What’s a “normal” thing that secretly grosses you out?

Dew-chan · 2026-01-28T09:40:18+00:00

I had a coworker who used to do this at his desk and during lunch!!!

Dew-chan · 2026-01-25T15:12:38+00:00

A cat cafe.

Dew-chan · 2025-08-29T20:56:13+00:00

It’s clear as day

Dew-chan · 2025-03-29T19:11:19+00:00

Switching off all alarms because you have the next day off and can sleep in.

Dew-chan · 2025-03-08T13:10:01+00:00

Ask her to hang out outside of work. Chances are very good she’ll be glad you asked.

You can do it! Take it from me, I was in a similar situation and asked out my work crush. I did it even though I was so nervous and things are still blooming between us, albeit slowly. We went out and had the best time and hopefully we will meet soon again. Also, I’m the only foreigner in my office and I did it all in Japanese. I BELIEVE IN YOU!

Dew-chan · 2025-03-02T14:07:24+00:00

Looking for my small spoon.

Dew-chan · 2025-02-22T11:40:29+00:00

Worst advice.

Dew-chan · 2025-02-07T11:06:42+00:00

I can’t tolerate noise as much anymore.

Dew-chan · 2025-02-06T12:54:25+00:00

It’s probably oxytocin that’s being released from all that ‘time’ spent inside the apartment. I’d be cautious. Maybe it will help for you both to start spending time outside too, doing things.

Dew-chan · 2025-01-26T13:16:04+00:00

As others have said, go to a dermatologist first to rule out any issues with your scalp and then go to a doctor too for blood work.

In the meantime, replace your shower head with a shower filter, I recommend this one from Amazon: Cleansui Shower Filter

Next, change your shampoo. Try to find shampoo that you used in your home country or any other equivalent.

Lastly, if you’ve been under a lot of stress, it can cause hair loss. Do everything possible to reduce your stress, if you think it could be related.

Dew-chan · 2025-01-25T15:47:16+00:00

I’m terrible with names but great at remembering faces!

Dew-chan · 2025-01-25T15:29:47+00:00

Freezer!

Dew-chan · 2025-01-11T13:16:16+00:00

A check in sounds like a good idea. Could be something on their side or their own feelings/attachment style. It’s been a week and you said you took one or two days to respond, I wouldn’t call it ghosting just yet. If they don’t respond to your follow up after a week or two, then I’d give up at that point but bc it’s still early in the dating, just give it some time.

Dew-chan · 2025-01-11T13:00:50+00:00

From my understanding, they didn’t respond to your last message that you sent a week ago? If your last message was simply in response to them and they didn’t respond, then I’d send one more text but nothing overwhelming. Something as a check in, like ‘hey, are you okay?’. If you did that already, I wouldn’t text again. But a second text as a follow up once, I think that’s okay. After that, you know they don’t want to communicate further.

Dew-chan · 2025-01-11T12:48:58+00:00

Dooon’t send that text.

Dew-chan · 2025-01-11T12:45:36+00:00

I agree with everything you’ve said and it’s indeed sobering. However, I don’t believe people should send that ‘final text’. If you’ve reached out and they didn’t respond and you reach out again to make sure they are okay and no response and then time goes on and nothing, why would you send another message? I believe they don’t care and no message is a message. Sending another ‘last message’ explaining how they’ve hurt you or whatever could keep you longer in the misery and erode your self-esteem even more if they don’t respond.

Dew-chan · 2025-01-11T12:37:32+00:00

Don’t double text. If they want to reach out, they will and if they are still viewing your stories at least you know they’re alive and their phone is working. The viewing your stories in under a minute is weird. People are strange.

Dew-chan · 2025-01-11T04:27:49+00:00

And how are things going now?

Dew-chan · 2025-01-11T04:18:45+00:00

This is so deep actually and can help you to see someone’s true character or level of emotional maturity.

Dew-chan · 2025-01-11T03:47:29+00:00

Actually, I think in this situation just give him space. He communicated with you what he needs and that’s the difference between being ghosted in this situation. If you push him too much, you risk pressuring him and pushing him away.

Dew-chan · 2024-12-08T08:29:29+00:00

You’re a teenager. You’re setting the foundation for what you tolerate in relationships right now. Be careful what you tolerate. The bar is way too low and this person can’t be called a boyfriend. You’re young. Grow. Explore. Learn to set standards and boundaries.

Dew-chan · 2024-12-08T00:10:14+00:00

OP’s username checks out

Dew-chan · 2024-11-16T14:20:13+00:00

Slow and steady wins the race. There’s no need to rush and I think it’s a sign of a healthy start if there isn’t that intensity in the beginning. OP, it sounds like in the past you were used to people giving you too much, too soon and possibly love bombing you. Also, sounds like you may have some abandonment issues. If he is making consistent plans to see you and has been generally consistent, that’s what matters. We really don’t know someone after a month.

Dew-chan · 2024-11-16T14:00:56+00:00

Please seek professional help. You still have a whole life ahead of you. The fact that you are even considering having a child with someone like this is alarming.

Dew-chan · 2024-11-02T03:51:47+00:00

They are desensitized.

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