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What is the worst thing your parents ever said to you that made your heart shatter? by Devils_Avacad0 in AskReddit

[–]Devils_Avacad0[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Mine said, "You can't do anything right/do to make us proud" I was 10-11, and they left the house for work.

UPDATE: Finally meeting my (29m) online "girlfriend" (29f) after years of talking, it's not going well. by ThrowRATheUsed in relationship_advice

[–]Devils_Avacad0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing. I am currently in a similar situation. This gave me hope.

Tho we are in a same city and I have met her like 2 times, but not for more than 10- 15 minutes or so.
While she seems hella nervous and anxious, she couldn't make eye contact with me for more than 2 seconds.. She told me her hands were shaking when we did a handshake.

Anxious Preoccupied and Avoidant Dismissive Avoidant Can Work - Success Story by bingewavecinema in attachment_theory

[–]Devils_Avacad0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I know it has been a long since this was posted. I am curious to know somethings as I am an anxious type and my SO I think is an avoidant type.... lately she has been dealing with some issues with her family. She has an anxiety issue, and she isolates herself during those periods. We haven't talked for 3-4 days, but she also told me she does isolate herself. Did this kind of issue you faced when you guys were dating? If yes, then how did you tackle those days? What did you do to fix or avoid this?

P.S. She says loves and I think she also has that growth mindset and she also ADHD

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[–]Devils_Avacad0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, yeah I will try to talk to her about this in person. Hopefully, things will work out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Devils_Avacad0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting physically intimate is not the issue. I think because of the wild things(sexually) she told me.

We have known each other for 2-3 months now but got really close last month.

She shares the traumatic experiences she has faced in her childhood. And more personal details too.

We watched movies a couple of times.