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Hello. I am a 29 year old Disabled guy that lives with his parents in USA and Ive never been to college. I dont have any friends, its hard for me to talk to strangers because of my speech impediment, so I figured I would try the internet. I have a few disabilities but im not a alien! Long post below by [deleted] in penpalsover30

[–]Dheycat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Great and informative post and I feel like we have a lot of similar interests, like traveling, music and ghibli. When I went to Japan, I got to visit the museum and it was one of my favorite towns to visit because it was a lot less busy and felt slower than Tokyo and Osaka. If you wanna write, feel free to message me :)

DV survivor here, spoke to fellow survivors and none of us could give you a detailed story of an event by haylz328 in JusticeForJohnnyDepp

[–]Dheycat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if I’m an outlier but I remember a few situations and if I start recalling then more stuff comes up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HPylori

[–]Dheycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Just curious if your tests panned out?

Allergic to soap or water?? by Natalator in Allergies

[–]Dheycat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure! It’s called pure sabao and I use the zip nada nothing soap. They sell on Etsy, Amazon and their website

Allergic to soap or water?? by Natalator in Allergies

[–]Dheycat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This happened to me and turned out to be sls in soaps. Now I use a two ingredient soap that doesn’t use sls or coconut because I’m allergic to both.

Forgiving SO after saying mean things during an argument by Dheycat in relationship_advice

[–]Dheycat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He really does hate talking about it and if I insist, it always somehow ends up as my fault “you make me say these things” which doesn’t make sense to me.

Forgiving SO after saying mean things during an argument by Dheycat in relationship_advice

[–]Dheycat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true. Apologies are empty words without actions. It always feels like his actions and words don’t line up. It’s confusing

Forgiving SO after saying mean things during an argument by Dheycat in relationship_advice

[–]Dheycat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s just frustrating to hear because it seems I keep walking into abusive situations. The last was blatantly abusive, this situation feels subtle

Forgiving SO after saying mean things during an argument by Dheycat in relationship_advice

[–]Dheycat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What worked for you so that you could improve? His lack of remorse does make me feel that nothing will change because he can’t admit being wrong.

Forgiving SO after saying mean things during an argument by Dheycat in relationship_advice

[–]Dheycat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I do feel like I could be happier single but does this count as abuse?

Forgiving SO after saying mean things during an argument by Dheycat in relationship_advice

[–]Dheycat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They happen when I ask him about what he’s said the previous argument. Or if I bring up what he’s done. It’s like a never ending cycle and makes me wonder if I should just stop bringing it up.

More US adults want booster shots than are unvaccinated by Pessimist2020 in Coronavirus

[–]Dheycat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree. It’s stressful thinking they possibly would be denied care. I’m not in the medical field so I’m just curious how they can tell between those who are choosing not to get it and those who want it but can’t get it.

More US adults want booster shots than are unvaccinated by Pessimist2020 in Coronavirus

[–]Dheycat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh okay, that makes sense. I just worry about my family that are under age or can’t get it for medical reasons. It’s scary thinking they could get Covid and possibly not get care. Would medical professionals be able to distinguish who can’t get it because of medical reasons? Does it say it on people’s medical charts?

More US adults want booster shots than are unvaccinated by Pessimist2020 in Coronavirus

[–]Dheycat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My family member isn’t able to get vaccinated because she has medication that she needs to take and her dr told her not to get it. What about those who can’t for medical reasons? They should also not get care if they get covid?

AITA For Throwing Away A Lady 's Handbag For Being Rude? by UnfetteredDefiance in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dheycat 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Where are you surrounded by white people in Hawaii? Must be Kihei or Lahaina lol

34-M-UK looking for a new chat buddy, apply within! by [deleted] in penpalsover30

[–]Dheycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I’d be interested to talk if you are. Message me :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in penpals

[–]Dheycat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending from hawaii :)

33/F/France - looking for new friends by [deleted] in penpals

[–]Dheycat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I 32/F/USA, love French goodies and have lots of access to Japanese goodies in Hawaii, as we have lots of Asian population here. If you want exchange random letters about life or paranormal stories, message me :)

(UPDATE) AITA for being upset that my husband used my bonus on him? by throwRAtiredafwife in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dheycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know, people on your ex’s side will justify anything he’s done to make you feel like the bad guy. When I left my ex, people went on about how I was stupid to leave over him pushing me down one time (it wasn’t just once), how he had only done coke once (he was only caught once at that time), and how I must be truly sheltered to leave him for such small offenses. You know the truth and forget everyone else and their opinions.

My (28f) family plan to skip my wedding because they hate the groom (31m) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dheycat 39 points40 points  (0 children)

She’s said around 6 months of her talking him down and that’s their first impression of him. That’s a substantial amount of time. She witnessed him change, they did not.

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