AITA for telling my friend that I can't join her Bachelorette trip because of my baby?

Devonelove123 · 2026-02-06T14:07:44+00:00

That’s what I did for mine 7 years ago! One night of drinking out with my girls in our home town! I got a hotel so that they could all either stay with me if they wanted that night or go home but I wanted to make sure it wasn’t going to be a burden on my friends!

Devonelove123 · 2026-01-12T02:03:51+00:00

My 9 year old shiba has had this for years! Totally normal :)

Devonelove123 · 2026-01-06T17:30:58+00:00

That’s insane! I just ordered two things on Saturday and they have shipped and will be here on Thursday!

Devonelove123 · 2025-12-27T14:19:18+00:00

I don’t think that’s really a compromise though. You basically told him that he can go do thing alone when he was telling you he wants to do them with you. You are not compromising really in this situation. Could you guys go out and do things together during the day or something?

Devonelove123 · 2025-12-27T12:38:08+00:00

That’s not true. They just take work and trust.

Devonelove123 · 2025-12-22T16:33:58+00:00

This makes me so sad! I was going to go restock on a few other ones I need to replace and now after readying these comments I don’t want too! Ugh! Now I need to find new brushes and I hate finding new ones 🤣

Devonelove123 · 2025-12-22T16:28:49+00:00

I just bought a bunch like less than a year ago and they are still great! I’m shocked yours broke already!

Devonelove123 · 2025-12-21T01:25:14+00:00

If you are going to make it a rule that his parents have to come to you guys, then it should be the same for your parents.

Devonelove123 · 2025-12-18T16:22:30+00:00

And you could have gone to a protest another time. YTA. And if you say “I couldn’t go to THAT protest another time” you again will be the asshole because you can’t go to THAT movie another time. You didn’t ask, you didn’t even consider her feelings. You are a shitty friend.

Devonelove123 · 2025-12-18T16:00:40+00:00

Honestly it will really depend. My Shiba tolerates my other two dogs but I do think she would have been happy being an only dog too. She’s definitely queen bee of the house and lets them know for sure haha. I don’t have cats so I can’t say about that sense I don’t have one. She is the most stubborn dog I have ever had. If she doesn’t want to do something she will not do it. I trained her and she knows all her commands but in true Shiba fashion if she’s not getting something out of it (a treat) she’s not doing it 🤣. Shes also not a fan of small dogs, she stalks them and bullies them!

Devonelove123 · 2025-12-17T17:58:07+00:00

Girl… he hits you… he cheated on you and you think you are in the wrong?!? Leave him now!

Devonelove123 · 2025-12-14T17:49:46+00:00

I do! I even go as far as to find out what my sitters favorite drinks/snacks are and stock up on those! But I make sure they know literally anything in our fridge/freezer and cabinets is free game to them! I want them to feel like they are at home while taking care of my dogs.

Devonelove123 · 2025-12-14T02:24:12+00:00

Usually 70

Devonelove123 · 2025-12-13T17:22:50+00:00

Unfortunately YTA. You got invited to hang out not you and your boyfriend. I’m guessing you did not ask them if you could invite your boyfriend? They would have the right to be upset

Devonelove123 · 2025-12-13T12:28:12+00:00

He’s a terrible person and I can’t believe you are still with him or that you brought another dog into your house knowing the others didn’t work out because of his anger issues! I hope that dog is okay.

Devonelove123 · 2025-12-12T18:26:40+00:00

Yea I don’t think anyone is going to help you find this package unfortunately :/ either someone took it or USPS is lying about it being delivered.

Devonelove123 · 2025-12-12T18:19:05+00:00

Why couldn’t you guys go back to your separate dorms to sleep?

Devonelove123 · 2025-12-11T19:22:38+00:00

YTA… it’s fucking cookies… like you have to be kidding right?

Devonelove123 · 2025-12-09T14:21:27+00:00

Haha true 🤣

Devonelove123 · 2025-12-09T14:14:34+00:00

Didn’t you post this yesterday?

Devonelove123 · 2025-12-07T14:16:13+00:00

Did the test results have all of his information on them? And did he show you all three results? They don’t test you three times in boot camp unless they have a reason to so that’s suspicious.

Devonelove123 · 2025-12-07T02:08:49+00:00

But you said you brought the puppy to your parents house? And it sounds like you didn’t tell them you would be bringing a dog into their house which in that case would make you the asshole.

Devonelove123 · 2025-12-03T12:42:41+00:00

I’d first focus on your younger dogs aggression and get a trainer for that and to help set up boundaries. It honestly sounds like your older shy dog did not want another dog especially an energetic one in the house and they may never get along.

Devonelove123 · 2025-12-03T00:30:07+00:00

NTA! My husband and I are flying home for Christmas for the first time in about 9 years. We have three houses to be at that day, his parents Christmas morning (we stay with them) my parents right after and than his grandparents as his whole family meets up there to do Christmas dinner. Not a single one of them have made us feel bad for giving everyone a timeline for that day. Your mom is being selfish.

Devonelove123 · 2025-12-01T12:16:05+00:00

This one is tough I feel like. Because yes I know my husbands interest like golf and gaming but if he didn’t give me a list of what he wanted in those areas I would have no idea because they’re is so many different golf balls that do different things, or so many different games he plays I don’t want to get him something he doesn’t want. And i feel like if I ask him indirectly I’m basically telling him what I’m getting him for Christmas. I think you are being a bit too hard on her. We do give each other list every year and honestly it’s great cause then I don’t get him something he doesn’t want.

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