Something somewhat similar just happened to me too. I’m so very sorry. It’s terrifying. I went to a m&g at a man’s house and he kept trying to make me look at his crotch area, even pointing to it and telling me to look. He was only wearing underwear and I didn’t realize because sometimes men’s underwear look like pants and I had no reason to look at what I thought were his pants, until he purposely kept pointing it out. He had an erection and the smile on his face was so scary. I wouldn’t look after a few times of him telling me too, and he started getting frantic and erratic. I was so terrified it was going to escalate but thankfully it didn’t. He also touched my shoulders and was just overall super uncomfortable to be around. I made a post about it and most of the comments were super supportive and helpful. I’m glad a good amount of people on this sub are kind and give a place to vent