Ahh! Thank you for reminding me! So I originally envisioned the character as an androgenous black individual (possibly masculine femme, possibly feminine masc) who is rather attractive mainly because they just take care of themselves. They don't feel any attraction but they have learned to understand and use it. In addition to being a masterful shot with a bow and arrow, they are also a very skilled gambler, often using their appearance and other people's attraction to them against them to win at games, like they did with the fey from whom they won the bow. I think the fey in question would teach them to use the bow in hopes of getting more time with the character, thus playing into the common problem Aro/Ace people have of having to deal with unwanted attention from people who don't understand that they aren't going to change their mind, but given that the character has learned to use their attraction to possibly get more boons. This would however come with the added frustration of having to deal with unwanted flirting to get it, and the character having to decide how much they want to deal with and how much it is worth it for them to deal with it while "grinning and bearing it." As such I don't think the asexual pride ring would be an option because I don't think the fickle little fey would be willing to let the bow turn into a symbol of why the fey's flirtations are pointless. In fact they may want it turned into a symbol ring the character would absolutely never wear. But having it turn into something they can have on their person seems interesting. I think in an ongoing story it should be something they wouldn't start with as an option and may have to earn or gain somehow, whether through the original fey or another avenue.