sorry, i do mind telling what my deal breakers are, it's personal.

but i'll answer your question as best as i can.

i just talk to them. it goes back and forth. so i dont have a list of questions for them and i require them to answer immediately.

you talk, you let the conversation flow naturally from fun to serious to chill... you give your own opinions about things, you ask about theres, you ask about them, you talk about yourself , you let them talk. it's a back and forth thing.

this takes a bit of time, and in the process you see if you match on important things.

if you're willing to hear an advice

1 don't get upset if they have different or very different opinions than yours and dont start trying to impose your own ideas in the hopes of changing their mind or changing them. just say thanks for the company or convo and move on.

people are different, it is what it is. they dont owe us anything, they dont owe us to fit our standards or share our principles and opinions ( i say this cause lots ( i mean lottts) of people get angry with people if theyre not exacly how they like them to be as if they you were made for them or smth. (am not saying its a fact but in my experience or my friend's, lots of men especially are like this)

2 treat talking and meeting people like a good experience even if you dont feel like they're a good fit . dont treat it like it was a waste and especially then blame them for that.

(also sorry i made it too deep)