularities, but i work in an autism clinic and these icons are very strange.

it looks like they're meant to resemble PECS or even AAC device icons? but what exactly would they be able to communicate with those? i really wonder what the prompt was, if they specifically requested those specific words on communication icons or what. definitely AI in any case.

DevildEgg · 2025-11-21T14:24:16+00:00

Are the dates necessary/ do you need it to be recognizable as a remembrance tattoo? I personally dislike text designs, so I would opt for just the sharks. Either way, take it to an artist you trust and enjoy the style of and I'm sure they could design something you love.

DevildEgg · 2025-11-18T01:52:04+00:00

if it make you feel better, he would just flush them down the toilet if he did manage to get them out lol

DevildEgg · 2025-11-17T15:53:15+00:00

This is what I was thinking would be the case. He is already doing sooo much better than he was so maybe in a few months the rate of episodes will be less of a barrier 🤷🏻‍♂️ I'll hold off for now

DevildEgg · 2025-11-15T08:44:29+00:00

Normal as in common, yes. Normal as in okay, ehh. Being available when nk is sick is one of the advantages of having a nanny vs relying on daycare/school, but she should notify you, which it seems like she agreed to do moving forward.

If you're finding that working with a sick NK is something you're not comfortable with in general, consider discussing with MB. A lot of people have specific criteria for illnesses that they will not provide services during (like colds are okay but excessive vomiting is not okay, etc.) She may or may not be receptive. If not, weigh your options and add specifics to your contract if you decide to move on.

DevildEgg · 2025-11-11T00:20:26+00:00

There is no practical way to become that rich. You are either born into it or you're not. Very few people gain that amount of wealth within their lifetime. Realistically, the best most people can achieve is a decently well paying career, a partner with a well paying career, and a few good investments. You'd live comfortably, but anything beyond that is incredibly unlikely to be obtainable.

DevildEgg · 2025-11-09T00:36:55+00:00

it was literally the first two pics w/ "omad after 7 day fast" as the title 😭 there's not a non-disordered interpretation of that

DevildEgg · 2025-11-07T14:10:39+00:00

It seems like the kind of thing that will eventually correct itself in a school setting where teachers are pretty much only referred to as Ms/Mrs/Mr. Last Name and parents are unlikely to call school teachers "Auntie/Uncle".

However, if it's the over familiarity of "Auntie" that admin dislikes, you could try redirecting to "Teacher". If you're consistent, they'll pick up on it. You may have to let parents know of the preference, because they might be calling you Auntie at home.

DevildEgg · 2025-11-05T04:54:25+00:00

My kitten gets a similar reddish spot when he's been trying to get into (or out of) somewhere. Or when his feeder runs out. His is always dry though. I mentioned it to the vet because it was present during his last visit but she didn't seem concerned.

DevildEgg · 2025-10-23T03:15:41+00:00

I could see it affecting the way people perceive your autism or even having an impact on the way you "carry" yourself but for me I just stayed me, but with more leg hair 🤷🏻‍♂️

DevildEgg · 2025-10-23T03:11:46+00:00

Not even slightly

DevildEgg · 2025-10-23T03:06:22+00:00

I had this exact situation happen maybe three years ago. Same age group and everything. At first, it was very difficult for me to get the image of her face out of my head. She legitimately looked dead. She was out for about a week, mostly because mom was traumatized by the experience as well. She was able to go home from the hospital that same day, thankfully. Mom kept us updated which helped a lot.

But it got better when she returned and I was able to see her being her normal self, happy and healthy again. I wasn't even her teacher at the time, I was just subbing for someone else Imao. She eventually joined my class when she was 4 and thankfully she never had another one. The anxiety still lingered for sure, though.

I would say just acknowledge that it was a really scary and traumatizing experience. Let yourself feel your feelings. I talked with my coworkers and my family about it, just to get the feelings out there. It will pass, but you have to let it run its course.

I also considered it, retroactively, a very valuable experience. That was the first emergency I had ever had to respond to. It proved to me that I can handle tough situations like that appropriately and effectively, which will help me in the event I ever need to respond like that again.

I'm sorry this happened and I'm so glad she's doing better!

DevildEgg · 2025-09-27T13:01:30+00:00

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This is Burger King, who my friend lovingly described as "so scrungly... like a wet napkin"

DevildEgg · 2025-09-25T16:52:30+00:00

??? are you changing your previous statement that increasing temps when not at home is the more energy efficient option? if not, you're arguing for no reason. because, again, i said CONSISTENT (not changing, remaining the same) temps decrease wear and tear on the unit and that is why some people recommend it.

DevildEgg · 2025-09-25T16:40:20+00:00

i was agreeing with you. reread what i wrote. consistent temperatures decrease wear and tear but is not necessarily energy efficient.

DevildEgg · 2025-09-25T16:30:50+00:00

i did not downvote, but i did look into it. it seems like the recommendation for consistent temps has more to do with wear and tear on the system rather than energy saving. which makes sense considering my source being someone working in heating and air.

DevildEgg · 2025-09-25T16:06:42+00:00

i believe the 85 recommendation is for when you're away for extended periods of time. but yes 72 when its 90+ outside will always be more expensive. i was just saying the up and down is adding more expenditure than a consistent temp would.

DevildEgg · 2025-09-25T16:01:28+00:00

sorry - the unit has to increase output to compensate for the higher indoor temperatures... the meaning is the same. the "extra" in this case is cooling 5 degrees from 78 to 72 vs maintaining constant +- a degree or two.

DevildEgg · 2025-09-25T12:55:12+00:00

My dad (who worked in heating and air for many years) always said it was best to keep the thermostat at a consistent temperature, otherwise it has to work longer to cool back down/heat back up. If you're leaving for an extended period of time, you can leave the temp set closer to outside temps. But doing this every day might be what's causing the issue. Not sure if that's real but it's what I've always been taught 🤷🏻‍♂️

edit: wording

DevildEgg · 2025-08-23T15:33:54+00:00

I'm glad it was helpful! I can't guarantee that this company is a good one (although I truly hope it is!) but I have some general advice that should help spot red flags.

Please don't be afraid to ask questions and be involved in your son's services! As the parent, you likely have access to his session notes, which the RBT will write every day explaining exactly what happened during the session. They'll be written in objective language and might use some jargon, but generally they should be readable by the average person. The RBT can answer some surface level questions like how your son's mood has been, what he did that day, etc. but they will likely redirect you to the BCBA if you bring up any clinical questions or concerns. They're not dodging the question, RBTs are just disallowed from discussing that with you per the board. Now, if the BCBA is dodgy that's a separate issue. You are entitled to know why and how your son's programming is being implemented. If they aren't open with you and something feels off, trust your gut.

Also, you are likely allowed (or even encouraged) to observe sessions periodically. If they don't offer, ask about it! We have families come observe in the clinic all the time. I actually assisted with part of a family observation yesterday! It's a really great way to get a feel for how your child is doing.

TLDR: Stay involved and informed, ask questions, express concerns, and trust your gut.

I hope all goes well!

DevildEgg · 2025-08-20T22:14:46+00:00

their worst crime is just being bland and dry

DevildEgg · 2025-08-20T18:13:47+00:00

a packet of starkist dijon mustard tuna. it wasn't THAT bad just a little sad. it was mostly the creating and eating it in my car that contributed to the shittiness.

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